Why chase men when we can chase the bag instead?

Amy3e13 · 2020-07-29T11:27:32+00:00

Yes! If you don't do things for yourself and make yourself a priority other people won't either. And don't let anyone shame you for it. Just treat yourself like you would treat a person you care for and don't be so hard on yourself.

MissKinkykittykat · 2020-07-29T16:11:14+00:00

Treating yourself is the best thing ever.

I used to feel incredible guilt for spending anything on myself. Now I don't hesitate if it won't impact my finances. Designer bags? Get in my basket. Luxury swimwear? Yes please. Shoes? I'll have both styles.

Sadly I'm still uncomfortable with gifts as I'm so used to them coming with ulterior motives. My ex would purchase expensive gifts and hand them to me in front of others. Then demand the money once we were alone. If I had the money, I would've bought it myself.

shroomypupper · 2020-07-29T13:35:50+00:00

Just bought myself a new car and phone (necessary for work), on the lookout for a sailboat now. I’m the best partner I could ever ask for 🤗

Lingueen · 2020-07-29T16:37:23+00:00

As Flo Milli said, “heard they were looking for me, well bitch, I’m in my bag” 😌

Littlebunny080 · 2020-07-29T19:11:03+00:00

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rosapalmera · 2020-07-29T16:36:49+00:00

Three words:

TREAT YO SELF

RedditRabbitt · 2020-07-29T16:06:08+00:00

I’m married but this is still me. I’m picky so I buy myself whatever I want and then wrap them for Christmas and my girls laugh when I say daddy is really good at picking gifts (knowing I bought and wrapped them) 😂

RebelRylee · 2020-07-29T14:12:02+00:00

😂😂😂 thats funny. That true though

lil_monstera · 2020-07-29T16:37:27+00:00

Not chasing the bag but chasing fulfillment which no man could ever provide for me

Molamola14 · 2020-07-29T17:56:28+00:00

Me and good quality handbags 😩

2020-07-29T17:05:43+00:00

relateable

Myplummms · 2020-07-30T04:55:31+00:00

When I finance myself, the gifts are plenteous and consistent. I don't "owe" anybody anything either.

misspellmyname99 · 2020-07-29T16:09:57+00:00

I’m currently shopping for a new spin bike. Instead of focusing on finding a partner, I’m putting all of my time and energy into myself and becoming my best self physically, mentally and emotionally. My next partner will be someone who has also put this effort into themselves as well.

brit_braun · 2020-07-29T18:05:41+00:00

Just be single 🤷‍♀️ don’t chase men if you don’t care

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