Y’all rock!

Incredible_Alligator · 2020-09-08T19:10:23+00:00

I think one of the most interesting things is so many people are describing my ex. It's like we all dated the same emotionally undeveloped, video game/porn addict who can't cook, is broke and has a filthy apartment with a mattress on the floor 🤦🏼‍♀️

fim_de_semana · 2020-09-08T20:02:59+00:00

This community is almost overwhelmingly supportive, for someone who’s not used to getting support like me.

DM_ME_YOUR_KITTENS · 2020-09-08T19:38:46+00:00

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Curious_pari · 2020-09-08T19:59:45+00:00

Literally years and years of these feelings in the gut but not knowing what they are coz no one around got it, now finally made sense!

While there are some cringe moments looking back, there are also those QUEEN moments that I'm so proud of now.

-When back in college, the guy I liked said he's not able to choose between me and another girl, I straightway backed out and told him I ain't competing with anyone. (He totally didn't expect that)

-When I made this rule for myself of never going back after its over.

-When my friends were getting married left, right n centre but I held my ground and didn't settle for whoever came my way.

-Whenever I broke it off coz he disrespected me.

-Whenever there were moments I fell, I still found myself again and I know not to wait for anyone to help me back on my feet.

All that was worth it and I'm gonna hold on to them, while I work on other things too, thanks to this sub. Really!

Kimpractical · 2020-09-08T22:35:22+00:00

This community has definitely helped me a lot. For the past several years I’ve done nothing but try to improve myself through therapy... and like every other possible way (career, health, etc.). And for the for the life of me couldn’t figure out why it wasn’t ever enough. No matter what I did I could just not find a guy who would treat with respect. And people always say “well the common denominator has to be you”. So for the longest time I blamed myself. But ever since joining this community I feel like a weight has been lifted. I’m not alone in my experience and I can finally stop blaming myself. I feel so much better about being single now

2020-09-08T20:41:01+00:00

love you guys <3

2020-09-08T21:04:29+00:00

so wholesome, I love it ❤️

figureskaterforlife · 2020-09-08T21:49:16+00:00

Infinitely thankful for this sub. So so glad I found it!!! ❤ All you Queens rock!

bluedreamdream · 2020-09-08T21:26:12+00:00

I'm so glad i found you all!! 🔥💪😭🦋💕

newreformedlurker · 2020-09-08T22:48:13+00:00

I love this community! This is the first subreddit on Reddit that I wanted to be a part of, not just a lurker. Thank you mods for making this possible and thank you queens 🥰🥰🥰

hvwthrowaway · 2020-09-09T02:19:55+00:00

this sub has brought me more clarity and affirmation in 2 weeks than years of talking to friends and overthinking did. the confusion about how my situationship ended hindered me to fully move on, and I'm embarrassed it's still so triggering since it's been years...but I feel like FDS is finally giving me some of the answers I needed.

Plants_haveprotein · 2020-09-09T09:03:28+00:00

I love this post! It’s exactly how I feel when I log on every day ❤️ I can’t believe what a difference a supportive community of women has made in my life. And a completely online community!! It’s remarkable!!

catch_me_a_dream · 2020-09-09T19:14:14+00:00

Its like after years of being gaslit about my life and dating experiences even from my own gender you find out you are not crazy or imagining things. 🤗

7Cuervos · 2020-09-09T21:57:59+00:00

@ this entire community ❤

Title	Y’all rock!
Author	owlwriteapoem
Upvotes	1212
Comments	28
Date	September 8, 2020 7:07 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/yall-rock.212554 https://theredarchive.com/post/212554

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