Cohabitation is Hell

CuntMonteCristo · 2019-08-08T11:21:30+00:00

You have to be the Stalin of your home and run it with an iron fist or you will be taken down inch by inch.

DannyTTT55 · 2019-08-08T09:53:05+00:00

Sounds like she shot her load too soon. Usually all that bullshit comes after she cane get her hands on half of what you own

berite1day · 2019-08-08T09:39:21+00:00

What if you’re just roommates and not FWB?

U-94 · 2019-08-08T11:32:22+00:00

You could use it to your advantage to become a workaholic. Put an annoying person in your home so you never want to be there. Now you're putting in extra hours, making more money.*

*I actually learned this while just having an annoying GF (didn't cohabitate) but work was my only safe space away from her demands.

Jarin01 · 2019-08-08T14:17:23+00:00

That sounds like how it happened to me back before I went MGTOW. I was at my girl friends place all the time so I thought it would make sense and save us money to move in together. The day I moved in with her was the day that having a girlfriend stopped being fun. I was too much of a blue beta though to just get out. I wanted a wife and a family and I thought I could make things work. Well you can't, things just kept getting worse. The extra money dried up because we needed a bigger place and next thing I knew she was pregnant. I kept trying to do the "right" thing instead of following my gut and doing what I wanted and it led me down a road of nearly ten years of misery. The previous three times a day sex went to once a week, then once a month, then once every three or four months. Finally discovered the red pill about two years ago and while getting divorced was painful I finally started to put my life together again.

KneeDeepThought · 2019-08-08T12:58:31+00:00

Oh man yeah.... just the hours of wasted time trying to get into whatever bullshit TV show she was binging on that week make me cringe. Don't let other people monopolize your time with their neediness.

SecretElderberry · 2019-08-08T17:22:50+00:00

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vitruvius_legion · 2019-08-08T09:34:47+00:00

Amen, brother!

arsenewengerjacket · 2019-08-08T15:02:43+00:00

Ha ha, hate that mate, I left my ex wife nearly 5 years ago, live on my own, I will never ever live with a woman again in my life, if I have a woman over it's to fuck then she gets the fuck out and leaves me alone.

Post reminds me how good I have it, 5 years of peace and bliss in my man cave.

guilhermefdias · 2019-08-08T20:35:24+00:00

Oh yeah, you don’t save money by being together. You end up spending the saved money on boring outings and family obligations.

That for me it's the biggest reason not to share a home.

Boring activities, all around.

Walking for nothing.

More walking.

Useless walking.

strainer123 · 2019-08-08T20:54:34+00:00

Exactly, I was thinking this a few days ago, you naturally think women will save your money because hey, its 2 people paying for rent instead of one, nope, you start spending way more on everything, even toilet paper, one roll will last me 6 months, put a chick in your home, and you'll go through a roll every 2 days. Food? Always getting deliveries, going out to restaurants, its boring to stay at home, you need to take them to bars, cinema, etc, etc, expensive bitches man.

dvbtupanit · 2019-08-08T10:22:38+00:00

Why do you complain, just leave.

bsga22 · 2019-08-08T11:08:14+00:00

Is money keeping you from just leaving at the moment?

thatguy1231231 · 2019-08-08T12:02:29+00:00

You know da wae, my bruther!

OLD-TRUCK · 2019-08-08T12:22:29+00:00

At least you are in an apartment and can move once the lease is up. Imagine if you owned a house and were trying to get her out.

NathanHollister · 2019-08-08T14:49:09+00:00

Also, after 8-10 years, the state decides you are married by common law, and then she moves out and gets half your stuff!

Cade_Connelly_13 · 2019-08-08T15:07:09+00:00

Saving this for every time some stupid horny young man with no life experience shits on me for telling him cohabitation is a terrible idea. "Durrr you're just a stupid old TradCon get with the times maaan..."

Um no buddy you're gonna have a few weeks at most of your sex all the time fantasy...and then months if not years regretting the decision you made 'cause you thought with the wrong head. Cohabitation is actually worse than a Western ~~marriage contract~~ blackmail.

the-lone-squid · 2019-08-08T13:13:16+00:00

Sounds like you just need a spine. The very first time my ex tried that bullshit i told her to knock it off or move on out

Valor0us · 2019-08-08T20:12:09+00:00

Recently learned this as I let my ex move into my condo with me. Any money she contributed to the mortgage went right back into dinner dates and extra groceries. She watched TV all the time and constantly had a complaint about something I did or how I act. I don't get how any man would put up with this behavior.

Anyway, single now and can do whatever I want however I want in my own home. The way it should be.

guitarguy1749 · 2019-08-09T02:28:21+00:00

even back when I dated women the thought of cohabitation turned me off. I mean after spending a weekend with a girl I was like so ready to get rid of her and have some alone time.

MuleFool42 · 2019-08-08T14:21:17+00:00

Dude, get out! :)

oirectine00 · 2019-08-08T22:19:26+00:00

Let's just say I'm paying nearly a thousand dollars more in rent living alone in a 500 square foot apartment than I was living at home in a three floor house with my mom, and its worth every penny.

Long_Range_Shooter · 2019-08-08T23:17:48+00:00

I had a friend, I'd say maybe a year ago, ask me if I would ever let a woman move into my house if I wasn't having a relationship (SEX) with her? I laughed and said not unless I was nailing you twice a day, seven days a week. Yeah sure I'll let you and your three kids move in with me, NOT.

kaczan3 · 2019-08-09T00:39:03+00:00

" I have to constantly listen to shallow videos blaring about bullshit drama, makeup, shopping, etc. "

Seriously, why do women watch stuff so laud? Is it to inform everyone of what they;re doing because they are the center of the universe?

FindingKeeping · 2019-08-08T17:01:23+00:00

Thanks for reminding about my past

TheLastMgtow · 2019-08-08T18:09:14+00:00

Im surprised you still in it, and you seem already fluent in mgtow. Most men in ltrs become a shadow of their former selves, and take a year to get themselves back. So take it slow, prepare for the break up, plan ahead. Protect yourself from any backlash from her. Potential false allegations, stalking. Or just the typical intrigue, leave all mutual friends, save one or two that should be clearly and undoubtfully loyal to you, or ditch those too if they display any sign of whiteknighting or neutrality.

Read some successful cases here. Where they planned one month ahead. And suddenly one specific day, they pack all her shit in boxes, and leave them outside for her to collect, and change locks. Ghost and block all media and contact. Works like a charm, and Anything else is risky.

You dont owe her anything, and they are absolutely brutal if they want to leave you. So have no qualms about it, if you want to dump her, do it the safest way possible.

And say with me brother, i will be free and i will thrive again, and become the beast im supposed to be.

Remember a lot of mgtows are one blowjob away from the plantation. Dont be that mgtow, that is all talk talk, mgtow this and that, and those tradcucks that are all this and that but then wifey enters the room with strapon and its over again. ahahah

civcinco · 2019-08-08T18:48:19+00:00

I don't understand how you got caught? You were going to be roommates to help with the rent and then you started banging her?

Or she was your girlfriend that you invited to live with you?

FlyingSexistPig · 2019-08-08T19:54:16+00:00

Amen brother. Preach!

Safe_Dentist · 2019-08-08T20:03:38+00:00

> Yeah sure, we should move in together to save on rent

This is socialist way of thinking at the very core. Just like they always pushing for public transportation, BTW. Sure, this is economy of scale, and all that, but at expense of free will.

lastlaugh100 · 2019-08-09T12:25:46+00:00

My ex used the "I'm going to stare at my phone until I fall asleep" tactic to avoid sex.

She also used the "I'm going to hide in the bathroom until you fall asleep" tactic.

You can't punish bad behavior when you live together

[deleted] · 2019-09-13T23:31:53+00:00

"That music you're listening to is so childish". (what wrong with '90s music nostalgia?)
"Waaaatt, you bought another xbox game, you already have so much of them". (I get shamed for buying cheap $10 games with my own money..)
"My cat comes with me when we will live together". (stinky cat that sheds hair and walks on your dinner table and sleeps in her bed. Giant shittest)
"I'm going to decorate when I move in". (I'm a minimalist. Don't want chotskies)

Freedom is not worth splitting your rent. For me it isn't.

Did you know women just devour toiletpaper at a rate 4x men do?

Now, my gf is a nice girl. But cohabitation is not something I'm planning for because I can think of dozens of other reasons not to do so. And that is fine right. Every human needs there space. Some more than others. The whole living together thing is not natural after all. When humans lived 50.000 years ago people lived way more outside. The cave or hut was just to sleep in.

KevinSpaceyBlewMe · 2019-08-08T13:43:26+00:00

Sounds like the problem is the particular woman you chose to move in with lmao

Extending these behaviors to all women is so fucking stupid, like 99% of the posts on this pathetic subreddit

Title	Cohabitation is Hell
Author	SecretElderberry
Upvotes	346
Comments	94
Date	August 8, 2019 9:24 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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