Hmmm

escalover · 2019-07-31T01:33:55+00:00

Because that would be L.O.G.I.C.A.L.

goukaradi · 2019-07-31T02:54:02+00:00

Been screaming this point for almost 10 years. No cps, court, or child support worker has ever answered me, they just turn their head down and away and say sorry thats how it works

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-07-31T02:03:30+00:00

So the mother can corrupt the children and take the father's resources. That's why kids.

JerryNewton7 · 2019-07-31T03:26:36+00:00

Because we live in a society that rewards women for destroying marriages and families.

Tallsmarthandsome · 2019-07-31T03:25:46+00:00

If a women a cant afford a child, she should keep it in her pants.... thats what men are told, and I support equality!

justtenofusinhere · 2019-07-31T01:42:58+00:00

And that's a prime example of why you ignore what they say and only watch what they do.

The child MUST have the money so they give it to mom and then make sure she can not be held responsible for how she spends it.

cracksniffer666 · 2019-07-31T02:44:27+00:00

Damn this is depressingly logical lol. I'm getting really sick of this shit. It's like once you learn about it, and see your friends simping, and headed to the plantation, it just becomes a bummer.

It's something you truly can't unlearn, and I guess I'd rather know how reality actually works, than barreling behind some fat wife in Bed Bath & Beyond, wondering to myself where it all went wrong.

[deleted] · 2019-07-31T01:33:59+00:00

Not to mention that there’s like a 99% chance that the mother is going to totally fuck up the kids

PhoneOnMyName · 2019-07-31T04:22:11+00:00

Because 80% of money she will spend on herself...

21354641654684 · 2019-07-31T03:43:08+00:00

Because someone has to finance the woman, and the government doesn't want to/can't afford to do it. They give custody to the mother so the father has no choice. This model wouldn't work if the father got custody.

reinaldo866 · 2019-07-31T02:17:09+00:00

Because all men are rapist don't you know?

I assume I don't need the "/s" since it's very obvious

WanderlustYouth · 2019-07-31T03:47:30+00:00

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mrscissorhands4 · 2019-07-31T03:40:56+00:00

It is sad that us father's have to fight for 50% joint and physical custody when it should be the standard until one or both parents prove otherwise.

gprime · 2019-07-31T05:18:51+00:00

That was the case until 1839, when Caroline Norton, who cheated on her husband with Lord Melbourne, used her high society status to influence the passage of the Custody of Infants Act 1839, which represented the first legal installation of the Tender Years Doctrine, upending the whole of legal precedent in the civilized world that the provider father retained custody following divorce. And, as you would expect, that went on to infect other countries whose legal tradition relied upon English common law.

PigsAndCats · 2019-07-31T11:08:48+00:00

It's a career move for half the female population under the age of 40. Have multiple kids with multiple men and collect. They get child support, food stamps, welfare, free insurance, subsidized rent. It's disgusting.

krusecontrol91 · 2019-07-31T05:14:49+00:00

Cause she gets the money to pocket from dad for convincing the state he is unworthy of keeping the kids part time and owes her a yearly salary to do his part for him.

Simple.

Also I see the salty single mother lurkers downvoting this. It was your choice, don’t kill the messenger for your shitty life and failed responsibility. Good luck

smfuel87 · 2019-07-31T05:56:50+00:00

Yeah, no fucking shit..

Fucking communist wealth redistribution scam.

starkfuture · 2019-07-31T06:48:43+00:00

Then who would pay mom?.

"I don't care, just don't get me into this" - society as a whole has been conspiring to disable this option to men since the beginning of time. But this is what we have, being MGTOW.

Only we can. Enjoy brothers.

Jamez4401 · 2019-07-31T04:05:00+00:00

I think here in Philippines, whoever have the more money and can give better welfare to the child has the rights to the kids and of course, if the other party is in the wrong ie, cheating or crime, that party won't have the rights and might also be banned from seeing the kids until they turn 18.

Edit: I have lots of male cousins who're in divorce and they have the custody of their child since they're wealthier and/or isn't the one cheating.

julianleung · 2019-07-31T04:21:13+00:00

Because suddenly the traditionism returns.

valas76 · 2019-07-31T10:57:17+00:00

This right here is why some of us remain in abusive relationships, we want to be in our children's lives. Myself I have a countdown clock. In the state I m in at age 12 children are allowed to choose which parent they live with. Right now I have 7 yrs 9 months and 14 days.

Aposematicly · 2019-07-31T03:21:00+00:00

This is actually what happens in Thailand.

The person with resources gets custody.

My Brother is enjoying full Custody of his 2 y.o. son (involved a solicitor but no court) - Mother knew

it was pointless going to court for her.

[deleted] · 2019-07-31T10:05:46+00:00

At the age of 10 I moved to my dad because I was "unmanageable". I suddenly became very manageable.

My mother, at a young age prepared me very well for the women of this world and showed me what they're all about. My dad has been a champ in being my shield and preventing me from falling into the unseen traps.

That's why I am 27 years old, never married and never had a pregnancy scare that was not lied/made up.

SupremeGentleman92 · 2019-07-31T05:44:04+00:00

How much does it even cost to raise a kid?

pangolin001 · 2019-07-31T10:05:33+00:00

What else is mom supposed to do... Work?

[deleted] · 2019-07-31T15:25:57+00:00

The state gives the child to the lower income parent (almost always the woman) so that the wealthier parent can sue for custody and generate more court revenue for years. It's about money in this instance, not gender.

NoCharism · 2019-07-31T05:05:58+00:00

because whamen tend to spend all the money instead of keeping it for themself

1st10Amendments · 2019-07-31T05:50:18+00:00

Bought the one bob

flailing_uterus · 2019-07-31T06:44:25+00:00

Because the fathers too busy working for the money to raise the kids?? Isn’t it simple

balachandratejas · 2019-07-31T08:34:47+00:00

Because kids the the bargaining leverage. A man cannot say no to kids needs.

adzedon · 2019-07-31T10:00:47+00:00

Because dad has to work for his money?

ZergSuperHighway · 2019-07-31T10:26:18+00:00

Women use children as a manipulation tool to extract whatever they can from fathers. Typically -going against the mainstream belief that fathers are all emotionless, apathetic animals- the father is the one who cares about the development and well-being foe the child and want to provide what is best for that child. Most of the single mothers I know are unstable.

DixieNourmos · 2019-07-31T14:42:35+00:00

Women are useless. MGTOW for life.

SatoshiNokomata · 2019-07-31T16:47:32+00:00

If Mom can't afford us without Dad's income even though her new boyfriend pays for everything even though his income isn't counted yet she still benefits from it, and even though even welfare counts all income even cash gifts, then why does Mommy want to have multiple incomes?

I'll wait...

TheColorCringe · 2019-07-31T05:05:35+00:00

PAPA?!

quickGunShoot · 2019-07-31T05:42:19+00:00

“Shhh, don’t speak about it in front of mom”

Hitman986 · 2019-07-31T08:12:24+00:00

Because being with a mother is more expensive than money

KaZZuX0 · 2019-07-31T09:40:01+00:00

That is exactly what I told to my friend who's mom is doing minimum wage

supercullen004 · 2019-07-31T10:21:45+00:00

Because greed and vengeance.

arun25mblr31 · 2019-07-31T11:14:09+00:00

How can divorce lawyers, child support agencies make a living then?

BushcraftHatchet · 2019-07-31T13:28:28+00:00

Because for some reason the courts geocentrically think that the woman is the more nurturing of the two parents and forget that the children general can be provided for better by the man and also have many lessons that they generally learn from their father.

lulusalem · 2019-07-31T15:47:27+00:00

I remember when my dad paid my half brother's mum to take him from a third world country so he could get some education. 12 years later he has a degree under his belt and living comfortably making 6 figures.

dirtblugill · 2019-07-31T15:28:23+00:00

because they need DRAMA.

kingmanifestation · 2019-07-31T16:32:33+00:00

Well because the government would have to take care of the prostitutes

SilenceIsGolden321 · 2019-07-31T21:07:32+00:00

Because the point is to enslave men.

wellbreastfed · 2019-07-31T01:31:32+00:00

Dkdexter · 2019-07-31T12:39:46+00:00

Cos dads probs a cunt

parentectomy · 2019-07-31T14:13:10+00:00

Because it takes a lot more than money to raise kids.

FCWIHN · 2019-07-31T20:54:18+00:00

Because dad left us before we were born, Timmy.

O O F

HighAfBullfrog · 2019-08-05T17:10:57+00:00

The long-haired child gets priority.

eman_5064 · 2019-08-07T02:31:40+00:00

Unfortunately we’ve got biased courts who always give the mom the custody while at the same time the father still has to pay child support.

crynoS1 · 2019-08-09T01:42:58+00:00

If we have to make men pay for covering half the cost of raising a child, why do you all think he would be happy to pay for all of it?

livingpieceofshit · 2019-08-11T18:15:42+00:00

The Legal system is pretty fucked but this implies that a woman who makes very little money but loves her kids should have to give up custody. I don't like that, and it isn't the genders cause the system fucks men so hard that I would probably be angrier if this was a feminist sub and it was saying the opposite.

mhahka · 2019-08-13T19:51:10+00:00

Back in the day-day ulit was automatically the mother.

Now all states disregard gender and leave it to the parents to decide. Most of the time BOTH the mother and father agree that the child/children would be more fit to be with the mother especially in their tender years.

If both parents want custody then the child (or each child) if within a certain age can decide who they want to go with. most the time they really cant decide so all parties agree on a joint custody or partial custody.

Source

iamhawks · 2019-11-03T22:05:28+00:00

Because dad drinks

Real_Thanos · 2020-01-10T01:50:21+00:00

Both parents can make money to support the family.

catf000d · 2020-01-12T06:47:24+00:00

Because our dad used to beat us all the time and mommy had no choice stop sugar coating our past Jim

xKalista · 2019-08-01T14:10:02+00:00

I know this is a very specific case but I was raised by my mom who was an amazing mother while my father is a narcisssist that almost ruined my life. I'm glad I only got to see him once a week, almost punched him the face multiple times. My father had a lot of money while my mother didn't.

FightClubHamster69 · 2019-07-31T09:36:16+00:00

Cuz dad is evil

nerrox9899 · 2019-07-31T10:33:03+00:00

Because dad have to work to earn that money and can't take care of job and kids at once. :)

shaky_fakey · 2019-07-31T12:21:54+00:00

Money’s not the only thing. A lot of divorce cases happen because of alcoholism. There are lots of high-earners who are alcoholics/ drunk every day. Sorry, but a lot of them are guys...

citrus-- · 2019-07-31T14:16:42+00:00

Well if dad has the kids, mom is gonna pay. No difference either way. Someone does have to pay

NapalmSunshine · 2019-07-31T12:37:54+00:00

To be fair, here, women aren’t granted child support necessarily because they can’t afford to raise the kids without his money. The court makes any non-custodial parent pay child support because both parent should be contributing.

I could talk all day about how more dads should have custody. But that isn’t the bottom line.

ButtbuttinCreed · 2019-07-31T05:39:22+00:00

So you’re gonna work 8 hours a day and take care of 3 kids, and have enough time to sleep AND have fun with them? You’re gonna clean the house too? And cook? What’s your logic here exactly? There are only 24 hours a day you know

MateuszVaper69 · 2019-07-31T10:48:43+00:00

Because the father was abusive piece od shit for example? Wtf is wrong with yall

grandmastercuck · 2019-07-31T06:32:33+00:00

Because dad probably went his own way and disappeared

AfrikaanoBinJewin · 2019-07-31T05:41:36+00:00

Why have kids with a woman you know won’t be a decent mother in the first place? MenWhoAreIdiots

Antipc02 · 2019-07-31T03:29:08+00:00

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jdog11212 · 2019-07-31T06:53:54+00:00

Because dad doesn't want us.

-dissapointment- · 2019-07-31T05:58:20+00:00

Because that's what child support is for because each parent loves their child and deserves time with them

Broncattus · 2019-07-31T07:37:14+00:00

because Dad has anger issues

QuantemCipher · 2019-07-31T04:40:10+00:00

Maybe dad's an asshole?

Title	Hmmm
Author	parentectomy
Upvotes	3613
Comments	223
Date	July 31, 2019 1:25 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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