Why the resentment towards Chad?

silive · 2018-02-01T17:27:48+00:00

I'm very grateful to Chads because those simpletons have shown me what women are really like. And what I've seen, can not be unseen. They saved me lots of cash, heartache and a life of indentured servitude perhaps...

2018-02-01T18:13:59+00:00

We don't hate Chad. We don't even hate women. We just recognize the female nature and do our best to survive it/avoid it.

secant128 · 2018-02-01T17:31:25+00:00

I know chads that are mgtow as well, no resentment.

2018-02-01T17:35:13+00:00

Lol nobody has resentment towards “ chads” but incels that pop every once in awhile

DangZagnut · 2018-02-01T17:31:28+00:00

Chad is a meme

JStheHammer · 2018-02-01T17:39:19+00:00

My boss is named Chad. He seems ok.

gods_bones · 2018-02-01T17:26:09+00:00

You're right. We should feel sympathy for Chad. He's an endangered species growing more and more extinct every day. #SaveTheChads

beastmodeking · 2018-02-01T17:58:39+00:00

simps aka blue pill men are angry at Chad. once you accept the redpill as reality I don't think many men are angry at Chad anymore

Marque01 · 2018-02-01T17:23:46+00:00

Sounds good to me.

Chad can have them :)

SamCasey98 · 2018-02-01T17:27:09+00:00

Chads are like NWALT. They are temporary dream states that will ultimately collapse in a fit of despair. Your bitter disparagement is a misinterpretation of the brothers' issuing fair warning to others.

bonusfruit · 2018-02-01T20:59:48+00:00

Non-chads, being human, want love and sex from women. Non-chad is told both directly and indirectly since childhood that love and sex is earned by being nice, attentive, and supporting of women. And spending money on them. Non-chad tries this. It doesn't work. Confused non-Chad sees Chad being obnoxious and getting rewarded for it with endless pussy. Non-chad is confused and frustrated. Then non-Chad is told that he should never have expected love or sex just because he was nice, attentive, and spent money on women. Non-chad is an evil, entitled, oppressive rapist for ever thinking that playing by the rules he was taught to play by would get him anywhere. Non-chad discovers the redpill. Non-chad attempts to mimic chad. Fails. Non-chad disvovers the black pill, that chad is genitics. Without the hieght and looks, non-chad is merely a creep who treats women badly. Only chad can be obnoxious and get pussy for it. Non-chad is damned for trying, damned for failing, damned for expressing any frustration about the rules, damned for attempting to emulate Chad(pua). Non chad cannot win. Directing any hate toward women makes non-Chad a threat. Non-chad instead directs hate at Chad. There you go

thenibelung · 2018-02-01T18:01:09+00:00

Chads also get cheated on, belittled, divorced and stripped from their resources. No one is safe from the female backstab, the pussy that bites. It’s just their nature.

TheRuralJuror918 · 2018-02-01T18:01:43+00:00

I once knew a fellow named Chad... whose life was far from bad... he had many ill's... like fraud and pills... they landed him in the Federal Pen!

True story about a Chad I knew growing up who, ironically, was actually named Chad.

joewhyit · 2018-02-01T17:44:38+00:00

I don’t have any resentment towards Chads. It’s like, that’d require giving a fuck about what they’re doing with their lives, and I find the older I get, the less I’m motivated to give a fuck about anyone other than myself. So, whatever, Chad gonna Chad. Idgaf.

BobTheCube · 2018-02-01T18:41:13+00:00

I don’t hate Chad unless he feels the need to prove his dominance over me and deliberately inconveniences me to do so.

MesaBoogeyMan · 2018-02-01T23:53:11+00:00

My buddy is a Chad. He started dating this chic who just got out of a 4 year relationship. She said she only wanted to casually see each other for sex. He was like "cool!" 2 months later he told me they had huge fight over him not posting pictures of them on facebook. He said she immediately pulled the "what are we" . So he started posting photos of them in matching pjamas and shit.

Couple months later she started crying in a public place because she saw a new family with baby. My friend claims hes deadset against marriage and kids. So she lost it. Then she got angry he didnt want to look at getting a place together.

On weekends we had built a music studio in his basement. She freaked out saying "so you definitely dont want to move out"

This was a span of 5 months. Fast forward to yesterday. I asked if he wanted to make some music. His reply " yeah sounds good my gf works all weekend" ..... i cancelled and said. Nah second thought I got plans.

My idiot friend has no idea whats in store for him. Moral of the story? Chads are stupid.

SuspectedLumber · 2018-02-01T18:47:10+00:00

I've been a reader on here for over a year, between accounts - I've never seen one post "bitterly disparaging Chad". Seems to me you're trying to sneak in some kind of b.s.

FUCK_REDDIT_22 · 2018-02-01T18:49:26+00:00

RULE 7: NO TONE POLICING

allow those guys to vent about their shit this subreddit is a "hospital" for men to be healed and go their own way we don't need people complaining about them venting their fustrations of life here

burningrangers · 2018-02-01T18:55:08+00:00

10 or so years ago I probably would've been jealous of "Chad" and his ability to seem to get women on easy mode and wondered why so many girls fawned and/or were hung up on him despite bitching about him being an asshole/terrible bf.

Nowadays I just look at him as a PUA playing the life lottery and many are losing via having to pay child support and dealing with baby mama drama assuming he never settled down or had marriages that lasted less than 5 years.

mgtow-zen · 2018-02-01T19:55:48+00:00

I laugh at them.

Aguyandamoose · 2018-02-01T23:37:13+00:00

I rarely try to speak for everyone, but I think I can say most people have, at some point in their lives, been both the Chad and the beta orbiter. Hell, at one point in my life, I was the Chad and the beta with the same fucking girl. It was when I was in college, and she had a high school boyfriend who was a simp, but was genuinely one of the nicest dudes I have ever met in my life. She cheated on him with me, (first time I had the opportunity to be the one cheated with rather than the one cheated on) then told him about it, and when he tried to make it work, dumped him and started dating me, after which (In retrospect, it was oh so predictable. I know, I was a fucking moron at the time. Shut up.) point I became the beta and she started cheating on me with another dude. I dumped her, she started dating that dude, and then cheated on him, etc. Lather, rinse, repeat.

Either way, it made no difference, because it was the presence of the female that was the toxic influence on my life, not my position as a Chad or a simp. That girl fucked up my entire life for a few years, and all I have to show for it is the wisdom to never stick my balls in that bear trap ever again. So ultimately, I call it a fair trade.

sadpandathrowaway76 · 2018-02-01T19:59:23+00:00

Collectively we don't have resentment.. hell some of us can be easily put in the category of Chads as a lot of us still date. (mostly for sex obviously our #1 rule is we are not looking for marriage)

What I personally resent is connected to a specific stereotypical Chad characters:

Dude in my Gym early 40s already divorced (lost house) and paying some money to ex (no kids), who after learning that I don't go out to bars to "pick up chicks", first asks me if I'm gay... then is being sure there must be something "wrong" with me.. and even expressed a concern that he may help me because obviously everything we do in life and ever will be must be to a one and specific goal.. to "SCORE!" DUDE!

This is a neutral example.. bc despite the fact that this dude is socially "a tool" I like him and box with him on a weekly basis. But there are many more examples of similar shaming tactics Im sure you experienced.

Feminists are talking about "toxic masculinity" well that's what should be called toxic in the first place.. that notion that YOU MUST go to plantation and be a REAL MAN=GOOD BOY.

To summarize: I don't resent good looking guys even if they are terribly blue pilled white knights .. I resent in general all people who think they know better how my life should be.

ManIsWalking · 2018-02-01T19:09:55+00:00

Those damn Chase, taking all our womyans.... and our jobs!!!!

But seriously, there are MGTOW chads. It's not really a hate for chads, they are just part of the hypergamous formula. Imo, there should be more resentment twords Beta bux, as those are the true enablers of women's shit.

If Billy Beta wasn't there to finance these whores, some of them would think twice about fucking up their meal ticket.

officerkondo · 2018-02-01T19:10:21+00:00

Why the resentment towards Chad?

Why the resentment towards "the rich"? Same reason. We tend to hate that which we cannot have dangled in front of our face. The resentful ones are still in the anger phase. Sadly for them, many of them will never leave it.

I hasten to add that Chad is often MGTOW. In fact, many MGTOW men have never heard of "MGTOW". They are just high-status men who never commit to a woman long-term. Bill Maher and John Cusack are MGTOW, but they aren't monks, either.

Every man must determine his own path. As for me, I have come to think of women as water and fire were considered in days of yore: "a very good seruaunt, but it is a cruell mayster"

Adiaphoron · 2018-02-01T21:09:51+00:00

Chad’s fun time is only a momentary fenomenon. He will fuck around for some time and then sooner or later his snowflake will get pregnant, his ass will be trapped or he will have to deal with some other sort of misery.

account4189 · 2018-02-01T22:54:03+00:00

Why do you disparage others for feelings? People can't control resentment anymore than they can control happiness or sadness. You can somewhat control actions - controlling emotions? Lol.

DavidShekelburg · 2018-02-01T22:59:19+00:00

Because Chad is a PUA who preaches that pussy is the measure of male worth. No resentment to Chads who don't.

Rimefang · 2018-02-01T23:34:07+00:00

No resentment. A Chad took a girl I liked in HS after saying all the shit he liked about her. I was upset until later I learned I never hated him or even his actions. That's just the way things are. She was hot and we are the chasers. It was her I was upset at because after they broke up, I was essentially labeled "Plan B". HE broke up with her. I'm guessing he got sick of her shit.

It took a while for that to sink in, but sink in it did. Be nobody's safety net. Be nobody's footstool. A relationship is not servitude. It must be equal or it doesn't work. Why do you think there are so many divorces? Women are selfish, and we raise them on that ideal. Don't believe me? "My princess!", "Daddys little girl!", or my personal favorite, "You can do anything men can do." Sure you can. Come work in construction in 100+ degree weather. Come work a coal mine. No? You'd rather have A/C and a cozy job. Consider yourselves you are LUCKY enough to have the PRIVILEGE to speak your mind. Most middle eastern countries won't even let their women walk without being fully covered and accompanied by a man.

I don't hate women. I harbor no resentment. I just get sick of their shit. Want me to be considerate of your feelings? I got my own problems. Figure them out yourself. I lift to carry my own burden, not yours.

Blogginginvicecity · 2018-02-02T01:18:42+00:00

As a man, I don't like feeling like a total bitch in comparison to another man.

BigBenIsAwesome · 2018-02-01T21:17:52+00:00

No one does as long as they aren't asshole. No one hates virgins either as long as they aren't bitter. If a guy doesn't like you it's probably not because of your sexual history.

Freefrombitches123 · 2018-02-01T23:09:36+00:00

Don't hate on Chad, he's going to get fucked over anyway

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2018-02-02T08:55:01+00:00

I'm Chad(ish). Most men have some of chad. I don't really see a resentment, chad usually get's pointed out in respect to the women

Devok26 · 2018-02-02T11:06:02+00:00

I dont , chads stories make me laugh and give me some great red pills.

I-am-the-lul · 2018-02-03T06:34:07+00:00

To me, Chads are just the guys who can attract women without wasting a lot of time and money, the important lesson about Chads is that when women wait until at least the 3rd date before they put out, it isn't because they have higher morals and not slutty, they just view you as a beta and the truth is if you are a Chad, they will willingly bang you the same night you met.

2018-02-04T21:07:55+00:00

I always thought Chads to be kinda arrogant, never really got along with them except one guy he was cool

Dorfler7777 · 2018-02-01T20:30:26+00:00

Who hates Chad's? More Chad's are MGTOW than people realize. They simply know how to play the game better due to acquired attributes.

In fact I'd wager that there are far more Chad's that are MGTOW than beta losers.

Title	Why the resentment towards Chad?
Author	dontbedenied
Upvotes	47
Comments	61
Date	February 1, 2018 5:22 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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