Would you ever get married?

BlerdOtaku · 2021-06-10T13:09:08+00:00

No.

Spiritually, nowhere in the Bible does it say "get the government involved in your relationship." Logically, love is not contract so why would I ever sign one?

Wealthy_and_Stealthy · 2021-06-10T13:39:11+00:00

No.

I have been living alone since I left my parents house. Almost 10 years ago.

I cook my own food. Clean whatever living space I rent weekly, although I'm not messy to begin with, so it rarely takes more than 20 MINUTES A WEEK.

Washing clothes is never a problem cause there are always a laundry nearby, I prefer to use as few landlord's amenities as possible as little as possible.

I don't need to socialize. I'm doing fine alone. Plus I spend a lot of time playing computer / console games, often with my MGTOW buds. And hell, I have this gorgeous subreddit. One of the last few bastions of sanity and masculinity.

If I need to rub one out I go for it immediately if possible. It's nothing more than your hormones tell you to "go and procreate". Fuck you hormones, I'm in charge.

In conclusion. A woman adds NOTHING of value to my life. I have already everything I need for comfortable life and well beyond that / keep acquiring even more stuff. Never wanted to create a family. And even if I would, in the current clown world doing it is INSANITY.

anongogogo · 2021-06-10T14:25:24+00:00

A unicorn is a fantasy it doesn't exist. Plus marriage just gets you in bed with the government not just with your partner and you know what governments like to do? to fucking control you.

OnlyATreeNothinToSee · 2021-06-10T13:23:26+00:00

No I wouldn't do it, in Case you found a girl like that you found it in a rural area. The second she touches a city you're fucked. Also all of that could be a strat straight from r/FDS pretend trad -> Lovebomb -> Get divorced after house is payed and child is raised... Hell nah brother aint no FDS bitch seing my cash...

Kolo11234 · 2021-06-10T13:42:13+00:00

I've left the matrix, there is no going back for me.

f3wl · 2021-06-10T14:34:19+00:00

Hard pass. Once you fully internalize AWALT the unicorn fallacy/temptation subsidies. It’s just your turn. You can play Russian roulette but eventually your luck runs out.

AccomplishedAndHappy · 2021-06-10T15:27:58+00:00

[i] Would I ever smash my own testicles with a mallet? Possibly, if my life depended on it.

[ii] Would I ever chew my own legs off? Possibly, if my life depended on it.

[iii] Would I ever get married? No, not even if my life depended on it.

The consequences of [i] and [ii] would be temporary discomfort, but long term gain; i.e, i'd still be alive. However, the consequences of [iii] would be permanent long term discomfort, and I may even end up dying as a result; e.g., murdered in prison due to a false rape/child molestation charge invented by the ex-wife in order to secure custody and property.

Diddleit108 · 2021-06-10T15:52:27+00:00

No. I have girls that are friends and girls I hook up with which always is a revolving door. I clean as I go so my house is never really dirty. Takes 5 minutes to wipe down my entire bathroom or kitchen. Deep cleaning only adds a few minutes. Im a great cook and eat whatever I want when I want to. I'm like 1/4 interested in sex as much as I was in my youth and I am only 30. Its nice but not a requirement anymore. Just changes as you age. My day is filled with phone calls and hangouts so I do not get lonely often. I'm on track to be a millionaire in 20 years or less if I luck out. Marriage would be stupid for me to do.

Ody_ssey · 2021-06-10T14:07:15+00:00

Not again. Marriage is a patriarchal way to oppress women.

vega-mgtow · 2021-06-10T18:39:14+00:00

You have learned nothing young padawan.

MGTOW is not about women. It is about the current legal / social framework that makes LTRs and marriage a shit deal.

Even if you thought you had found your Unicorn, there is nothing stopping her from destroying your family on a whim. You would just be a sitting duck, waiting to be harvested in divorce/family court.

realChebz · 2021-06-10T19:27:20+00:00

If she's such a unicorn, she would be fine to have a relationship without a marriage. Marriage is simply a contract for the govt so they can legally take away your property the moment a 'unicorn' turns into a snake.

DemocraticDystopia · 2021-06-10T13:08:43+00:00

what do we lose by not marrying in this scenario?

gormagion · 2021-06-10T18:57:15+00:00

After my fiancee left, I came to a realization that I was actually miserable in a relationship.

So, no.
I'm better off without any of that crap.

No relationship or sex whatsoever since 2007, and not looking.
I don't miss it one bit.

corJoe · 2021-06-10T17:43:57+00:00

You know there is one situation in which I could possibly imagine getting married.

She would have to be a 100% infertile billionaire that would allow me to sit at home playing with my hobbies for 5 years in a state that awards alimony.

Sadly with how F'd up our court system I'd probably get screwed anyway and that thought flies out the window and is replaced with no F'ing way.

crityouallday · 2021-06-10T14:48:24+00:00

Hell no

selfism_mike · 2021-06-10T16:45:30+00:00

If a unicorn would right now be in front of my door and I would just shush it away.

I don't care for anything anymore but having my peace, no responsibility for anyone else, and do what I want to do when I want to do it.

I have zero enthusiasm anymore to be in any relationship with anyone. I guess that is what realizing how little you actually can do to maintain a relationship does to you. Nothing what is out of my control deserves my dedication, love and enthusiasm. And another person's interest in me is way outside of my control.

CenturianMonk · 2021-06-10T16:57:47+00:00

Nope. It's a contract designed to dismantle a man's accomplishments he's made over the years. I haven't been on a date closing in on a year.

I've had women that would have dated me, but I always remembered the past stress I had to deal with.

Nagless. Childless. Womanless. Bitchyless, and free.

EjakeJ · 2021-06-10T17:26:21+00:00

Fuck no. Keep her as a gf with the understanding of a contract to be terminated at any point.

redditradishman · 2021-06-10T18:09:11+00:00

Not even an ltr with separate residences.

TardPol · 2021-06-10T18:36:59+00:00

When you get married, you are not just marrying her, you are also marrying the government. The same government that gives her a gun to hold to your head until she gets bored and blows your brains out. Fuck the government, don't get married.

Reddit1984Censorship · 2021-06-10T14:26:16+00:00

The only way i could ever imagine marrying is if she was a childhood friend wich i dont have so its never happening.

Canute87 · 2021-06-10T15:50:56+00:00

"For those of you who want kids, how would you go about that without getting married"

Someone clearly missed the sex ed class.

deepspace7 · 2021-06-10T16:13:16+00:00

No. It’s delusional thinking. You’re better off thinking on what reality is like and trying to navigate it skillfully.

KingMysoFutureHdrx · 2021-06-10T16:22:01+00:00

Try it and report back LOL I guarantee you it will end up bad. Marriage goes against nature’s code

Kini42 · 2021-06-10T17:17:39+00:00

Been there, done that, learned the hard way, never do it again!

It‘s good to learn from own mistakes, wish I learned 25 years ago about MGTOW

because it’s better to learn from other people’s mistakes...

trump4president2024 · 2021-06-10T20:18:12+00:00

Everyone is so hung up on the word "marriage".

It is just an antiquated social construct no longer valid in the modern western world.

You cannot combine an antiquated social construct with modern women and not expect failure.

Encrypted587 · 2021-06-10T15:54:28+00:00

Don’t want fuck all to do with women including the lazy brainless bitch called my mother, never mind marriage

the__rev · 2021-06-10T16:40:08+00:00

Nah. I've discovered that I'm a much better man when I live alone. I'm still a cynical and deeply flawed SOB but I don't think any woman can make me better than I can make myself.

IntelligentAverage63 · 2021-06-10T20:20:00+00:00

So this imaginary creature does all this "Support Thing" but wants just to get that diamond ring and contract? Either this unicorn is a) non-existent like any other unicorn. b) a dude in drag. c) acting her part perfectly until you are locked in.

Bah... Next post please.

2UR-GSE · 2021-06-10T21:41:27+00:00

Nah. Women are more trouble than they're worth. Besides, there's nothing to stop her skewering you alive using the legal system should the situation deteriorate months or years down the line.

The whole point of MGTOW - as others have pointed out - is to avoid walking into the bear trap of divorce/family court/financial destitution. Avoiding marriage is the best way to accomplish this.

jws755 · 2021-06-10T23:56:09+00:00

I did it once.
All that unicorn stuff, until the kids came. As soon as the kid was a toddler, she was fucking some guy and gaslighting the hell outa me. I caught them. He lost interest. She wanted to move 6 states and 1400 mi away.
I wanted the kid.
I was too stupid to dump her then, and ate dirt for 16 years, guys never win in my state, and I was not prepared for a divorce. She did it again when kid was in Hs, with some other clown. She was “forced” to divorce me and marry him. Took me 5 years to heal. Now those idiots are divorced, broke and miserable in debt. I retired, kept my entire pension, and just bought another new car. I’ll never get married again, to anyone. She ruined it for me. I was always a better cook, parent and money manager anyway. If I knew then what I know now, I would have booted her out long ago. Outside of kids, women’s value drops dramatically after 30.

General_Fear · 2021-06-11T03:01:07+00:00

Sure. If she's rich. That way if she files for divorce then she owes me alimony.

Unforsaken_Dick · 2021-06-11T03:54:38+00:00

Be in a relationship with her? Most likely yes. Get married? Nah I'm good. Because marriage is nothing but making your relationship into a legal matter. Until the state laws change, which it most likely never will, I would never put myself in a situation where my significant other benefits from breaking it.

WeirdInternational46 · 2021-06-11T16:08:32+00:00

Listen to me. Pay attention. Don't ignore what I'm saying to you. This is a warning to all men reading this. I'm doing you a favor. I'm 53 years old. I live in the southern US. I've been married twice. Both times I married the best, sweetest, kindest, most submissive and affectionate traditional Christian women I could find. And they both turned into nagging horror shows. They were both attracted to me because of my semi-Chad status as a lead guitarist and singer in a regionally popular blues band. One was my high school sweetheart, and another was my post-divorce wife. Both of them lovebombed me then immediately began to criticize me and tried to change me after we were married. The personality change after the wedding was shocking. What originally attracted them to me overnight became the things they were determined to change. The second wife was even worse than the first. Don't repeat my mistakes. Don't let them get their hooks in you and destroy your freedom and take your money!

losingalldamonies · 2021-06-10T23:09:25+00:00

Nail and bail don’t stay and pray

LeonBrFerreira · 2021-06-10T23:24:32+00:00

mightymigtow · 2021-06-11T00:49:18+00:00

Absolutely I would.

The day I get my brain replaced by a cabbage.

SnuffyElephant · 2021-06-11T00:50:26+00:00

Nope

KingWhoCared86 · 2021-06-11T00:55:45+00:00

Truthfully no. And not all of it is the fault of a woman. I have personal issues that would negatively impact a relationship. If by chance there were someone out there I felt a strong connection with I wouldn’t be opposed to marriage. But I tend to burn out in relationships and while I enjoy being outgoing and the center of attention. I eventually go into a phase where I start feeling overwhelmed and I need to isolate myself off from people and almost recharge. So while it’s ok with friends because we only hanging out on the weekends. A relationship isn’t going to survive that.

Plus I don’t want a wife whose just a glorified hooker/cook/maid. I’d prefer her to have her own life as well. If her entire life revolves around me, I’d feel suffocated and like I said I’d burn out in the relationship.

Okayokayokay9999 · 2021-06-11T01:00:35+00:00

No - it's too risky, and there's literally zero reason for it.

darzamat · 2021-06-11T05:41:47+00:00

I will never get married. I was against marriage when I was a simp blue pill idiot. I am 100000% more against marriage now.

There is no unicorn. All women want marriage for their own benfit. Women receive their own emotional dumping ground when a man agrees to marriage. Also women get a servant because a married man can't leave the marriage without serious consequences.

I AM NOT A SERVANT !! I am a free man. I am a MGTOW man. I serve no bitch !! I bow to no bitch !!! EVER. Bitches bow to me.

I don't care if she fucks me frequently. Fucking me frequently is not more valuable than my freedom. FREEDOM OVER SEX !!

Marriage does nothing for a man, only for the woman.

zugrian · 2021-06-10T23:24:32+00:00

Here's what it would take for me to be willing to marry this unicorn of a chick:

Completely dismantling the divorce industry & getting rid of no fault divorce/ 'irreconcilable differences.'

ncarolina66 · 2021-06-10T16:54:25+00:00

I thought about this......

The only way would be if the woman was a millionaire (preferably a billionaire) but even then would I really want the fucking aggravation again? No, I don't think I would do it even then just to do what a cunt female does and be in it just for the money.

Hell, there is more to life than money and NOT being nagged, bitched to, having to listen to endless, nonsensical female babble and having to go to stupid family functions, just isn't worth it to me anymore......I'll take my peaceful backyard, BBQ, nice cold one, hobbies and a vape anytime, thanks but no thinks.

Pussy just isn't worth it anymore, AT ANY COST or FINANCIAL BENEFIT!

Goaliej · 2021-06-11T00:45:20+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8QxIIz1yEsA

cryptotim70726 · 2021-06-11T15:39:54+00:00

Been married twice. It won't happen a third time.

Open-road-free-man · 2021-06-12T11:03:48+00:00

I was once in a 5 year relationship where she devolved into a completely different person so the answer is a hard no. Thank god I didn’t ever marry her because even though she started out great she devolve into an asshole. Also with prenuptial agreements the magic words to get them thrown out is I didn’t understand what I was signing or I was coerced. Prenuptial agreements are at the judges sole discretion they are not worth the toilet paper they are written on. In general smart men don’t marry it’s a slavery contract and most women are good enough actresses to fool a pretty large cross section of men at least for a while and the law is on their side so don’t be a moron.

justaguy529 · 2021-06-13T05:43:06+00:00

marriage is insurance for women's failing looks.

Title	Would you ever get married?
Author	Throwaway87603452
Upvotes	7
Comments	61
Date	June 10, 2021 1:04 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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