I prefer for my wife to be shaved below, trimmed up front. She goes through periods for months where she does no trimming period. She's full of excuses: it's hard, takes too long, get bumps, hard to maintain, etc.

I'm basically outcome independent on it. We are enjoying a great sex life. I don't nag. I ask, and she either responds or doesn't. She'll surprise me occasionally, but then it will go back to the wild. So this isn't something that necessarily negatively affects us, but it's not what I want.

Any suggestions or FRs on how you have dealt with this?