I appreciate The Red Pill as well as Married Red Pill for everything that they’ve provided men. I didn’t follow the ‘typical’ path here, I was a part of the initial 500 to head to TRP from Men’s Rights (somewhere) and remember the first Hey we hit 1,000 members post. Then I saw a post that mentioned *Married Red Pill, and here is where I found my bread and butter.

I didn’t come here from a deadbedroom, The Pill wasn’t about sex at all. TRP wasn’t my path to improved quality nor did it have any impact on increasing the frequency of sex. Looking back, I ‘unplugged’ before getting married. Bootcamp (2 years before marriage) was able to calibrate my perspective and transformed my former faggot self who didn’t give a shit - into a man on a mission. Still, I needed The Red Pill as much as any man. It became my tool to understanding women, to understanding myself, and to removing my ego from the equation when assessing my performance up to this point and with regard to where I was headed.

I had to deal with some bullshit this summer that almost broke me. I was pushed to the edge by something my wife had done back when she was my ‘girlfriend’, this fucked me up and broke me to the core in a way that I knew that the decision I made would forever alter the course of my life. Fortunately for me, I had this place to turn to when making the decision and I am forever indebted because of it. All of the core members here provided their insight, /u/theultmatecad offered his number for me to call (I didn’t but the offer was humbling), and during this time I realized that -- Very few men have ANY support network where would I have ended up if I didn’t have masculine men to keep me in check? We’ll never know; what I do know is that I’m on top of my game, I landed on my feet, and have improved by leaps and bounds both internally and externally because of the support I had when I needed it.

I say I unplugged before marriage, but the pill hadn’t fully dissolved. I was still thinking my girl loved me the way I loved her, I still thought women lost their solipsistic & hypergamous nature when in a committed relationship, and I still thought that the world cared about men.

I was wrong on each of these points and as each truth dissolved I felt like shit – but then I became free. The shackles fell off when the pill fully dissolved and it was only then that I transcended from the ‘Blue/PurplePill’ waters up onto my ship where I was able to view the world through the Red Lens. Everything made more sense, I was better adept to deal with both men and women, I could manipulate others to get exactly what it is I wanted from them, and through it all I never got ‘angry’. Emotional? – Only with the dog. Angry? – Why should I be angry at women for being who they are?

I love women, even with their hypergamous & solipsistic nature.

More importantly than all of that, I love this ‘Man Space’ that we have formed and it is this love that has left me with this void that I’ve tried to fill with writing The Family Alpha blog, book, and posting on here to other guys. I still feel I am not doing enough and that is the purpose of this post. Things are going to be changing on my end and I wanted to lay it out here first, where it all began.

I enjoy writing posts, comments, and learning from & with all of the other married men on the forum. So much so that I decided to start a blog and write a book. I have been receiving more and more PMs and Emails, which has been taking up time that I used to have to write posts and work on the book.

Problem #1: ‘Problem’ probably isn’t the right word as these messages show me that more men are working towards reclaiming their masculine identity. The real issue (better word?) is -- I’m a husband, father of 2, full time graduate student, and am working full time -- on top of writing the blog, book, and replying on MRP/TRP.

Problem #2: I have this fucking void in my soul. I have this nagging feeling in my heart that I’m not accomplishing what I want to accomplish. I’m not doing enough and too many men are suffering due to lack of knowledge/options. Too many men don’t have the support that I was fortunate enough to have and that is fucked up.

TRP & MRP are great, but they are severely limited. We are all operating in the shadows under usernames and we are just talking. I don’t know if you’re actually lifting or if you’re actually dressing better. I have to take you at your word. For all you know, I could be a fat black lesbian named Ron. With that, I plan to create an All-male space, and unfortunately it will have to be completely separate from The Family Alpha & TRP.

I understand 100% the reasoning behind it (remaining anonymous), but we post our personal views and personally I feel posting isn’t enough – I need to see men lifting, I need to provide them with a place to vent, rage, freak out, and improve so they go home truly happy.

With that point made, I am taking The Family Alpha in a new direction. TFA is not Red Pill & it’s not Married Red Pill - TFA is me, and I apply the Red Pill things in my own manner. My ‘niche’ is the application of TRP in marriage, similar to what we’re doing in Married Red Pill. Except, I put my own spin on it - for some they like it, for others, not so much -- which is fine, to each their own.

It’s important to note that The Pill isn’t a ‘thing’ and the focus in my opinion should always be on embracing your masculine nature and everything that comes with it (sexual strategy, creating and following your mission & vision, being strong, confident, and resourceful, etc.) Again, my niche is Masculinity in Marriage, what that means is that everything covered in The Red Pill is catered to your life and woman. Sometimes I write pieces for male improvement, but a majority needs to be catered to how your wife will respond so you can get whatever it is you’re after.

I can no longer do this solely from the confines of an internet forum.

I want to see and be a part of the action that is required for the reclamation of masculinity. I don’t want to just talk about it online anymore. I need to bring TRP/MRP from Reddit and apply it to The Real World.

Initially I planned on doxing myself, I was going to write this post with my photo and real name to act as a no going back. But, I sat down with the wife and talked it over with her. Doxing myself means doxing her as well and that was something I was not going to do without going over it with her. After a long discussion, she was right in that telling the world who I was would do more harm than good at this point in time. She told me through her tears that she felt terrible, as if she were holding me back. What she failed to recognize was that our marriage and relationship together comes before my personal vendetta against our weaksauce society. She is my beautiful submissive wife, if I were to throw her trust in me and our privacy to the wind, she would never forget it and whether she says she is ok with it or not, I’d always know that like crumpled paper, we could be flat, but never perfect again.

Her Pros vs Cons list was solid and as objective and emotion free as a woman is capable of providing. I took her advice and looking over the past few days, she was right.

The next Phase of the blog is to begin transitioning The Family Alpha to something that will generate some income. I am writing day and night to strangers, I truly want the best for each and every one of you but I need to start seeing something to show for my efforts. Aside from late nights and early mornings.

I will use Patreon in a similar method utilized by IllimitableMen in that I will get paid per article. Also, this will provide more incentive to improve my quality of posts as well as continue to try and make all of my photos [OC]. With that, I will provide 1 on 1 email and possible skype if the interest is ever there.

I have completed the first draft of my book and after I edit it cover to cover I will be sending it to a few readers for further editing and then sending it to publishers. They may suggest editing the language, which I will not do and if they refuse to publish using the terms I’ve chosen and language I’ve selected, then I will self-publish.

In regards to the action aspect of it, this is the part I’m most pumped about. I will be creating a space (most likely a storage unit/section of a warehouse for men (possibly ONLY married men & their sons) to lift, write, and speak their minds free from ‘PC’ judgement.

The only way for masculinity to spread is for more books to be written, more men to break the cookie cut mold, and more people to discuss the point that men are weak and soft because they’ve been lied to their entire lives and it is resulting in marriages failing, both men and women resenting themselves and their spouse, and overall a loss of ‘identity’ for entire generations.

The self-hate is entirely preventable if we can get men to express their masculinity and stop repressing it.

I have a business trip that will keep me overseas with unreliable internet access for the next 3 weeks. When I return, TrainingTheBrain will be deleted and I will be posting from /u/TheFamilyAlpha.

Acta, Non Verba Hunter