Year 1 Complete

mrpfuckarounditis · 2020-06-19T11:44:31+00:00

That was a nice read. You are on the right path, and I like the mental status you are and the work and effort you have put in. Thank you for sharing, and enjoy being the captain of your life. I wish you the best for the future.

Still, that is kind of normal, isn't it? Or is the normal thing to have ruined your life and yourself already before having kids or marrying? At this point, nexting puts you in ground zero for rebuilding yourself with no fucking consequences. Is red pill in easy mode. Which many fail, I will give you that, but alas, let me come to the point...

I am not going to suck your dick for your post because somehow you built your story around giving an authority recommendation (because "you get it"), and this recommendation is bullshit. I have read here similar words from wiser men, but as always, the devil is in the details. They were right and you are not.

For any of the new guys on this sub, or maybe someone passing by that comes here once in a blue moon “thinking” about making a post (i.e. asking some repetitive question). Stop that thought and delete what you are about to submit. Hit the sidebar, lift, read, and live your life. Come back a year later and share your progress with the rest of us here. I hate to quote Richard Cooper, but… Do. The. Work.

You are telling people who is having a hard time because of their bad decisions and mental schemas to retreat into their mind and rewrite their mental models by themselves and "come back in a year". And then some of these morons will follow your advice, eat a lot of paint, half ass their gym workouts while being satisfied with their mirror (did I read your lifts?), read some advanced material in the sidebar (because why reading the basics? they are smart and AWALT is the problem), and will go rambo or monk or worse, while being "alpha as fuck" and "so red pilled I shit bricks that could be used to build a red wall around faggottown" and spitting RP jargon like a machinegun. I know what I am talking about. I have been there, eating paint as if it was beer, and have made most of the mistakes you read on this sub. Btw, I had a read of /r/askTRP these days and man, there is some circlejerk going on there. But I disgress again...

I was about to write you have "survivor bias": you did it right, you are proud of the results you have,and think that the only thing that people need to do is to STFU and follow your lead. But I don't think you have survivor bias. You have your shit together at age 31, girlfriend, home, career, friends, etc. Cool, good for you, I wish you the best and carry on the good work, bro hug. Not being ironic, I mean that. But you are at the beginning of your adult life.

Many of the guys here started like you, and at some point they lost the way and fell into the lazyness, betaness, whatever you may name it. You have the lead over them/us because you have learnt and embraced "fight club" before life throws any real punch at you. Use it wisely. I invite you to come back and help some guy instead of saying your farewell in the first post.

Stay strong.

SBIII · 2020-06-21T02:31:49+00:00

Fuck me - there's like a million RP buzzwords in this post and at the end of it I have no fucking idea of who you are, where you're at or where you want to be.

I don't think you do either.

You just blinded the sub with jargon, all split up into lovely little headlined paragraphs .. none of which means anything. It reads like a diary entry of 'how I convinced myself in my mind that RP has changed my life"

I'm not buying it.

How about you just post some real fucking details instead of this posing fucking nonsense that proclaims "I've come full circle" bollox?

It's fucking chin stroking, cock rubbing wankerisms .

As for some of the replies here.. fuck me.. yeah.. what's next - we all form a fucking daisy chain and start sucking each others dicks?

Fuck me - I thought this sub was better than that.

amalgamator · 2020-06-20T00:16:24+00:00

This was good, but I’d like to see it with 3 kids and a wife and staring down the barrel of a few hundred grand of alimony! Easy mode.

Octellius · 2020-06-22T06:00:14+00:00

:|

If this is real, and your path was so smooth then I wish you the best of luck keeping it this way. The whole thing however read as if it was an infomercial selling a simple 12 step plan to success all you needed was some stock imagery of smiling diverse happy people and a PC compliant mission statement to go to market.

Good on you. You started from a good place and made your life slightly better. Congrats. I would suggest that if you started this after 20 years of marriage, a few kids and a career built upon 'supporting the family'.

RP rule of thumb indicates 1 month per year of the relationship. Your relationship was 1 year and 7 months old, so lets round that up to 2 months to be nice. Compare that to Mr 20 year in the paragraph above at 2 years. You managed your conversion in a year. For comparison, so, roughly half the time you were in a relationship. Thats the equivalent of a 20 year marriage guy taking 10 years.

I don't know, the whole thing seemed like fiction wrapped with a bow.

When I come here, I come to read about the -mistakes- made by others so I can avoid them. Your post seems like you have read a lot of RP, but I didn't see much of the books you read in your writing.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2020-06-20T13:50:28+00:00

Good man.

Yeah, RC has good content.

You also discovered the power of dread with Linsey. Your wife feelz more attraction to you now knowing other women want to fuck you. Well played.

MCT advice:

1) Stop talking about fight club to your bros with all the damn book recommendations. I know you feelz bad for them, but they need to be in the lowest of the lowest to find fight club. It’s easy to find. Don’t hand it to them and ‘ Captain save a bro. Fn stop it.

2) “A couple of days there was some tension of being locked up together”

You have come full circle and made awesome progress in your mindset and outlook on life. Yes, a new awakening. That’s great.

Just with comment above though, I suggest really learning Game skills so you don’t get in these tense situations. It doesn’t need to be like that. How’s that coming along ? Which books have you read? Who are you listening to?

We each have our own unique style, You must find your natural swing for yourself. This is a tool box, like chess - you don’t need all the pieces to win. Just find your own combination that works. I’m a big proponent of Game tactics. It’s like cap nip for her. Mine sings, chirps, dances around the house all day like a little bird.

Abundance, DGAF, frame, and Mindsets are key - that’s like your overall strategy in chess. But Game, that’s the chess tactics - the individual moves to make the strategy come to life.

Take it or leave it faggot.

weakandsensitive · 2020-06-19T08:34:41+00:00

Nice work and congratulations to you.

You've demonstrated that you don't need to journal every week in OYS so long as you have your own goals and can hold yourself to account.

Holding frame

hate this phrase. hate how misused it is. it's not a door. it doesn't magically swing open and shut. it's the frame. it exists or it doesn't. your have it or you don't.

HornsOfApathy · 2020-06-19T10:52:24+00:00

I liked your story, good job on figuring all this shit out now before getting married.

She told me that she was cleaning the place yesterday and she saw something on my desk. She pulled out a piece of paper and opened it. Well, it was the piece of paper with “Lindsey’s” phone number and signature.

Hot damn... You know she spent that whole week stalking that girls social media. Especially since it had her full name on there. Fucking lol the hamster

I was surprised with head as soon I got to bed, followed by wild monkey sex hanging from the chandelier. Wait, what…?

Hamster overdrive of preselection.

Bluejuju543 · 2020-06-19T13:23:38+00:00

Thank you for this post. I just started into NMMNG at the start of May, since then I have finished that and read MAP and MMSLP, working on WISNIFG and Models. I started working out and dieting, already down to 265 lbs from 295 lbs. I've started to make myself "my own mental point of origin" and started to "mentally divorce" my wife to quote Rollo Tomassi. (his books are on my reading list) I have reconnected with some close friends, and joined my local toastmaster club.

My biggest issue; I want things to change now and seeing this post really helps understand there is a process here, change is not overnight. I need to keep working and reinforcing these lessons and working on myself and my frame. There may be other lessons that I still need to learn that I have not even become aware of yet.

Seeing the timeline in your post was very helpful for me, it reminds me that I have only just started and that I have to be patient and keep putting in the work.

DigitalDragonSlayer · 2020-06-19T16:24:45+00:00

Fucking animal. Keep it up chief.

toothpickhd · 2020-06-19T13:59:20+00:00

good stuff

ragnar_114 · 2020-06-20T17:22:38+00:00

Wrong. Just over a year ago when everything from the outside seemed to be going great for me, it hit me that things were not on point. I was bullshitting myself (AKA no mission).

Can you elaborate, what actual event caused you realize this?

HitMan8811 · 2020-07-11T14:20:53+00:00

Really inspiring and you have absorbed alot over one year. Keep going this is great stuff brother!

Out of all the acronyms, the one I didn't get was WISNIFG? What does this mean?

Title	Year 1 Complete
Author	OYS-Man
Upvotes	107
Comments	31
Date	June 19, 2020 6:15 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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