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A man posts that he was cheated on, instead everyone feels sorry for the woman and thinks she was a victim of him.

HardAlmond

October 14, 2020
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Title A man posts that he was cheated on, instead everyone feels sorry for the woman and thinks she was a victim of him.
Author

HardAlmond

Upvotes 1987
Comments 80
Date October 14, 2020 12:22 PM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/jazn1d/a_man_posts_that_he_was_cheated_on_instead/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/a-man-posts-that-he-was-cheated-on-instead.842346
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Comments

[–][deleted] 305 points306 points307 points 5 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

I don’t know one man that would be fighting for their relationship after finding out their girlfriend got gangbanged at a party.

She didn’t “feel alone” in the relationship, she didn’t give a fuck about the relationship.

[–]Silentpoolman 39 points40 points41 points 5 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Cause you always fight for your queen.

[–]kingjohn1919 84 points85 points86 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

That's not a queen... that's just the pig at the roast

[+]Silentpoolman -26 points-25 points-24 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Pigs are delicious. Just like queens.

[–]kingjohn1919 35 points36 points37 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Not delicious when filled with the jizz of every man in a 10 block radius

[+]Silentpoolman -11 points-10 points-9 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

We call that a buffet

[–]kingjohn1919 19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Got some news for you bro...you ain't want a queen...just go straight to the source, and enjoy the dick directly sir

[–]Silentpoolman 18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Hmmm you gay be right. I mean may. I mean men. I like men.

[–]kingjohn1919 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Lmao ...Go get yours, king!

[–]Silentpoolman 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ayyyyyyy

[–]Jamendithas92 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Unless it’s chess, than the queen protects her king.

[–][deleted] 244 points245 points246 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

just like that one shithead of a liar in r/roastme : look up ‘i lost 50’ in the search bar of that sub and click on the post with ~20k upvotes

this little shit claimed she was dumped while infact she dumped him, and even after knowing that people were supporting op

[–]OfficerEdgarMallory 60 points61 points62 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You can’t give everyone a direct link?

[–]speedycheety05 51 points52 points53 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I think he talking about this one

[–][deleted] 19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Such a good drama, thanks speedy.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

sorry bro im on mobile and i forgot how to copy a post’s link

[–]Mackdude15 114 points115 points116 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"A real man would be fighting for his relationship "

A real man would fight for a stank ho whose pussy was used as a trampoline by 4 cocks simultaneously? It amazes me how GARBAGE women always advocate throwing away a man for any sign of infidelity but fighting for a trash woman when she's gone beyond the pale to destroy him. And you can always spot a TRASH woman because they start sentences with "A real man would..." despite the fact they're clearly perpetually single.

Dump these bitches in the gutter where they belong.

[–]EmeraldCharm 36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm a woman I wish I could up vote this more !!! Disgusting trash these 'women' are

[–]zogins 117 points118 points119 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This is beyond unbelievable! So this man's 'girlfriend' whores out with 4 guys and it is his fault!

[–]CountCuriousness 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The post is so insane that unless I see a direct link to the conversation I don’t buy it’s real.

[–]navybluetop 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s Twitter. I’m not convinced it isn’t real.

[–]carlsberg24 107 points108 points109 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Women are never taught responsibility and very seldom held accountable for their actions. On one hand society is adamant that women should be equal to men in everything, on the other it treats them like slightly retarded children who need to be protected, coddled, and excused for outbursts.

[–]Allpurposeredditor 41 points42 points43 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes sir. Exactly. Some Women know what to say to make a man look bad. Hence take my last relationship for example. I found out that I was manipulative according to my last GF that’s what she told other people, but then we started back casually talking (nothing romantic)..she said I was a good boyfriend to her I treated her well lmao. So you see how she tried to bash me with bs labels, that wasn’t even remotely true. So now it makes me wonder was everything she said about her ex true.

[–]Havokk 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So now it makes me wonder was everything she said about her ex true.

this a very very good question that is relevant to many others out there.

[–]Ella_kona_ 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You are wrong, I was raised from little how to respect everyone, and be responsible for my actions, those women that behave that way have been raised badly, and I agree some women are not educated correctly, but it depends, in my culture this kind of stuff is wrong and if they find out is the woman that will blame not the man.

[–]rabel111 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Agreed. These stereotypes of men or of women behaving badly are not representative of people generally. Practically everyone I know cares about other people and aspires to being a "good" person. But those who act badly are loud and highly visible. It's important to call out bad behaviour, but equally important to remember that most people are good at heart.

Even this woman who cheated on her partner is not a villan, just someone who appears to confused about what she wants. Looks like she wants the security, warmth and intimacy of a one/one relationship as well as the excitement of being single and sexually active. Not sure that's compatable with a healthy one/one relationship.

[–]Ella_kona_ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I 100% agree with you.

[–]Allpurposeredditor 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not shocking. Don’t roast me. But I was otp with my ex recently a few weeks back and we were discussing our relationship. There are still questions if this woman was cheating or not, all the signs were there etc..anyway, this woman basically admitted to sabotaging our relationship by knowingly not communicating to me that she was going through something. She just changed drastically, and you know what they say. Horrid communication or lack of leaves things up for interpretation. The sad thing is, she made excuses for not communicating like tried to pass it off like it was no big deal like dude you’re a grown ass woman with a kid. Anyway, that month of bad communication took a perfectly good relationships and ruined it. She takes no accountability for it and even made excuses.

[–]DontFeedTheTech 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

the comments here on reddit are destroying the people in the tweet. Sure it's sexist, but no one with a brain is supporting it.

[–]vector5633 21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What man in his right mind would fight for that cum dumpster?

[–]TurnipInk 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

A good partner doesn't cheat, they go to the other person and say something is wrong. Why do some people think this way.

[–]Ella_kona_ 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly if someone doesn't want to be in the relationship then you should be honest and tell your partner.

[–]Roary93 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Welcome to the women is wonderful effect, where predominantly women but also a majority of men will defend the woman regardless of what she has done. It's ridiculous how oblivious and uncaring people are to their own biases

[–]C2074579 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The relationship has to be worth fighting for, ladies. LOL.

[–]EmeraldCharm 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The fact it was 4 other men shows how alone she felt ?!! Hahaah as a woman I cant stop laughing at the delusions of these sluts,cause lets face it any woman who defends a behaviour like this from another woman has zero morals

[–]navybluetop 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Victim blaming at its finest. These people are disgusting.

[–]thefudmaster 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No reason or accountability

[–]FatGimp2 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

She sounds lime the type of person who is like the end piece of a loaf of bread. Everyone touches it, but no one really wants it.

[+]Oilywilly1 points 5 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

By "everyone" you mean two people on twitter who likely got a tonne of hate for their stupid comments

[–]trapped_circus 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They have thousands of upvotes though...

[–]PM_ME_DNA 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Apparently a real man is a cuck.

[–]Mackdude15 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No wonder they're defending her. They're trash whores themselves who don't want to be held accountable

[–]playingpoodles 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That was hilarious, the responses - as if the number of men she did at once was referable to the degree to which she felt 'alone' in the relationship - I have heard the Democrat types pinning the blame on the husband for his wife's one on one harlotry all the time, but the multiples explanation takes the cake! Good entertainment!

[–]rabel111 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A relationship with someone like her is not worth fighting for. If you forgive her for this, expect to experience similar indifference to your feelings and welfare in the future.

As for this year, just turn 2020 off, wait 15 seconds, then turn it back on again. That might fix 2020, but nothing will fix your relationship.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They want him to kill himself. There's no other explanation.

[–]creepyfart4u 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Found the Ho’s!

[–]TheDwiin 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

the fact it was 4 other dudes slows how lonely she was

This argument is what pisses me off.

A) it was drunken party sex, it's not like she was in a relationship with five guys at once over the course of several months.

B) Even if it was relationship with five guy at once over several months, if you're lonely or polyamorous, you should leave the person you're supposedly dating, or be open about your polyamory and accept your consequences.

[–]nordicpolarbear 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just another woman rationalizing bad behavior aka making excuses. It doesn’t even surprise me any more. Consequences are coming though.

[–]EmeraldCharm 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That pissed me off so much too!! What a pathetic attempt to justify such lewd behaviour

[–]kingjohn1919 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hoes before bros

[–]Havokk 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

wtf did I just read?

[–]gamessuck00 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Mistake number one, going on Twitter. There is no humanity on that hellscape.

[–]The_Beardy_Man 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Words following "a real man would ..." are worth even less than those following "I'm not racist but ..."

[–]AnonymousRedditor224 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The fact that those women tweeted that and thought that it made any logical sense just shows you how unintelligent they are. There’s been plenty of women that tweeted that their husband/boyfriend cheated on them and everyone is showing sympathy for her and male bashing talking about how all men are trash.

We all know for a goddamn fact that they wouldn’t be saying this if you reversed the genders.

[–]HardAlmond[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you reversed the genders it would be, "There’s been plenty of men that tweeted that their wife/girlfriend cheated on them and everyone is showing sympathy for him and female bashing talking about how all women are trash." Yep, definitely not happening.

[–]Evilcon21 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Twitter is just a cesspool at this point. Bad enough with incels like those women claiming a man is at fault cause she’s cheated on her man.

[–]tmpTomball 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It wasn't a cry for OP to reach out, it was a blatant request for OP to leave, done in the cruelest way imaginable.

Had a girl cheat and years later she was honest enough to tell me that, she just didn't want to be in a monogamous relationship right then. She said that publicly cheating was easier than confronting me and asking out of a perfectly good relationship. Said it was easier for her if I broke it off (which I sure as hell did).

[–]Successful_Sentence3[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is why you don't open your circle of information to simpletons.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fucking simps they been popping up quit alot lately

[–]Affectionate_Street4 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Just another reason why the male suicide rate is sky-high. Nobody ever feels sympathy for men, and women are to be coddled and treated like little babies. As a woman with no in-group bias, I feel like I'm the only sane one (but I know that's not true).

[–]Ella_kona_ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wrong there are thousand of women like you, so no you are not the only one.

[–]RoastedReviews 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm fukin dying lmaooo

[–]McFeely_Smackup 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

a woman doesn't have sex with 4 guys at once because she feels lonely. the only lonely person is the one guy who got stuck waiting for his turn.

[–]flyredditguy 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Men have feelings too.. smh.

[–]misanthropeint 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Those two women in the tweets are obvious misandrists and hopefully single

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

The simping is unreal. She was a slut and a cunt with the integrity of a sewer rat. Fuck simps and white knights.

[–]liamschindelka 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

You can make your point while still being respectful if men want respect they have to respect women as well it goes both ways

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

No. I'll respect women and men who deserve it. This cunt doesn't. 'Men' like you are the problem. How's trying to suck your own dick working out?

[–]liamschindelka 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

It’s actually a lot easier when I have my boyfriend suck my dick so I’ve given up on trying to do it myself, respect is a basic human right you are part of the problem not fixing it ‘men’ like you are what give men such a bad rep and if you want things to get any easier you have to try to change as well instead of expecting just women to

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

This specimen isn't a typical woman. She should just go work in porn as that's all she's good for. Enjoy getting your dick sucked.

[–]liamschindelka 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Thanks I will but she still deserves basic human respect

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I disagree.

[–]liamschindelka 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Ok let’s say hypothetically you have a best friend like I mean you guys have been through everything together you guys spend Christmas together and are so close and your best friend cheats on his partner would you just completely turn on him calling he a dick refusing to use his name shunning him and slandering him all over the internet calling him a cheating dickhead that deserves no respect and go and sympathize with his girlfriend

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I wouldn't have a friend that cheats on his partner. I only associate with people of integrity.

[–]liamschindelka 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You don’t know if your friends gonna cheat until they do. You never answered my question

[–]liamschindelka 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No response that’s what I thought

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't check reddit very often. Calm you knickers down.

[+]NoctotainRose -12 points-11 points-10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

People being mean on the internet? You poor belittled Folk I'm sure this only happens to you and no one else.

[+]Deathbysugar2020 -30 points-29 points-28 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Great but this isn't related to men's "rights", right? It's sexist but I see no rights being denied or violated.

[–]kaunText 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is how issues begin to be addressed.

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