Bringing back male spaces

ERiC_693 · 2023-08-28T03:20:54+00:00

Feminist shut down boy only things while setting up girl only programmes like girl workshops, compsci clubs and math clases. Boys are blocked, these are actually illegal under title9. This is where mens orgs go filing suits and often win.

The hypocrisy of feminists is shocking.

We need boy only reading clubs amd places to talk about mental health etc.

No-Recognition-4033 · 2023-08-28T01:37:49+00:00

There's a lot of backlash that people would get, and

Can we come together as men and create more spaces exclusively for men to not only talk but help each other grow and develop. Advice on anything, physical training, embracing/increasing masculinity, male bonding, friendships, a place for gay men to find eachother for more than a hookup hopefully, research, networking, career opportunities, aid and whatever else we men can do for eachother.

Men will have to come together, buy property, construction, run a business, funding, legal issues, advertising, long work hours, etc... To do the hardest parts. Or just go out into a field somewhere and bring whatever with us.

What you're describing are exactly the excuses feminist lobbies used when bringing the ACLU in to shut down men's only spaces.

You'd need to convince the ACLU that men need these spaces, and they won't accept anything that even implies that certain groups of people could network or get advantages while excluding other groups.

The closest thing you can get is a men's church group or something similar, but these groups are neither exclusive, nor do they have benefits beyond religion, networking, and friends (though those are very helpful and have also been used as arguments for discrimination).

Even Grindr has cis women on it these days.

AdAny7443 · 2023-08-28T02:44:44+00:00

I remember where I live, they pushed for girls to be in the boy scouts, despite there being a girl scouts already. Basically these woman wanted the boy scouts to be "mixed scouts" while the girls still got to keep their woman's only version.

They opened up female only gyms here but only older woman go there, all the modern day woman choose to go to the mixed gyms and then complain about men.

My local town used to have a men's only club and feminists put a stop to that. But now men are identifying as female and going into woman's sports and these feminists expect us men to bail them out. Sadly, that will happen, men will come to the rescue of these woman as usual and then they'll go right back to taking away all our spaces, not that we have any left.

As long as beta males in government keep letting them dictate decisions, it'll just keep happening. Here in Australia someone started a female only uber service, men who called it sexist were belittled by feminists. Go and start a male only uber service and watch how fast these same woman label it sexist and demand it be cancelled.

Greg_W_Allan · 2023-08-28T05:47:29+00:00

The denial of male only spaces has robbed boys and men of the environments in which they are best able to deal with stress and trauma. It's one of the contributing factors to the upwardly spiraling suicide rates we've been seeing for decades.

mambophobic · 2023-08-28T07:23:46+00:00

When I was in middle and high school nearly every all-boys school in my city converted to co-ed, but curiously the girls schools in the city didn’t.

Now that I have sons I’m saving up to send them to an all-boys school that has a sister school across the street. The few all-boys schools I can find in my State are nearly all Catholic.

Started going to Church again and was soon invited to a men’s group and barbecue.

There are male-only spaces out there but at least in my area they are almost all religious. Maybe those get left alone because they are places most modern women never think to go.

LAMGE2 · 2023-08-28T08:24:55+00:00

Im surprised reddit didn’t ban us, why? They don’t even need a reason, do they? If everything was reasonable, FDS wouldn’t last so long.

bobby1225 · 2023-08-28T02:53:07+00:00

I used to belong to a gym connected to a prestigious club on the top floor of a tall building. The gym was actually on the roof, but no windows. All male. Females not allowed. It was GREAT! Walking around in a towel, ordering top shelf drinks from the Club bar, open locker rooms, gendered showers(all guys, right?). We could order anything off of the Club menu, and they’d bring it up just like room service. As Archie Bunker sang, “Those were the da….”

TedDownUnder · 2023-08-28T08:29:48+00:00

I went to Melbourne for a holiday recently, went to visit family and friends, something i noticed is that in the city center, in the largest open space for public congregation (fed square if anyone is wondering) the toilets there are female only and all gender, this really annoyed me, how come i have to share my toilet with any old person who wanders in while the women get thier own toilet? Its a load of shit in my opinion, women are apparently uncomfortable when men use thier toilets so they get thier own, but what about men who feel uncomfortable when women use the mens toilet? nothing no one gives a shit, just have 3 toilets its not hard to let men have at least one space where its just other men

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2023-08-28T02:21:33+00:00

We can't even keep women out of Men's restrooms 😢

AcrobaticDig5710 · 2023-08-28T03:34:10+00:00

Well there is the freemasons that space stayed male only. I'm pretty grateful for that tbh. There are over 4500, that's right Thousands of men only masonic grand lodges i nn the world and once to uare one you are welcome to all of them. There are two female only grand lodges. As far as lodges that allowwomwn.. roughly less than 50 and they arnt affiliated.

The whole idea is to make gooden better. I really have gotten alot from it though might not be for all.

Edit: if you become a member though you do end up studying the history and such from those who where there and wrote it. Wich will be deeper than Google can give. But you do deal with people like below who get incorrect views from random sources. Youl also deal with people who think it's a satanic cult.. so there's that. For reference there are over 4500 male only freemason lodges around the world and they can all visit each other and view one another as brothers

1837-1980 · 2023-08-28T04:37:02+00:00

You just gave me more ideas thank you. I love this sub.

Aware-to-care · 2023-08-28T14:36:19+00:00

A brand new one r/MenStandTogether

Would mean a lot for anyone to join. Hard to find places to promote it here.

mgtowolf · 2023-08-28T02:02:54+00:00

We can't, because of stupid laws, male spaces that exist and are successful at anything will continue to be invaded and destroyed.

thingamabobby · 2023-08-28T09:41:40+00:00

Does the US have the idea of Men’s Sheds? Built for this specific purpose. It works well in Australia from what I can see, especially for the older generation

hottake_toothache · 2023-08-28T13:55:42+00:00

It is so important.

Proverbs_31_2-3 · 2023-08-28T07:12:44+00:00

You could organize around small groups that meet in homes. The ACLU's not going to be able to force you to invite unwanted people into your private home for whatever reason.

LazerDaighzer · 2023-08-28T05:36:50+00:00

We had a pub at the back of my mums house called the Greyhound and it had a saloon for men only, no scrubbers allowed. Just men enjoying a quiet drink on week nights minding their business. I would go there as 15 year old to get a couple of cheeky pints. It’s a Muslim community centre now. Great pub garden, I used to hear the patrons on a warm long summer night as I would lay in bed.

shit-zen-giggles · 2023-08-28T11:04:24+00:00

https://mensshed.org/

https://menssheds.org.uk/

https://usmenssheds.org/

Frird2008 · 2023-08-28T11:58:57+00:00

Furthermore, what I believe will be most effective is having a libertarian conservative woman who actively resists the authoritarian liberal ideologies (4th wave feminism being one of them) be the head of the space. Not sure how that will work, but my guess is that she will be strong enough to fight the feminists head-on who try to invade the space with their AL 4W feminist ideologies dawg

2023-08-28T23:48:07+00:00

Unfortunately, men cannot have anything without the feminists perceiving it as a direct threat to them. It’s okay for women to celebrate their femininity, but when a man celebrates his masculinity, it becomes “toxic masculinity”.

BababooeyBoom · 2023-08-30T21:38:42+00:00

The first rule of fight club is you don't talk about fight club.

Stilltryin4gold · 2023-08-28T16:06:28+00:00

It's really MENS fault that this has gotten so far. Unfortunately, men do not scream about women only things like women scream about men only things. When men do stand up against discriminatory, female only things, demand access to girl's stem classes, girls fire camps, women's scholarships, mud girl competitions etc, it either stops or in the fine print below the discriminatory headline advertising to dissuade males from applying, it will say "open to all genders".

designerutah · 2023-08-28T15:17:26+00:00

Just start a men only religion whose only activity is to provide men a place to meet other male friends, to share how to be better men, and to provide counsel and support for men's issues. Can't let any of it become anti-women or pro-cheating or anything like that. Just men's religion specifically to support healthy masculinity (anything that isn't toxic whether done by male or female).

Valuable_sandwich44 · 2023-08-28T17:58:01+00:00

We also need more White Pride to assert our presence in the communities.

LetThereBeLightss · 2023-08-28T14:41:44+00:00

End. Wokeness.

Title	Bringing back male spaces
Author	Pleasant-Worry-4240
Upvotes	275
Comments	55
Date	August 28, 2023 1:23 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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