Sextoys

HyakuBikki · 2023-10-27T03:49:41+00:00

Because male sexuality is seen as disgusting and predatory, whereas women's sexuality is celebrated.

Ben-iND · 2023-10-26T19:47:04+00:00

Because society thinks:

If a man has a sextoy, its because he CANT get Sex with a women.

If a women has sextoys, its because she dont NEED Sex with a man.

commacausey · 2023-10-27T03:17:40+00:00

I remember hearing a comedian doing a bit about that.

If a woman has a drawer full of sex toys then it’s all “you go girl, good for you for exploring your sexuality”. They find one pocket pussy in my apartment then I’m a pervert and am not allowed to be around kids anymore.

soontobesolo · 2023-10-26T19:52:28+00:00

Who cares. Own it. You're a grown man.

That being said, I haven't really found any toys I like.

AirSailer · 2023-10-26T23:30:47+00:00

Women control access to sex, men control access to relationships. If men have sex toys then women have less control, which in our gynocentric society is a bad thing. Women make up 80%+ of domestic spending, yet earn 24% less (the gender earnings gap) which mean that transfer of wealth has to occur OR women have to earn more, else the economy will crash. Men using sex toys undermines women's control.

AdVivid9056 · 2023-10-27T05:22:05+00:00

Even more. Sextoys for women are really freaky.

Dildos in all shapes; horse or any aother animal shaped penis, tentacles like of an octopus, dragonpenis, those things are even able to spray a cum-like fluid, inflatable, all kinds of material, the biggest and most realistic penis imitated dildos. It's crazy. Then all those vibrators and all that stuff. I'm not shaming any of that to be clear. I love that and I love all the open-minded women out there using those toys. It's just again that double standard that freaks me out. Imagine a guy being as kinky as a woman with all those toys. He would be looked at in disgust by women.

GeriatricTech · 2023-10-27T05:00:45+00:00

100% spot fucking on. The double standard is absurd.

JohannReddit · 2023-10-27T04:42:15+00:00

Been in a relationship for a few years now and we're both super into toys for both of us; it's great! We got a whole drawer to choose from now.

LiveComfortable3228 · 2023-10-27T08:24:05+00:00

Its because men are perceived to be self-centered and useless in bed, hence women NEED a sex toy to be satisfied OR they the sex toy empowers them and removes the need for the (useless) men.

Men....are perverts and losers no matter what they do.

rotkohl007 · 2023-10-27T02:17:29+00:00

Sexism

AllGearedUp · 2023-10-27T06:55:40+00:00

Sometimes I read the new York times and they have reviews for women's sex toys. The same never happens for me. I also get ads on Amazon for the same kind of stuff, even though I never shop for or buy those things... And I'm not a woman... Absurd double standard.

Similarly I have always found it weird that highly explicit sexual "romance" novels (it's just porn) can be purchased by anyone in a grocery store but plain nude photos like in a Playboy are considered gross and seedy.

Asatmaya · 2023-10-26T16:50:00+00:00

"Keys and locks."

NineHeavensMaster · 2023-10-27T16:47:58+00:00

Cause it's a double standard.

Background_Break2106 · 2023-10-26T17:10:39+00:00

I have a couple questions a) like a fleshlight or something like it.? And b) why does this bother you? Honestly who gives a flying fuck about everyone else? This about you and right to please yourself. Yes obviously a double standard. She has so many because that's how many dicks she wants! Guys we just need 1 or 2 after that ,real or not it starts to get real expensive lol

marinesniper1996 · 2023-10-27T10:16:01+00:00

so basically whatever men do is wrong wrong wrong bad bad bad, and whatever women do is ultimately infinitely definitively impeccably good, sorry ran out of the adjectives that I know of or can think of right now

excess_inquisitivity · 2023-10-26T22:07:20+00:00

Why are men shamed or considered pigs/perverts while for women...

don_Mugurel · 2023-10-27T12:32:52+00:00

Nobody wants to think about a guy playing with himself. A girl, totally different ball game.

Filler_espisode · 2023-10-27T05:10:33+00:00

Sex toys for men are pretty bad though, since they don't accommodate larger sizes, I've been looking on and off at onaholes, and they never have anything that fits me. I am not even like crazy huge or anything. The cleaning also seems pretty tedious.

McBawss · 2023-10-26T22:35:01+00:00

When a girl buys a vibrator, its seen as a bit of naughty fun. BUT when a guy orders a 240 Volt FuckMaster Pro 5000 blowup latex doll with 6 speed pulsating vagina, elasticized anus with non-drip semen collection tray, together with optional built in realistic orgasm scream surround sound system, hes called a pervert?

Strong_Bumblebee5495 · 2023-10-27T20:57:41+00:00

I think that this is your perspective. I recently had a male friend recommend a male sex toy. At a dinner party. After his wife prompted him.

Maybe she was taking the piss? Didn’t come off like that, all the homies got the hook…

MensIssuesThrowaway · 2023-10-26T23:05:04+00:00

Who has called you a pervert for having a sex toy? Who were you showing it to?

hotpotato128 · 2023-10-26T20:16:59+00:00

I haven't of heard this.

devidjec · 2023-11-15T09:05:24+00:00

Yeah the double sidedness of this crazy

DegreeHorror9396 · 2024-01-11T17:56:03+00:00

Society encourages women for sex toys and shames men......... Double standards!

Title	Sextoys
Author	ResEngineer
Upvotes	176
Comments	91
Date	October 26, 2023 4:47 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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