Cannot digest the fact that my current, and a few before her, think it's okay to openly fantasize about (fictional) characters and expect me to be fine with it

Ofcourse they're fictional, ofcourse it'll never be real. But calling them perfection, and that it's only fantasies that will never come true isn't something anyone wants to hear, regardless the gender. It makes you think about what if scenarios which obviously cannot happen, but it also shows you how much of a loss you're at when you put yourself in their fictional fantasy and end up on the sidelines.

But they choose you irl right.

Update : some of you guys are crazy trolls that are showing me how dumb I am, some are scary, and some are really helpful, I'm going to talk to her and not get emotionally choked up, let's hope it goes well.