Basically I am a conventionally attractive guy. I am 5'10 FFMI 22 and 12% body fat. I have an attractive face and grew up modeling and modeled in highschool and a little after (I never had to pay for pictures because the photographers said it was a "fair exchange").
I mog like 99% of the guys I come in contact with on a daily basis barring some roid head's physique or a 6'3 mid tier normie.
In highschool I was a toxic bad boy player and had a rotation of girls I broke the hearts of. I finally I dated an aspiring Instagram model and got locked down. After highschool I had a rude awakening to life with some mental health crisis - didn't go to college and instead hit the gym and worked out. During my identity crisis I found red pill content mainly Jordan Peterson and red pill dating coaches like Austin Dunham and Steph is cold. I consumed a lot of this content and the main message I got from it was self improve.
Jordan Peterson's insights into evolutionary psychology particularly between the dynamic of the dominance hierarchy and women "selecting men from the top" resonated with me. Growing up I never got attention from girls not until highschool when girls actually cared about status. There I got to see first hand what status did to women. I was very popular and had a reputation as a elite athlete. I got pulled up for varsity for football and lettered as a team captain on the track team, I actually won MVP on the track team and was the #1 freshman hurdler for my event. When I played football girls from other schools would come to my games and hold signs for me, they painted their face with my number and would scream my nam everytime I scored. Even on campus once word got around I had beaten the school record for hurdles even the senior girls started flirting with me. By the time I met my girlfriend I was already a track star and I was popular even at other schools (she went to the rival school).
Anyways I'm saying all this because I have a lived experience where status played a role in my dating life (although it was highschool) I didn't get to experience this in College since I didn't go. But after highschool, watching Jordan Peterson I realized I need to become high status, so I embarked on a 6.5 year journey to become a rapper.
I am pretty fucking good as a rapper, I can write multi-syllable rhymes while juggling metaphors, similes, punchlines and even double entenders. I can also freestyle rap with a random word generator rhyming 3-4 syllable worda. By the standards of rap I am a "generational prospect". However I need to learn additional skills before I can release professionally.
I got into the black pill stuff at the same time as the red pill stuff. And it first it snatched my soul. I got a face rating from "Wheat Waffles" who said I was deadpan average "5". (Don't ask me why I was asking an incel man to rate my face even though I had a surplus of evidence where women said I was hot/sexy growing up). I didn't swallow the black pill and instead started researching evolutionary psychology and mating. And learned about hypergamy and "honest signals" etc.
The conclusion I came to was status is THE MOST IMPORTANT factor in short term and long term dating. It's the ultimate "cheat code" for slaying. And it's the ultimate "honest signal". Apparently nothing signals to women you have good genes more than wealth and status. I am trying to increase my status as right now it's basically non-existent. I have the skill of rapping but as I said I need to learn additional skills before I can release.
My question to you is has status/wealth changes your dating life?
I am attractive but I get zero dates and am practically invisible to the majority of the women on dating apps. The only women that seem to notice me are cougars lol. I just realized the black pill is largely cope. By their logic I should be drowning in women right now and I am not. But I wanted to hear from guys who increased their status how it affected your dating life and the quality and quantity of women you date.
TLDR; I am attractive but still don't have success dating, I am trying to attain status. How did attaining status increase the quality and quantity of women.
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