Open relationship- on his side

odd_cloud · 2024-02-22T15:01:36+00:00

Do whatever you’re comfortable with. I think I’d like to have many partners when I was single, but the idea of being in open committed relationships feels weird to me.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2024-02-22T15:09:13+00:00

Most or a lot of men are interested in multiple partners even if they love their current partner. Many claim “it’s just sex” of “it’s just a vice”.

You are super dense/naive if you believe this. Not to mention it doesn't mean anything and it doesn't justify anything either

My father has had a few instances where he’s cheated on my mother, so I think that’s why I’m even considering it

Your father was shit,sorry

Im against "open relationships", but if you wanna do it, do it. However it should be open for both people, not just one. Otherwise it's just cheating with formality lol

vimsoparafazerraiva · 2024-02-22T14:53:30+00:00

Do it. When you also decide to get into it and can swim in penis while he struggles to swim in vagina, he will bitch about it.

Konoha_Shinobee · 2024-02-22T14:56:41+00:00

I think it can be fine to an extent, he can sleep with women and not really affect your relationship. However, sex and emotions are not entirely disconnected for anyone, so if you have your partner around a lot of people of the opposite sex you run the risk of him bonding with someone and threatening your relationship's integrity, especially if he's sleeping with them.

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RahLyt · 2024-02-22T15:05:10+00:00

Lol what do you want?

boom-wham-slam · 2024-02-22T15:29:08+00:00

This is the kind of relationship I have currently and have had in the past. Definitely makes me appreciate my girlfriend much more and takes a lot of stress off her being the one and only woman to fulfill my needs.

tiddermacss · 2024-02-22T15:02:27+00:00

yes this is true.. for men its just side pu**y..

ComfortableJeans · 2024-02-22T15:16:15+00:00

Honestly, I left a partner because she asked if I wanted to be in an FFM threesome.

If this were to happen with me, I'd feel very hurt by her not caring if I'm fucking other women and I'd just start to mentally dip out of the relationship.

But I'm a weirdo. Most boys would feel this way.

My feelings aside, I feel as though you're just putting a timer on your relationship like this. You're giving him carte blanche to find another girl while he's with you. It's just a matter of time before feelings develop.

wtknight · 2024-02-22T15:45:13+00:00

Removed. No advice posts.

Title	Open relationship- on his side
Author	Jaazzminee
Upvotes	0
Comments	22
Date	February 22, 2024 2:48 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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