TRPers will never be happy

drok007 · 2015-04-27T15:52:46+00:00

I'm RP, happy, and successful. I find it fairly easy to get women to fall in line.

meehan666 · 2015-04-27T16:32:24+00:00

On the contrary, only a true "TRPer" can ever be happy. Ideally, they live a healthy life free of the medical problems that come from being fat and out of shape. Furthermore, the "abundance mentality" when it comes to women creates a stress free lifestyle. If it doesn't work out with that chick, no worries, plenty of fish in the sea. The focus on career and money provides goals to strive for, which gives one a reason to wake up in the morning. All in all, seems like a happy life.

AnnoyingSeaAnt · 2015-04-27T16:08:42+00:00

Traditional women are rarer for sure. That doesn't mean they are extinct. See red states , churches and etc. It's not like ballbusting narcissistic SJW are the majority of women anyway.

The point of TRP , I suppose, is to become a top 20 percenter of men , and have enough choices to find a reliable, prettier enough wife open to traditionality. Even then , they can just get a woman with a good enough submissive streak to polish. Most RP just ask for some agreeability , not for literal barefoot kitchen permanence.

If they fail that , I suppose they can go abroad anyway. That what a lot of the older PUA's did if I remember.

mykonos_rm · 2015-04-27T19:37:56+00:00

You're using a deductive fallacy. Just because we prefer traditional gender roles doesn't mean the lack of such roles make us unhappy. We understand the workings of the status quo and use it our benefit. Case in point, feminism has probably been the best thing for 20% of men who can engage in a guilt free buffett of sex free of commitment. It's the 80% of other men, many of whom are not RP, who get left in the dust and miserable.

Cactuar_Tamer · 2015-04-28T10:11:26+00:00

Personally, I've had enough of RP-types trying to say I must be miserable (or shortly about to be miserable) because I'm 30 and unattached etc etc etc. Well, I'm not. Life's great! Hanging out with friends, meeting new people... like, I just went out for steak last Friday with a total stranger I met in line at Taco Bell (we left Taco Bell and went to Outback), and it was awesome.

Ahem. Anyway, so it would be hypocritical of me to turn around and claim that deep down they must be miserable just because I (strongly) disagree with their life choices. I'm sure that for the most part they enjoy their ONSs as much as I enjoy my own little Adventures in Social Interaction. And if they say they are content and happy with their lives like that, then who am I to tell them they aren't? LTRs aren't a prerequisite for happiness.

And moving beyond the "dismissing someone's lived experiences" angle, isn't this all a little too Just-World-y? I mean. Sure, we'd like to believe that we live in a universe where the assholes of the world will karmically suffer for their douchebaggery, but the sad truth is that the universe doesn't care a whit for human morals and terrible people live it up at the expense of of others every day, and they sleep soundly, content to very pit of their black, shriveled hearts. I was thinking more along the lines of serial killers or warlords and such with that last sentence but the principle also applies to very much lesser evils such as RP.

cxj · 2015-04-28T04:25:17+00:00

Native born American women from the coasts who value traditional gender roles are rarer, but there are plenty of traditional immigrant women who are happy to marry native born men with careers, be stay at home wives/moms, take pride in their cooking/homemaking, don't sleep around, etc. IDK what the bedroom is like with them really but as u/Atlas_B_Shruggin said, sexual specialties like anal/ BDSM etc have only become more common due to sluts "upping the sexual arms race," so it might be pretty vanilla, but if they do wild sex too then you probably wouldn't hear about it either.

crazydave1979 · 2015-04-27T16:38:47+00:00

What makes you think our happiness revolves around women??

CisWhiteMaelstrom · 2015-04-27T20:59:38+00:00

I'm happy. Is your view changed?

DOCTORxTEETH · 2015-04-27T16:18:22+00:00

Women like that aren't that rare. Most women, the ones I meet at least, have no problem with being "traditional". Everyone assumes everyone at TRP wants a 50s housewife, I don't find that kind of woman attractive. I think I'm happy as hell.

nomdplume · 2015-04-28T19:41:54+00:00

a lot of trpers seem to value traditional gender roles

I value masculinity and femininity. Having a good complement of masculine and feminine qualities is far more important to me than the functional/logistical structure of a relationship.

I will say that, even if I am not particularly interested in "traditional gender roles" or the lack thereof, I find that they aren't always easy to break away from, regardless of how one feels about them going into the relationship.

My wife (a very successful career woman) often laments having been given all the options. She never feels like she can "have it all" and sometimes just wishes she didn't have to deal with managing all her choices in the attempt. Kind of a "pandora's box" situation, she feels - she in no way feels comfortable giving up a career she has worked her ass off to achieve, but she also resents not having more time to spend on the domestic life she so values (her home, her family, etc.).

taiboworks · 2015-04-27T16:07:37+00:00

We know we can't find women like that here in the West. Eastern Europe and Asia are a different story.

kick6 · 2015-04-27T19:06:31+00:00

You're attempting to state this in obfuscated terms:

"not all TRPers will get the woman they way want so you'll end up being a lonely old man." Except, well, it just isn't true

blametheboogie · 2015-04-27T22:42:56+00:00

I can be happy with or without women, I'd rather have women though. My happiness comes from within, unfortunately my dick is not so spiritual and likes the pleasures of the flesh.

I'm not necessarily looking for traditional women, I'm not a religious or conservative person.

I don't want a woman who can't cook, clean or do other domestic things though. I do all of those things so I'm not going to be with someone who thinks they're above the basic tasks of being an adult who can look after themselves. I do like women who are sweet, kind and feminine though, trying to outdo men in everything isn't attractive to me.

What are you defining as failure? I'm pretty sure I can achieve most of the things I want from life.

HappilySingleWoman · 2015-04-27T16:03:24+00:00

A lot of RPillers don't want to get married , they want to "spin plates".

There are some women who have no real problem with traditional gender roles . I bet if you explain to women exactly what you want in a relationship and lay down some rules, a lot of them will respond positively .

Also, according to my experience, a lot of women are comfortable with their femininity when they're around masculine men.

Postboned · 2015-04-27T17:00:19+00:00

I'm TRP and I don't expect this.

Maybe I aknowledged the fact because I found TRP after the phase I went without it and most made sense.

TheGreasyPole · 2015-04-28T09:24:54+00:00

A hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.

Seriously, does that answer your question ?

Lol. "I'm not happy". You guys just really don't get it, do you ?

wazzup987 · 2015-04-27T16:00:36+00:00

plenty trad con women you are just living in the wrong place probably.

Title	TRPers will never be happy
Author	Fuschia19
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Date	April 27, 2015 3:49 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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