Background: I’m a Hispanic man who is 5’8-5’9 depending on the time of day. I’m stuck in a city full of white Americans of Germanic stock. What that means is that men are on average taller than me, while white women & literal (white) children often mog me height-wise. Even with this “fatal” flaw, my saving grace is exceptionally good looks — facial symmetry, strong sharp jawline, blessed hair genetics & hair appearance, high cheekbones — basically a pretty boy look, but definitely not the rugged look. Nonetheless, my height cucks me in my hometown.

To “minimize” my manlet status, I usually only wear Air Max or other thick sole shoes with insoles (sometimes even lift inserts) whenever I’m outside, and my hair is naturally voluminous on the top, so in public I’m always 5’10-5’11 (yes, I measured). This is the height I’ve listed on dating apps & I’ve never been called out on it when meeting chicks. In fact, I’ve had at least 2 short girls think I’m 6’0. All my friends also overestimate my height too (5’10 is the usual guess even barefoot), so either the minimization strategies work or it’s the “handsome” halo giving me some imaginary inches in people’s minds.

More context: I’m not very dark, but I’m not light either. I’m medium brown but can be medium-light brown if I avoid sun exposure. I can pass as a variety of things: MENA, Native American, Indian, SEA, & sometimes a dark Southern European or dark Jew. But Hispanics always know I’m Hispanic. My facial features are best described as “gracile Mediterranean” + “gracile Mesoamerican” (basically a gracile mestizo). And with this gracile profile, I am naturally skinny and thin-boned but I have put on enough muscle to where my abs can show and I have clear muscle definition.

Last but not least… I am high inhibition but I can work on that because it’s not autism, just high anxiety. Already tested for autism and I’m not on the spectrum.

I’ve noticed by changing my location on Tinder Gold & Hinge that I do very well, sometimes even with good looking women in cities with a big hippie/stoner/lib scene like Portland or Seattle, or places with lots of (non-Cuban) Hispanics like New Mexico (I only match with black chicks in Miami). Southern California is the exception, I can “do well” there but it’s with usually uglier or overweight women or single mothers. If I put my height as 6’0 or above, my results go way up so I know my height is fucking me up.

Yes I have SOME options, but if I want the BEST options, what places around the globe do you think would work best for me to geomax? I’m talking both casual sex and relationships - maybe a certain region is best for the one & another is best for the other?