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[–]Godlikeblade 475 points476 points477 points 6 years ago (77 children) | Copy Link

[–]wes101abn 218 points219 points220 points 6 years ago (30 children) | Copy Link

Unfortunately it's not like that at all. What wasn't depicted was the lawyers and court battles. In the end this is usually how it goes.

My ex and I split 9 years ago. She took my kid and moved back to her hometown in California to be with "the love of her life". This was during a period where I was working 50 hours a week and taking a full course load to finish a Bachelor's in Mechanical Engineering. I was doing all of it to better my family, but it meant I was working 6 days a week, and studying almost every minute I had. I did my best to make time for my daughter and my ex, but it wasn't enough for her.

I never gave her permission to take my kid out of state. At that point in my life I had been spending every dollar I had on my daughter and our family, and I didn't have money for a lawyer, but her parents did. I got completely raked through the coals and slammed with so much child support and alimony that I could never afford to go see my child (Orange County CA is not exactly a cheap place to visit).

Every other year she tries to have custody of my daughter removed because she insists that I don't spend any time to see her, and she tries to paint me as some fucking crazy that's a threat to my kid. Mind you I am a professional engineer, decorated Iraq veteran, Eagle Scout, etc. I've never been arrested. I've never been admitted. I've never been addicted to anything in my life. Yet she and her attorney find ways to try to paint me as some drunk junkie psychopath. Last year I spent $7000 on an attorney to fight my case, on top of $1400 a month in child support. Meanwhile she has my daughter calling her new man "Dad".

The whole thing is a fucking trap. I'm looking forward to 7 years from now when my daughter turns 18. The good news is that even though she's been brainwashed to hate me, she doesn't. I'm allowed to call her twice a week and she's always excited to talk to me and see me. I really hope she understands what really happened 9 years ago, and how much I love her.

[–]failadin155 93 points94 points95 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Jugrnot8 27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Start making peace with it brother. 90% of thetime statistically women get awarded children and child support. She will play victim and feel entitled to every dollar the government tells her she is "due". She will use the child as a pawn.

I hope this doesnt happen but its way to common you can ask any father and they all have the same story. Being in this situation the last 5 years Ive yet to meet a man that ever said the ex was fair or a good person. They all have that deep dark sadness in their eyes when you can see them think about what they have gone through and they dont even need to tell their story because its the same one we all have heard a million times.

Thats how you can tell the difference. Women will go on and on trying to sell their story of the break up and guys just wont even bother bearing their soul to share it because its all just so fucking painful they will just get that look on their face and say something short like, "I know your pain, it sucks."

We are helpless and we know there is nothing that will change it any time soon.

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[–]wes101abn 20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

That's my dream. That's my hope everyday. I always tell my daughter how proud I am of her, and how she's so smart and beautiful. I love her more than I ever knew I could love anyone. My ex remarried (tried to keep the alimony too which I had to fight) and has a 2 year old with her new husband. I know for a fact that they are neglecting my daughter in favor of the baby they had together. I really hope that she realizes how important she is to me and how she is my life. She's the only child I'll ever have, and I'd do anything for her.

There was a period of 2 years when I was completely cut off from my kid. I did everything I could to try to get her back or just be able to talk to her, but I couldn't afford a lawyer and my ex is completely heartless so I was completely alienated. This caused serious damage to my child and our relationship.

She still calls me "Wes" and her step father "Dad". She still refuses to reciprocate when I tell her that I love her. I try to understand that it's the years of the alienation of parental affection working against me... but it would be nice to hear my daughter say "I love you, Daddy".

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[–]failadin155 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Good luck finding a woman that will be your gf for 7 years. Hell, go 2 years into a relationship and most women will be going to all their friends asking how they can force you to propose. Some women fake pregnancies or stop taking birth control to push marriage on men thinking that the baby will change their minds. Its.... this world.... its disgusting... its rotten. It need to be swept away and started new. Cuz courts side with the women after years of feminism pushing their agenda that they have it so bad. And the men’s right activists that popped up get laughed at or told they are completely out of their minds and simply “anti-woman”. The world is way out of balance.

Just look at abortion. If i as a man don’t want the child i have no say, and she can get child support regardless. If i do want the child i have no say if she wants to kill my baby cuz its “her body, her choice”. If i say publicly that men should have SOME say in this i get told “dont have sex if you dont want to deal with it”, yet that same argument is NEVER said to a woman if they push for legalization of abortions at any stage in the pregnancy. And all this controversy is before they are even born. Men have zero value as fathers in this society besides the punching bag of jokes. Sitcoms like modern family where the dad is a bumbling idiot that is lucky to have his spouse is so common compared to just 20 years ago.

The more you see and the more you hear the worse it gets. There is no justice. Meanwhile go on any social media and type in the search bar “men” and the top 5 suggested topics are horrible. We have become the bad guys in an age where we should be supported the most. #metoo made men weary of being alone with women at the workplace, and women complained that it was yet another glass ceiling/disadvantage that harms them!

There was an all-female company created. That fact alone wouldnt be allowed legally if it was the other gender. The company shut down within 2 years directly due to the issues that arose because it was all women. I’ve gone to managers and asked for an application to be told “dont bother, we dont hire men”. Yet when i go online and make a comment like this one that points out hypocrisy towards my half of the world i get told that im the problem or that i am too dumb/uneducated to be able to grasp the REAL issues cuz its soooo much worse for women.

It just gets worse and worse. I could rant about this for days, in this comment ive only scratched the surface. We havent even talked about workplace injuries, suicide figures, longer sentences for the same crime, harsher treatment in the military, higher standards for success and etc. etc. etc.

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[–]ChaviChavChop 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Can someone explain common law marriage to me? Even when I look it up it isn’t clear.

It’s basically, if I, a man, have a woman I am dating live with me, set her ID to my address, and set her mail to my address, for a certain length of time, the government will eventually literally assume we are together and then consider us together as far as the law is concerned. Meaning if we break up she will be entitled to those things.

But reading doesn’t say any important specifics. It does read like the government just assumes.

What if I have a male roommate or best friend and we split bills? What if the woman is my sister? What if she’s not but we just aren’t dating?

Does the government assume everyone is together if they live together and thus are entitled to the others belongings if they separate?

I honesty can’t find any info on how common law works in those cases, or really how it works at all.

Seems like a dating couple would have to purposely do something for the government to assume they are together. As long as they don’t do that, then neither would be entitled to the others stuff and all.

Any clarifications you can offer?

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I found a note in my exes car of her lawyers scribbling to direction of a womens battered shelter with other evidence of the steps she needs to do. Get a PPO on there was one of them.

The only physical abuse that ever occurred was her hitting me but fuck the women who actually do get hurt as long as they can abuse the system to get theirs.

Women that do this are the lowest cunts on the planet. They give women a bad name and make it so real victims have a hard time getting people to believe them.

If it was just me thats dealt with this it wouldn't be an issue but you can ask almost any man or woman anywhere and they will have a story to share about some dumb cunt doing this to a man. its a fucking problem and the government doesnt give a shit and these are the trash that are "raising" our children 90% of the time.

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Holy fuck that wiki...

She told a jury of ten women and two men that her husband often "berated" her and forced her to wear "slutty" costumes for sex. As proof she displayed a pair of high-heeled shoes and a wig at which those in attendance gasped. Winkler claimed that she only shot her husband accidentally. She said that she went to the bedroom closet and retrieved a shotgun because she wanted to force him to work through their problems. "I just wanted him to stop being so mean," she said through tears.

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Prosecutors had asked that Winkler be convicted of first-degree murder, but the jury settled on the lesser charge after deliberating for eight hours.

She fell for a Nigerian scam, claimed to want to force her husband to "work things out" at shotgun point, was put in a bloody mental facility, then given mere probation. And she's "in the best interest" of her children?

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It honestly depends on the state/region you’re in. Some regions are more sexist than others. Many courts just try to keep families together in general, to the point where it might even be detrimental. My bff’s baby daddy tried to blow up her apartment building and he still gets visitation rights.

Regardless, I’m not fighting the sexist bias of the court system. I know there’s a bias toward giving the mother primary custody and therefore more benefits regardless of the situation (though the issue is more complicated than simply court bias), and it’s something that needs to change. I was merely responding to you asking why this post was coming off as “woman hating.” The situation in this post isn’t exactly the most common situation. Infidelity in general (for both genders) only accounts for like 28% of divorces. To create this pic and post it like this situation happens all the time is misleading and very incel-esque.

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Ok, so... you’re defending the guy who tries to blow up someone’s apartment and threaten my friend and HIS OWN CHILD’S life saying he’s “justified”?? God, I didn’t know you were a sociopath. Nevermind, I see now there’s no point I arguing with you. If you think trying to kill someone for not having full custody is JUSTIFIED then you’re clearly too far gone. He’s a psychopath who’s constantly in jail and threatens her and her child all the fucking time saying things like “if I can’t have you then no one can” and you think he deserves visitation rights because “he’s the father”??? That’s fucking insane. He doesn’t get visitation because my friend is fucking terrified of him and of what he might do to her or their child, not because he’s “male.” Dear lord.

And nothing in this meme is funny. It’s an obvious incel meme. The black dude just adds the element of racism on top of the woman hating message, which only makes it worse.

[–]RockmanXX1 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I never said it was "justified", i merely implied that i understood why he would do something crazy, you're the real sociopath if you can't the blatant inhumanity in taking someone's child away. Why would i instantly buy your narrative that your friend is innocent and her EX is Jeffery Dahmer without a proper context on what happened?

He’s a psychopath who’s constantly in jail and threatens her and her child all the fucking time saying things like “if I can’t have you then no one can” and you think he deserves visitation rights because “he’s the father”???

I have ZERO context make a clear judgement about anyone involved here, i can only make assumptions based on what little i can infer. I don't know the story of why is he in Jail and the kind of people he&his ex are. Don't jump at my throat as if 100% agreeing with him, i'm only concerned with the moral reasoning behind the laws and i firmly believe that shared custody should be the default unless either parent is mentally unstable or a drug user.

not because he’s “male.”

I never once implied this was a gendered issue but you seem to be keen on making this about Man Vs Woman like a Radical Feminist. I'm equally against taking a child away from a mother as well and i can also understand if she ends up doing something crazy after separation because that's what humans do when they're pushed too far by the system. This doesn't translate to "I agree with crazy mothers&fathers going on a murder spree"

woman hating message

People make fun of dumb&evil men on a daily basis so why can't we can't make fun of dumb&evil women? How is making fun of an evil woman exploiting the judicial system an insult to ALL of Womankind? HOW!? Everyone laughs at jokes about deadbeat dads who leave their GFs after finding out that they're pregnant, i don't see it as "Man Hating Message", evil people should be hated.

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Honestly anyone who tries to blow someone else up is generally considered “mentally unstable” so saying “no wonder why he tried to blow them up!” sounds like you’re completely agreeing with the validity of that level of mental instability. Sorry if I jumped the gun on assuming your intentions there.

It’s not the criticism of judicial system I find “woman hating,” it’s the fact that the way this meme is set up kind of implies that this is happening all the time and it’s “just the way things are” in marriage. It kind of implies this happens all the time, which is inaccurate. Honestly, those memes making fun of deadbeat dads I find pretty sexist too (and usually they do come off as “man hating” to me), because they also usually imply that’s “just the way things are.” Like with the pos woman in this meme, I know it happens, but to imply every man is a deadbeat and useless is flat sexist. I honestly hate the “man hating” memes equally as much as I do the “woman hating” memes.

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Title	This sub posts in a nutshell
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Date	May 15, 2020 4:31 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PussyPass
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