I mean he’s not wrong

AnxiousHumanBeing · 2021-02-22T20:33:52+00:00

I second the person who says we don't know how she asked.

I would usually give up my seat on my bus rides home if i saw an elderly person. But when i didn't see them and i was just rudely asked "don't you have manners" by an old hapry, i would stay on my seat, even if it made me feel like shit. I am giving up my seat as a polite gesture, so if you're not polite when you ask i don't see why i should be polite to you, respect isn't a one way thing.

Also it could be that someone else jumped in when everything was infact fine, it's not uncommon.

"May i have your seat ?" no, i'm sorry but i've worked all day and i'm very tired. "That's okay i understand"

Then a third person jumps in because how dare you not give up your seat ?

WildWook · 2021-02-22T18:08:18+00:00

If she asked politely I would give up my seat for sure. If she was rude she can stand for all I care.

snoudle · 2021-02-22T17:13:59+00:00

Should've fucked a dude with a car

Achack · 2021-02-22T21:45:02+00:00

Anyone else wondering why there was only one man sitting on this completely packed public transportation?

broadsharp · 2021-02-22T16:36:57+00:00

Yes ladies, chivalry is dead and take a guess on who killed it.

https://youtu.be/ymNdfdQvdVc

alreadytaken899 · 2021-02-22T17:29:16+00:00

The thing is, we don't know how she asked.

Phil_Smiles · 2021-02-22T22:57:25+00:00

Why is this a article? Like was there that big of a scene

Electrical-Bacon-81 · 2021-02-22T20:18:45+00:00

He's just following the feminist rules, "my body, my choice".

2021-02-23T22:40:11+00:00

next time fuck someone who has a car

Huva-Rown · 2021-02-23T00:40:31+00:00

Did no one else give her a seat? Why is he the asshole if nobody else did, man or woman?

Frontfart · 2021-02-22T18:15:44+00:00

He paid the same fare.

Admiralbenbow123 · 2021-02-22T18:11:29+00:00

In Russia giving up your seat for pregnant women, women with small kids and disabled people is a rule if you're sitting on a seat made specifically for these types of people and if these seats aren't present (in metro trains for example) it's a part of etiquette.

d_nijmegen · 2021-02-22T17:02:41+00:00

Nah, pregnancy is legit in my mind. I'll stand for a pregnant lady. Doesn't even have to ask.

SultanSoSupreme · 2021-02-22T16:28:05+00:00

https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/9676247/man-refuses-offer-women-seat-trains/

Well done that man.

biergarten · 2021-02-23T02:16:22+00:00

His body, his choice

jzc4 · 2021-02-27T04:57:39+00:00

Next time she should fuck someone with a car

Legal-Software · 2021-02-22T19:40:50+00:00

When I lived in Japan I once had a similar experience after running a single-stage 210km race. A few stops in on the return trip an overweight woman waddled over and began berating me for not giving up my seat. I explained the situation and that I wasn't really capable of standing at the time, but she didn't believe me and kept complaining. I guess part of it is entitlement and the other part is that if it looks like you're capable of giving up your seat, there's a general expectation that you should do so. I don't mind giving up my seat for people that need it more, but there are certainly times where my own need exceeds the mild inconvenience the other party might have to go through.

EnoughLab2 · 2021-02-22T21:34:01+00:00

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RoseFunera1 · 2021-02-27T14:53:08+00:00

I agree with the pussy pass being denied, but if a woman is pregnant they should get a pass, at.least in this type of situation. Pregnancy is no joke and men (including myself) will truly understand what women go through. Almost every pregnancy is different, some are easier than others but all are difficult.

This is just my opinion, please don't roast me.

2021-02-27T17:49:24+00:00

Uh uh, don't know if I can agree with this one. How often you see a pregnant woman in public transport? If something happens to the CHILD because I wasnt polite to give up my seat i don't think I would like to take the consequences of that in my head.

tdevore · 2021-03-02T21:09:44+00:00

I don't like this one. It's mean. I would give my seat up for a man or a woman if they were in some kind of physical condition to deserve it.

Astarious · 2021-03-05T22:03:34+00:00

Its amazing whats news worthy now

ronoda12 · 2021-02-22T17:06:18+00:00

Any woman feeling entitled to chivalry is uber trash.

Moelo · 2021-02-22T20:00:30+00:00

White knights in the comments going crazy

x178 · 2021-02-23T11:36:07+00:00

Stand up for pregnant women. Your mom should pull you by your ear if you don’t.

Politikr · 2021-02-22T17:39:07+00:00

"Reeeee! We live in a SOCIETY!" Cry me a river.

flat907line · 2021-02-22T17:19:09+00:00

He's not wrong, but it doesn't hurt to just be a nice person.

Segma_pepe · 2021-02-23T01:36:34+00:00

I am a woman and would never ask anyone to give up their seat. Man or woman. Young or old.pregnant or not.

WolfeWolfe1 · 2021-02-23T03:33:32+00:00

I'd still give up my seat. If the woman looked like she was generally in need of a seat, i'd give it anyway, like I would an elderly person. You can still be a good person. It's a bit different if a fully healthy man or woman wanted my seat .

I_AnotherHumanBeing · 2021-02-23T21:59:37+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/JustUnsubbed/comments/lqdple/ju_from_rpussypassdenied_what_used_to_be_a_sub/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Take the caption to heart please. You guys fucking suck.

2021-02-25T23:13:15+00:00

Welcome to equality, bitches. You decided to get dicked down and get pregnant, now you deal with the issues.

masterbond9 · 2021-02-28T01:10:15+00:00

Yea, I can relate to the guy, I'm in construction. Good pay, but it does get a little painful walking on concrete all day and up and down ladders. But that doesn't mean I won't point out a seat to someone who needs it (which I have done before) or get up if asked politely.

I like to think that the lady was a karen-type and rudely demanded the guy's seat because she was a "pregnant, single mother" and was entitled to the seat, even though it may not have been a seat reserved for those who can't stand for long periods of time.

Boring123af · 2021-03-02T21:50:41+00:00

That person should have given up their seat for a pregnant woman (If he wasn't feeling very bad or was in a seat with special marking). Usually in buses there are seats that are marked for pregnant women or elderly (At leastin my country). If person who sits in them is neither, isn't about to faint and refuses to give It up, then they are an asshole. Notice how I didn't say "he". It's because It doesn't matter If a person is she or him. Asshole is an asshole

2021-03-04T20:44:45+00:00

She cries RaPE

KalbertFriedstein · 2021-03-06T13:00:26+00:00

Next time, fuck someone with a car.

Obesedick · 2021-03-07T06:12:28+00:00

How many seats were on that bus? Why didn't anyone else give up a seat for her?

adityaism_ · 2021-02-23T08:10:03+00:00

This is the first post on this sub which I don't like

2021-02-23T23:30:37+00:00

I'm gay. Straight people's life choices have inconvenienced me long enough. As far as I'm concerned, if she's so poor she has to take the bus, she's too damned poor to have children. Stop breeding and expecting my taxes to cover your life choices.

triangularprismshard · 2021-02-22T18:42:41+00:00

Chivalry is dead... and feminazis are the one who killed it.

Mythandros · 2021-02-22T17:56:01+00:00

I usually won't get up for anyone unless thay are old or mobility challenged. Pregnant women don't qualify.

Sorry honey, should have fucked a guy with a car.

Wtcnt93 · 2021-02-24T04:45:46+00:00

This is why it’s best to not get pregnant. Just don’t do it. It’s bad for the earth.

iSpaYco · 2021-02-25T15:57:36+00:00

there was this woman once trying to get a seat, but it was taken by a guy, she kept cursing at him then turned to me and told him "fuck you, my son (cuz she's way older, not my mother) will give me his seat", i said no, she got shocked lmao.

later an old man got in and didn't say anything but he looked tired so i gave him my seat.

imsp33d · 2021-02-28T15:44:13+00:00

Women while pregnant lay down and rest all the time us men do the real hardwork and carry the house and pay for loans

axe-2019-trading · 2021-03-02T20:02:28+00:00

2021-03-02T23:46:41+00:00

Obviously, he is entitled to his seat and he doesn't have to move for anyone. But "that was her personal choice" is completely ridiculous.

Do we KNOW what happened? She could have been raped. She could have had an unplanned pregnancy. We do NOT know that this was a "choice at all."

Not to mention, saying "well she could have gotten an abortion" would be a ridiculous response to this too. Why? Multiple reasons. Abortions often cost a lot of money. Abortions are traumatic. Not everyone is okay with abortions. Just because somebody gets pregnant and doesn't get an abortion doesn't mean that she should have, or that it was her choice to get pregnant. Abortions are not that simple, and pregnancy isn't either.

vPetko · 2021-03-08T06:10:05+00:00

Bruh i don’t care that’s some bitch shit.. if a women was pregnant I’m gonna give my seat up regardless, if she were to fall I’d feel responsible for that.

moudlyapple · 2021-03-10T01:26:51+00:00

"Mabye you should've fucked a man with a car" - Random guy on the bus

The_Piston001 · 2021-03-10T08:29:03+00:00

This post is stupid, just c’mon. Give your seat up to pregnant women, no matter how they ask. Don’t be a dick

Known-Bodybuilder-73 · 2021-03-12T22:10:26+00:00

We are all equal, is he riding the bus for free? He could be extremely tired from just impregnating his girlfriend and now he's off to work.

DankBoiiiiiii · 2021-03-19T04:42:31+00:00

Cmon just be a decent person, you can make accomodations for others who might need the seat more

s-PAIN- · 2021-02-22T17:30:57+00:00

Since when did Being a cunt become a cool thing

BlackJack523 · 2021-02-22T17:15:05+00:00

Can’t stand bitches like this. They expect to be given everything and anything they “deserve”.

YoMamas_azz · 2021-02-22T19:36:08+00:00

Modern day rosa parks

2021-02-23T14:08:27+00:00

Fuck someone with a car next time, lady.

nsfcom · 2021-02-23T00:08:52+00:00

So .. There is no other people there ??!! Hmmm .. Or she is just harassing him ?!

TheAmazingAsshat616 · 2021-02-23T00:37:42+00:00

Not sure I agree with this one actually, assuming she asked nicely.

CEO_of_CEI · 2021-03-02T21:58:59+00:00

But letting an older lady or a pregnant woman sit down is just etiquette, y'all being really dumb ngl

GaiaKaiOuranos · 2021-02-22T17:43:43+00:00

Standing up for pregnant women is not chivalrous or simp behavior. It's basic fucking human decency. This doesn't belong here.

beanzzzzzzzzzss · 2021-02-22T17:39:43+00:00

I wont give my sit up because some woman decided to get cummed in, Its her fault and should have taken care of things before hand

OCcitybdk · 2021-02-22T17:21:02+00:00

No this one just seems like being a douche, pregnancy is a valid reason to ask for a seat

2021-02-23T03:04:40+00:00

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Credible_Cognition · 2021-02-22T23:16:31+00:00

Imagine having children and not being able to afford a car.

No thanks.

jaheiner · 2021-02-22T23:46:42+00:00

While I'd probably have gotten up for a pregnant lady- nobody should expect others to inconvenience themselves because of a choice you made.

AccomplishedApricot2 · 2021-02-23T09:07:49+00:00

Both are equal paying customers and seats are a first come first serve basis. It is up to the seating customer to give up their seat or not. However some train services do offer special needs seats dedicated to the elderly, the disabled and the pregnant.

Little-Compote101 · 2021-02-23T09:54:13+00:00

If she asked in a cunty tone id tell her “even tho your being cunty you can of course have my seat.” Life is personal choices and mistakes or triumphs but you cant compare much to a pregnant woman’s plight. Get the fuck up and let her win this one. See thats your pride fucking with you again. Its not about accommodating peoples life choices is about being kind in the face of strife even rudeness. To teach a lesson and conquer your day. Waaaaah i worked today. So should i be able to knock you the fuck out for walking by me because that’s your lifestyle choice and you lost that day. Perspective is a two way street just like love and hate

RetroRedhead83 · 2021-02-23T19:28:44+00:00

All you incels are SO ANGRY that you didn't have sex with her 😂

Little-Compote101 · 2021-02-23T10:02:33+00:00

Who in this sub needs to get laid show of hands?

makeinstallclean · 2021-02-28T01:44:57+00:00

I would probably offer her the seat before she had a chance to ask I agree it’s her own life choices that got her pregnant but you’re not giving the seat to her you’re giving it to the baby she could be the most Karen of all Karen’s but the unborn kid could grow up and cure cancer or invent faster then light travel or something

winkman · 2021-02-22T19:37:19+00:00

Cue The Dude: "You're not wrong...you just an asshole, man."

Dirjang94 · 2021-02-22T17:27:16+00:00

This should be post at r/peoplebeingajerk or r/iampieceofshit

throwaway9732121 · 2021-02-23T00:32:58+00:00

he didn't mean pregnant ladies. Super misleading image.

Tigalone · 2021-02-22T17:48:20+00:00

I don't agree with the post at all, well yes feminism is killing chivalry but giving up your seat for a pregnant woman is just decent behaviour that a man, woman or a kid should do.

NardilPhreak420 · 2021-02-23T12:14:40+00:00

Its not about her being a woman, its about being a decent person to other people who are less able bodied or physically worse off in some way.
What if a man wanted that seat, cos he had a leg amputation due to smoking his whole life. Would this guy accommodate the consequences of the amputee man's life choices?

BenchMonster74 · 2021-02-22T17:08:28+00:00

You gotta be a special kind of asshole not to give up your seat to a pregnant woman or an elderly person.

end-o-t-w · 2021-02-22T18:09:03+00:00

Stop being a pussy it doesnt hurt to be nice to other people

2021-02-22T22:34:50+00:00

Personally I would just let her have my seat if there's no other seats close because well she's pregnant

Roadwork-murders · 2021-02-22T22:43:21+00:00

She is pregnant, what's there more to discuss

kaaaaath · 2021-02-22T23:04:34+00:00

I would agree with him if contraceptive and abortion access weren’t so fucking [pun not intended] difficult to come by for many women — especially those that would be using the bus as their primary mode of transportation.

JoaquimGianini · 2021-02-23T00:26:06+00:00

Look, I'm not saying he is obliged to give his seat to her, but the poor woman didn't do anything bad.

Also, you have to think about the baby in the woman's womb. Sure, she made the choice to get pregnant, but the baby didn't choose to exist.

Rickback37 · 2021-02-23T23:53:09+00:00

Hes still a dick

Jomega6 · 2021-02-23T23:55:56+00:00

I dunno, if she asked nicely this sounds like an incredibly dickish move on the man’s part.

Sure, he’s under no obligation to give his seat up but his response is just unnecessary. That’s like responding to a person on crutches wanting to sit down with “should’ve thought of that before breaking your leg!”

azxqw2 · 2021-02-23T14:38:57+00:00

100% legit, i agree with this man and hold the same opinion

2021-02-24T04:52:50+00:00

FOR FUCKS SAKE. The "journalists" source material is a fucking reddit AITA post. This is absolutely fucked.

Sekirokuro · 2021-02-25T14:27:10+00:00

He is a looser

2021-03-05T09:32:31+00:00

Why is this on this sub? Is needing a seat because you’re exhausted/in pain from creating life really a ”pussy pass”?

joosiann · 2021-02-22T17:16:15+00:00

The "that was her personal choice" argument is dumb. So if a disabled person or someone with a leg cast gets on, will he try to find out how they ended up like that? "ma'am, I'm trying to decide whether or not you deserve this seat so please answer this: were you born this way or was it your personal choice to jump off a cliff?"

GeorgeWendt1 · 2021-02-22T23:38:34+00:00

Don't be an ass. Let her sit.

BjuiiBomb · 2021-02-22T16:43:06+00:00

r/lostredditors

2021-02-22T18:40:03+00:00

Dudes in here are just mad. Can’t believe this is a post.

gowatchanimefgt · 2021-02-23T02:59:13+00:00

What an incel

getnopussy · 2021-02-24T06:27:19+00:00

Damn chill incel

tendo913 · 2021-03-04T22:39:44+00:00

It's not a big deal to give up your seat for a pregnant women. If it is.... then your just a small baby size dick little bitch.

n0thing0riginal · 2021-02-22T18:05:38+00:00

This is cringy as fuck, just stand up and don't be a piece of shit

Roadwork-murders · 2021-02-22T17:51:10+00:00

This is just rude and a small dick energy

Shamrocks_83 · 2021-02-22T23:57:11+00:00

This is not PPD. We embarrass ourselves and lose credibility when we behave like this.

G0RE_ · 2021-02-23T00:44:52+00:00

She didn't want to take it in the ass and I don't have give away my seat.

2021-02-22T17:32:07+00:00

This "news" seems made up ... but I will say that this hypothetical dude just a douche. The truth is a lot of people made way for his mother when she was pregnant. Gave up seats, slowed down, helped out, etc. All of that space and support that pregnant women are given is what enables a new generation to arrive and flourish. And in this case for this hypothetical dude to exist and sit on a bus and have his attitude.

bottom line - you're here in part because strangers created a safety zone for your mother. now its your turn to do the same.

Kangeroo28 · 2021-02-22T18:40:53+00:00

Nah I get the sentiment but dude should have moved

Kraizy1 · 2021-02-22T18:45:14+00:00

I see his point there but come on. I don't understand why being rude with someone who do not deserved it is nice there.

MaskedMemer9000 · 2021-02-22T22:51:23+00:00

We get it you guys hate women

Splits-0 · 2021-02-23T17:20:46+00:00

Sounds like an incel

Beanz0802 · 2021-02-23T19:14:13+00:00

Man 90% of the posts and comments on this sub break rule #7 I'd understand if maybe it was a girl hit a guy and he hit her back. But most of you guys are just batching about girls existing, like we get it dudes no girls interact with you.

thelonleybagholder · 2021-02-22T19:04:17+00:00

Worked rough construction jobs where I was barely able to walk at the end of the day. Still gave my seat up for pregnant and elderly people.

Rode the bus with a busted ankle while on crutches. Still gave up my seat.

Not hard to not be a piece of shit. I'll never know the feeling of another human growing inside of me....so take my seat. Not a big deal.

BingSearchEngine_ · 2021-02-23T08:59:05+00:00

lol if you're here and you're over like 15 you need to reevaluate yourself

leodawurst · 2021-02-23T17:12:25+00:00

This guy seems like the hero to all male redditors, and it’s sad

2021-02-22T21:06:59+00:00

If you have a problem giving up your seat to a pregnant woman? You are not much of a man.

Akshay-Gupta · 2021-02-23T06:35:27+00:00

r/nextfuckinglevel

jodok1002 · 2021-02-23T17:28:50+00:00

He is totally right! What's next?! Are we going to help other people who need help?!

FigJolly5633 · 2021-02-25T12:44:46+00:00

Jesus fuck an incel

2021-02-22T20:44:59+00:00

Yo, I came here for the crimes n shit, not for some grown-ass men acting like twelve-year-olds.

KaitoKiddo1412 · 2021-02-22T20:14:20+00:00

If she has a husband, I bet he’d want to say something to you guys. Let’s not pretend there’s no nuance here, a good pussypass denied post would include a woman who refused to give up her seat for the pregnant lady because there was a man who could. If men could get pregnant, men and women would jump up to offer their seats just as equally. This shares vibes with how incels think “all women are sluts.”

Russian_Terminator · 2021-02-22T22:38:25+00:00

He's a fucking prick, she needed the seat and he basically said that he's in more pain and deserves it more than her

procpls · 2021-02-22T19:48:28+00:00

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Livenlif · 2021-02-23T18:09:17+00:00

Karma will run its course

SiRyEm · 2021-02-22T23:59:16+00:00

Unless she was raped he's not entirely wrong. Still a dick move though.

Title	I mean he’s not wrong
Author	life-is-confusingme
Upvotes	4812
Comments	482
Date	February 22, 2021 3:49 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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