Hi Everyone, I'm at 21/f and have been following RPW for a little over two years (yay, thanks to my SO). We have been in a relationship for a little over two years and we reside with each other and also work with each other (how we met). So tonight my sister had a birthday dinner and I began putting on mascara, well this began an argument. On a side note: I normally don't wear make up due to the field I'm in (I help take care of the mentally ill) and I don't want to seem attractive to them at all because I'll have a higher risk of being attacked, and have been sexually assaulted in the field. So on a week to week basis I maybe wear make up on the weekends, if there's an event. And my SO doesn't really like me wearing make up because he believes that I'm wearing it to "find my prince charming" and when I do my make up it's simple mascara, lip tint (neutrals), and maybe some concealer. So my issue is how can I start dressing myself up more for him outside of work because I know he likes women who wear make up such as girls he follows on ig, sees in movies, ect. And I feel as though I can't compete with that, I'm relatively attractive I'm 5'7, long dark hair, light skinned complex, and have nice skin (obsessed with skin care). Well this fight came up tonight before I left because he feels I dress up to find a mate even though I am extremely loyal and he knows this. So I ended up taking it all off and I felt normal doing it because for most days I'm quick out of the shower and headed to work. So I'm coming to you ladies asking how I can dress myself up more for him when I'm not working and he be okay with it. He's also very much so into TRP, so when we were arguing he was talking about how if I wear make up then he should be able to flirt with other girls because "attraction is different for men and women" Thank you ladies, I appreciate all the advice!