High heels 👠

Jules2106 · 2021-04-15T12:22:28+00:00

I want to be straightforward - I'm quite the opposite of a "redpilled" woman and I don't believe in the ideology (just lurking out of curiosity) but I've got some tips since I've been dancing on high heels for years.

The most important thing is to not skimp on quality. Your high heels need a good sole (not too smooth, otherwise you'll slip), a well attached heel and good ankle support, especially if you want to wear them more as an every day situation so you don't twist an ankle by accident. Don't buy a bunch of cheap heels so you have options, buy one basic pair. I would go with at least 100 bucks.

Secondly, you've already mentioned it but work your way up and practice walking at every height on all surfaces. If you can, I'd highly recommend Catwalk training, it's a one time thing and you'll learn how to walk "correctly" in a comfortable environment. I personally would also recommend learning to run in them because shit happens and sometimes ya gotta be fast.

Thirdly, don't aim for too much. Heels get painful quick, so don't aim to wear them for an entire day in the city. Nothing ruins a nice day as successfully as blistering, achy feet. It's also always a good idea to bring a pair of flat shoes, I like ballerinas or sneakers because they go with most outfits.

Lastly, try to not wear heels for extended periods of time and avoid wearing them every day. Wearing heels puts a huge strain on your feet and it can damage your bones and ligaments long term. Don't put your health at risk to look pretty.

And, a bonus tip, although totally optional and depending on preference: buy heeled boots over pumps. They have way better ankle support and are usually a little more padded.

rosesonthefloor · 2021-04-15T12:15:01+00:00

Practice makes perfect. Before you wear your heels in public, walk around your house or bedroom to get a good feel for them so you feel more confident in public. If you don’t feel super comfortable in them right away, you can always start with a good wedge or smaller heel!

Being that you’re 18, now is a good time to become comfortable with the fact that sometimes you’ll be the only one wearing heels. I love wearing heels (and a good heeled boot!) and often the sound they make draws attention. Not many girls your age will be wearing heels with regularity (other than going out/formal events), especially in a school context, so just be comfortable with standing out a little.

Also, don’t hurt yourself. Heels will hurt after a while, how long depends on the shoe. Especially in the beginning, don’t be afraid to keep a nice pair of flats on hand so you don’t get caught out somewhere, uncomfortable/unable to walk, but with no other shoes!

Lastly, for matching with dresses and skirts: don’t underestimate the power of a nice flat or sandal. Heels are not appropriate in all situations (i.e., the beach, on lots of grass, on long walks, etc.) so make sure you have options so you can still wear your skirts and dresses whenever you want!

Good luck :)

Underground-anzac-99 · 2021-04-15T14:47:25+00:00

One thing: Heels are more than painful, wearing them all the time is damaging for your hips, lower back and ankles.

To this day I can barely do any one legged poses in yoga thanks to terrible ankle mobility. Yay for being the girl who lived in stilettos a decade ago (young idiot!).

They’re like champagne and chocolate, lovely on the odd occasion but bad for your body day in, day out.

Cushioning matters and they shouldn’t be so steep your foot looks like a ski slope.

Good luck!

morganKxoxo · 2021-04-15T13:27:17+00:00

Yes you should start off small. I’d start with a chunky heel on a sandal or boot, then get a kitten heel, then a midsize heel about 3 inches (chunky or thin) and then stilettos. I’ve been wearing 4 inch heels DAILY for 10 years and stilettos still aren’t something I’d feel comfortable in for any extended period of time.

You also need to get COMFY heels. Like any shoe, they aren’t created equally. Between finding a comfortable shoe and adding a gel insert if needed, helps can be comfier than many other shoes. Mine are at least.

Target in my experience actually has very comfortable, affordable, and stylish heels. I get 90% of my short- mid height ones from there

NicoleInBlue · 2021-04-16T05:13:12+00:00

You can wear heels without having to endure the pain and discomfort of stilettos. There are a great variety of heeled shoes (low block heels, oxford heels, strappy sandals, etc) that are elegant and muuuch easier to wear even during a whole day walking.

Espadrille wedges are also something to consider if it's about achieving the summer dress look.

nejld · 2021-04-15T12:19:45+00:00

I would say get a pair of shorter heels. Heels are painful and impractical it's not to be underestimated, if you're looking for a pair you can wear on a daily basis heels you can actually walk in is probably better and shorter ones still looks rly good with less pain. Also, it's better to try heels on before buying because you never know if it's gonna fit your arch, size, foot width, if it's comfy etc... If it's for the summer I would recommend sandals it's way more comfortable than pumps even with a high heel! My go to pair of shorter heels is the abella galaxy pump they're cheap but look good and are rly comfortable. If you want to stick to high heels, more expensive brands actually make shoes that are more comfortable and with better support of your feet so I would recommend that.

love_drives_out_fear · 2021-04-15T12:59:09+00:00

Make sure the toebox is wide enough. Most high heels have too narrow a toebox, especially if they're a pointy-toed style. The added pressure on the ball of your foot due to the heel, plus the narrow toebox, can quickly result in foot deformity. I began to develop bunions on both feet within just a few years of wearing heels regularly, and I didn't even wear pointy-toed styles. Deformed toes and foot bones are not cute (and hurt long-term!), so tread with care.

I recommend looking for wide sizes of heels even if you don't normally wear wide-sized shoes. Wedges will put less strain on your feet/ankles/knees and offer more stability, while still visually lengthening your legs and looking feminine. I also recommend open-toed/sandal styles or full boots instead of pumps (they'll probably compress your toes less). And a bit of platform under the ball of your foot lets you get away with a higher total heel height, without actually subjecting your foot to such a severe angle.

Designer_Rub_4732 · 2021-04-16T03:16:43+00:00

Try out some different heel heights, and see what feels comfortable. I personally, enjoy my heel height to be about 2inches-3inches.

Also do not forget posture. Good posture, engaging with your core while you walk, heel-to-toe gait, and taking small steps can make wearing/walking in heels comfortable. I also use light gel pads inside my heels for added comfort.

Advanced_Bar_673 · 2021-04-16T06:40:38+00:00

I highly recommend Nine West shoes, specifically the style called 7ACT3. They come in a gorgeous patent nude that goes WITH EVERYTHING. Plus they're very very comfortable. I wear them with black yoga pants, dresses, lingerie, etc.

xxGabixx · 2021-04-15T16:26:01+00:00

I would say, try to look up videos and practice how to walk with high heels so it looks like you are wearing them, and they are not wearing you.

gosamadhi · 2021-04-15T18:59:44+00:00

I go for a small platform in the front part of shoe. Around 1 cm gives me much better support and my feet don't hurt as much as when wearing thin sole

Title	High heels 👠
Author	6har73y
Upvotes	3
Comments	33
Date	April 15, 2021 9:49 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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