We’ve known each other for a year, started talking one on one for about 7 months and started dating for 3 months.

We’ve recently gotten physical (thankfully not sex yet) and I like it but it still feels too soon. I shared my concerns and he said he’s happy to wait if it helps us take things slowly and as long as we get to spend time together.

I feel like if I just go cold cut I’ll just want to get back into it immediately and then I’d be a hypocrite. I’m going to make sure we have more public dates or he visits my place often (I live with my family).

But I do like the convince of him picking me up from work and we head to his house since it’s close by from my job. The two of us cooking a meal and watching a movie is just easy fun to me.

I also feel like we’ve gotten way too comfortable with each other. I mean that’s how it’s always been but as far as being intimate, way too fast.

I’m still considering hugs and holding hands as ok. We just recently kissed for the first time too so idk if I want to hold off on that (but I probably should hold off idk).

Whatever I do, I just don’t want it to turn into sex. Thankfully he’s not pushing it on me and feels that he feels that he should be taking it slow as well.