So I recently posted here that I found out my bf sister had my contact saved under weirdo. We were able to move forward from this situation. But now I have something related to this.

So last night we went to a comedy show, it was one of my favorite comedians and of course I found everything he said funny. Well my bf said I was annoying. He’s like he was annoyed by me the whole time and he even asked his sister who was with us and she confirmed she felt it too. While we were having this conversation my brother walked up (we went as a group to this event) and I asked him and he said no he didn’t feel like that at all, but it’s between us and walked away. At which point my boyfriend got even more annoyed and said “why are you telling our business to your brother”. To which I responded “why are you asking your sister if I was annoying when she already thought I was a weirdo and the difference between my brother is he would never say anything against you were as your sister would say something against me”

We didn’t really get to talk about it much because again we were with a group, but I know he’s going to want to talk about it and resolve the issue but I feel too hurt to even talk to him right now. How do I navigate this situation? I want to able to tell him I’m hurt and he honestly ruined my night without this being a bigger issue. I know he’s also going through a lot right now and I don’t want to add this to the list and I also don’t want to seem like I’m overreacting. Just really confused as to what to do.