My little love ❤️

doily88 · 2022-10-06T22:30:40+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. You body was baby’s home as long as they were with you. Your body carried life it didn’t ruin anything! It took a long time to love my body after 2 miscarriages. Everyone’s experience of loss is different, I tried to be patient with myself and let all the feelings of grief take their course. My husband and I had a small memorial ceremony just me and him and that really helped us too. It’s just hard all around.

sunglasses90 · 2022-10-06T21:42:45+00:00

I don’t think anything makes it “better”, but don’t beat yourself up over it. This is extremely common, but something that is rarely talked about. Keep on going and things WILL work out in the end according to His Will. It’s just hard to understand why right now and will be for a long time. Lots of love! We’re here for you.

BabesInSoyLand · 2022-10-06T21:12:40+00:00

I'm so sorry! I can't imagine much that would make anything easier, but know that you're in my prayers. I'm actually terrified to think I may be in a similar situation soon (still praying not!) I just found out there's a 50/50 chance my boy (first as well) could be born with a disease that will kill him in childhood. Waiting on the test results is agony!

Take whatever time you and your husband need to hold each other, cry, whatever you feel for now.

buni223 · 2022-10-06T22:55:03+00:00

Your body didn’t ruin it. You are not at fault. You wanted that baby, you clearly love that baby, and you carried him (❤️) for as long as you could. Medically speaking, I think you should follow your doctors advice. Everything happens for a reason and He does have a plan for you and your family and it’ll work out in the end. I’m sorry you’re going through this and also praying for you :) Maybe some therapy might be beneficial as well to get you through the process.

Sweet_Titties · 2022-10-06T21:16:36+00:00

You need to go to a fertility specialist. It could be a really easy fix or supplement, but 3 years of trying if you’re in the right age range and then an ectopic pregnancy means something is off…

Teacup000 · 2022-10-06T22:12:56+00:00

I'm so sorry for what happened to you, I can't imagine what it must feel like to have lost little Pea.

I wish you comfort and a rainbow baby.

schaden-freud3 · 2022-10-07T03:10:30+00:00

so sorry. mine was lil Raspberry at about 10 weeks. it’s hard and she still hasn’t left my mind n heart. really you just learn to live with it just like anything else. eventually you will not cry every time you think about him or see a baby or think about ur future. for now focus on physical healing. hopefully your man is there for comfort bc he is the only person in the world feeling the same exact thing even tho u may feel alone. sending hugs and peaceful rest.

AutoModerator · 2022-10-06T20:48:25+00:00

Title: My little love ❤️

Full text: My little Pea as I call him sadly won’t make it. I am going through an ectopic pregnancy and as sad as I am I suppose it’s HIS will. I’m terrified of what this means . Me and my partner never used any BC of any kind and it took 3 years to get this chance and my body ruined it.
I want to try again but I’m extremely scared and heartbroken. My little pea was not even 7 weeks. So tiny . Any advice to make this part less painful? Should I just keep going ?

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MOSFETBJT · 2022-10-07T02:07:51+00:00

You aren’t broken. You can try again. And if not, you did all you can do. Be strong

Ok_Scratch1896 · 2022-10-07T03:57:44+00:00

I'm so sorry.

Your body produced this life and was his shelter. It did not ruined it. Please, don't take this blame. It's already hard enough without it. Be gentle with yourself.

Mchafee · 2022-10-07T05:31:22+00:00

I never post here I just like reading, but I want to say I'm so very sorry you're going through this. I can't imagine how you must feel.

Please, just be sure to take care of yourself.

ZombieUnicorn1013 · 2022-10-07T07:07:37+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss. I have a cousin who had a few miscarriages (maybe 3?) but eventually was able to give birth to a now 4ish year old boy. Keep trying if you mental health is able to.

ParamedicCapable6484 · 2022-10-07T08:15:16+00:00

Think of ur womb as soil for a plant. When the plant is plucked the soil is still ripe with nutrients. I think it might be wor th it to give it a go again momma. Yes the LORD is in control. Pray and petition Him. I know 2 women who had miscarriages and immediately got pregnant after within a couple months with a baby. I am not a doc this is just my take on it. Ur title made me think of song my little love by Adele. Hugs to you !!

Waxflower8 · 2022-10-07T14:10:56+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that. I don’t have advice to give since I’ve never experienced this nor the experience of pregnancy, all I can say is that you have my sympathy.💙

kittenegg25 · 2022-10-07T14:31:01+00:00

I'm so sorry. I pray for your little Pea AND for your next baby. I think you should do your best to keep going through the pain. I know, it must be very hard, and I cannot even imagine, but the sooner you get back up and keep trying, the sooner you will have your next baby to fill your heart back up, and the sooner little Pea will be able to look down and smile at his/her little brother/sister <3 God bless you and little Pea.

Title	My little love ❤️
Author	EquivalentHuman7658
Upvotes	96
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Date	October 6, 2022 8:48 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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