There is a man that's 20-years older than me that's heavily interested in me. He's very attentive and understanding of me and my insecurities. But I feel like a lot of his attraction towards me is because of my youth, looks and status as a highly educated woman.

However, I'm minimally attracted to him. On top of that, he's not what I'd usually go for. I'm interested in a certain type of man but he ticks off only a few boxes.