I'm in Tokyo right now visiting a buddy. He's got a serious girlfriend here. Been talking about her for a year, planning on proposing soon. At first I thought he was making an absolutely terrible choice, mainly do to her hardly speaking English and not being from the same culture as him. But I was slowly won over, as won over as you can be for marriage anyways.

The girl is 20, a virgin before him, pretty, comes from a stable home, intelligent, sense of humor, cooks for him, cleans for him, does his laundry, takes interest in his career and hobbies. All around everything you could ask for in a wife.

Unfortunately my friend is an absolute beta to the highest degree, at least with regards to this woman. Talks to her in a baby voice, constantly asks her what she wants to do and if it's ok, sends her sappy paragraph-long love texts and then apologizes for them when she doesn't reply in an hour.

I've been trying to show him the error of his ways without going full redpill. He's not retarded, he's conservative leaning, and I think he understands redpill evopsych shit on an intellectual level but getting him to admit those rules also apply to him and his woman is another story altogether. He insists that the reason my personal experience confirms all of these theories I'm putting out is because I attract bad girls but he is a good guy and thus attracts girls with similar values to him. She will stay with him and support him no matter what because she knows he will do the same for her.

Anyways yesterday he kicked me out of his apartment so he could bone the GF cause he hadn't seen her in a few days. I came back 8 hours later and she's gone. That's weird, she has the week off cause of a national holiday thing so I assumed she would be spending all her time with him. But she wanted to sleep at her own place. Also she told him that she won't see him much this week because she needs to hang out with her other friends. As he's telling me about all this I can here in his voice him trying to convince himself it's ok. "She keeps herself busy, she's very social".

Best/worst of all? They didn't have sex while I was gone. They took a a nap. "Which is fine" he says. "I like just sleeping with her"

I think we can all see where this is going. I suppose there's still a chance I'm wrong and they live happily ever after but I'd bet my life savings that's not the case.

He's planning to propose next month.

Anyways, just a PSA that if you are going to go the wife/committed LTR route, picking a good woman is NOT ENOUGH. AWALT means the flawless virgin has the same psychological impulses acting on her as the most damaged slut.