I'm so angry right now. I took my ltr out with other people and she was disrespectful and shit testy in front of them. She has done this once a year ago and I pulled her aside to tell her I wasn't interested in a woman who thinks putting you down in front of people is okay and she completely cut it out.

But today she went back on it. She would make jabs at me, give me shitty looks in front of people, cut me out of conversations, ignore things I was saying and move on to a different subject. She has become comfortable enough with me that she feels she can take me for granted and use me as an outlet for her emotions.

And my reaction is complete and utter disinterest and anger. What coming here has taught me is that I am a great deal. My time is valuable, I am valuable. And for her to disrespect me when i give her the OPPORTUNITY, to have a good relationship with me, is nothing less than insulting.

I don't know why I'm saying this other than to remind you all of your value. But don't ever tolerate disrespect from a woman, ever. And especially not in front of other people. It may crop up randomly in your relationship when you least expect it, maybe she is testing to see what she can get away with, maybe she has gotten too comfortable and doesn't think you will leave her. But when it happens, pull her aside first chance you get and authority shit test bust that crap. Tell her what she is doing is disrespectful and let her know that she can do it if she wants, but you have no interest in a woman that thinks that's an acceptable behaviour in a relationship.

Support a woman and be the rock in her storm, but if she trys to use you as a punching bag instead, make it abundantly clear that it will not be tolerated.

Authority shit test bust, withdraw attention, leave the ball in her court and don't let her back in unless she makes a God damned effort to change her behaviour. My woman Just went from safe, to almost nexted in a day. And I feel nothing but contempt for her having the audacity to even consider acting this way towards me. Anyone else that experiences this should have the same mindset.

All the best brothers.