askTRP Megathread June 27

Snazzy_Serval · 2018-06-27T18:03:18+00:00

How do you approach and start conversations with 2+ women at a bar when you're alone?

Is it possible to pull?

ChadsLeftNut · 2018-06-27T13:22:08+00:00

FWB became distant, and when I ignored her becoming distant she asked me if I've noticed it, and told me it was because she feels like I dont care about her and she cant emotionally invest in someone who doesn't care about her because she doesnt want to get hurt. What should I do now and what did I do wrong?

kcozart · 2018-06-27T18:22:44+00:00

Ill try keep it short as possible, stumbled across this subreddit yesterday and felt like ive learnt a hell of a lot about my blue pill attributes.

anyway, been talking to this girl for a whole year, talk and call pretty much everyday, see her like once a month (maybe less) because she is 'always busy', i always give her validation, bought her gifts in the past, best part is we arent in LTR. I've brought up the idea of it to her and she says she isnt ready.

We've not even been close to sex and I think the sexual tension has disappeared, again, she says she isnt ready and into that right now.

Both 17 if that helps. Any way I can minimise the blue pill effects and build sexual tension with this girl or is it basically finished?

timleif · 2018-06-27T16:43:36+00:00

Does being polite and helpful signal beta status?

darchetype · 2018-06-27T15:15:02+00:00

Been doing more bent-over rows and deadlifts to eliminate my rounded shoulders and APT but haven't seen any improvement over the past few months. Any suggestions on other workouts to try or do I just need to give it more time?

TheIcePill · 2018-06-27T13:35:34+00:00

Met this girl,

She gives signals that she's interested giving IOIs, went to ask for her number and she gives it to me ez. I started to pull by telling her how cute she is. But midway when texting, her interest seem to drop and starts to indicate lack of IOI and shows a little bit of disrespect, not sure if she was joking, so I gave her a push as a reaction and ghosted ever since. She has a DGAF attitude or at least appears be.

It's obvious shes interested because she gave me her number. How do I game her from here?

LucozadeBottle1pCoin · 2018-06-27T14:32:46+00:00

This has probably been asked before, but wrt AWALT, could it not be the case that if you're the sort of person that spins plates and avoids serious relationships, you just don't come across the sort of girl who enjoys this sort of thing?

ShottyZGuy · 2018-06-27T14:36:04+00:00

How do you guys feel about the Terry Crews situation? I feel that there are some TRP truths in there regarding how men have it much harder etc.

gainzsince2001 · 2018-06-27T14:37:19+00:00

I need some advice. So I’m 16, (not sure if that matters might make a little difference) and there’s one girl I just recently started talking to just friendly convo so far but I’m really interested in her. However, I’ve been getting with one of her friends (not a close friend of hers I don’t think) after she broke up with her boyfriend recently (we’ve met up twice haven’t had sex yet but it could go there the next time we hang out). The friend I got with (twice) is probably a 7/10 while the girl I have my eyes on is easily an 8-9/10. My question is do I continue to just casually hook up with this one girl while trying to get to the same level with this other one that I’ve had my eyes on? I would rather not continue our casual relationship if it were to kill my game with this girl I’ve had my eyes on, I don’t know how it would effect this girl I’ve liked perspective of me knowing that I hooked up with a friend of hers (I’ve been keeping it lowkey but the girl put me on her snapchat story twice the second time I made her take it down), what do you guys think I should do?

McRoddy · 2018-06-27T16:18:29+00:00

I went to a party last night after a long time of grinding and not going to huge parties ( was grinding alone for about a month save for meeting a few close friends every now And then) I only had a few people I knew at the party. I smoked some weed for the first time in a month and I was ridden with anxiety. It was awful. How do I combat social anxiety and should I cancel weed out for good?

MarcosDomingues · 2018-06-27T19:56:06+00:00

I can't see how stoicism applies irl.

If you're in a group of people, they will just think you're introverted or not having fun.

If you're on a date with a girl she's going to think of you as a boring person.

joetylinda · 2018-06-27T13:41:23+00:00

How can one have a rapport with others? For me I don't have a problem approaching people but as I continue interacting they become at most acquaintance but never have friendliness and harmony with them.

Killing__Time_ · 2018-06-27T13:54:11+00:00

I find that I get a boost of confidence only when I succeed in something (extrinsic motivation). If I am not accomplishing goals, I am neutral or low in motivation (intrinsic).

How do I simply DGAF and cultivate intrinsic motivation?

MentORPHEUS · 2018-06-27T15:06:29+00:00

Guys I need advice on how to build sexual tension while hanging out with girls or being on a 1on1. I already had my first experience, and it sucked big time. She was dead cold, no IOIs, long gaps of silence and was... Well.. awkward.

Some guys suggested that I should've just done it during those long pauses cuz some girls just like it rough, but not sure that's right...

Anyways. Fortunately, I'm having a second chance this weekend with another potential plate.

The problem is that I don't know how to escalate while hanging out simply because of my long nice guy history. Any help will be appreciated.

CeremonyTree · 2018-06-27T15:07:18+00:00

What's the fastest way for me to start getting plates with basically no options and basically all LTR'd friends (just getting out of a shitty relationship myself). I've started to get into contact with some of my more distant bros that I know are single, but aside from that, what type of game should I get into?

Chit-Chad · 2018-06-27T15:55:10+00:00

So a while ago, I got advice here regarding how to approach HB9 at the gym. Broke the ice by discussing this exercise she does and didn't stick around too long, set a first impression, got an introduction and small talk. Saw her workout right around me the rest of the time I was there, but ignored her.

Now, I'm wondering how to go about conversing the next time i see her, maybe bring up a common hobby I know we have? Considering you can't have a long conversation on the gym floor, wait for a few more interactions before I can ask for her number, establish a rapport? Thoughts?

kikoslh · 2018-06-27T16:19:16+00:00

How do I state my boundaries if they have been trespassed without knowing it? e.g omission of something.

astro-mod-2000 · 2018-06-27T17:11:40+00:00

43/m: Been lifting and following TRP principles the past couple years. Went from 350 down to 240. Working on my approach and not being afraid to be bold.

Started getting good results with HB 6/7 women, and now HB 8/9 will have friendly conversation, and occasional numbers/closes. Also getting noticed by 20-something women. Guess it’s the “dad bod” fad. I now have a slightly soft, but noticeably athletic appearance.

My question is this - anyone else have trouble with how extremely short of an attention span 20-something women have? I see a trend where they will flake out of a conversation in the middle of it, then come back later like nothing is wrong.

When I’m chatting/texting with the over 30 women, in most cases will get a “gotta go to work, catch up later?” Type of message Before they bail.

TL;DR Have improved enough to start chatting/closing with much younger women. Having a little trouble understanding their chat/text protocols.

IDreamAlpha · 2018-06-27T17:38:17+00:00

What are some good Documentaries/Youtubers to watch consistently?

intergalactic_panic · 2018-06-27T22:26:41+00:00

I have a date lined up for Saturday night with a girl to go see fireworks near my house. She is planning on coming over and has told me she is excited. I haven't texted her since Monday night, and that was when I didn't respond to her text since I wanted to keep texting to a minimum. Would it be safe to text her Friday afternoon, the day before, saying ready to see you tomorrow, to ensure we are still on for a date?

ungodlyunsure · 2018-06-28T01:20:54+00:00

Does true love exist? Is it possible to feel after becoming redpilled?

Sonicracer100 · 2018-06-28T03:27:40+00:00

What's the consensus on calisthenics? I have to resort to them for the time being as the gym is unfortunately out of the question. My older bro who's done calisthenics for most of his life helps me out here and there so I'm not going in totally blind and in the dark.

dryenz · 2018-06-28T07:32:40+00:00

Do you guys feel the need pressure to approach girls every time you see them?

sjtomcat23 · 2018-06-28T22:08:55+00:00

Question. DMd this girl back on saturday and things went well. We are going to hangout tonight and go bowling. Do I pay for her bowling session or no. Obviously in my mind I want to say no, but I do actually want to pursue a relationship with her. What's the best suggestion?

splendid_phoenix · 2018-06-28T09:52:39+00:00

So I discovered this subreddit a couple months ago and have acquired a few plates. The main dish I'm interested in fucking ghosted me after I teased her (perhaps too much?). Do I MGTOW?

Title	askTRP Megathread June 27
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Date	June 27, 2018 1:09 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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