askTRP Megathread May 24

neurosissss · 2017-05-24T14:21:11+00:00

How long have you been browsing TRP and to what degree do you feel it benefited you ?

I've been here for a week and I already feel more empowered than ever. Already started lifting as a direct consequence of this awesome subreddit.

VaginalFury · 2017-05-24T14:23:34+00:00

When a girl likes you and you had a nice initial talk with her but then she transitions over to telling stories about unimportant shit from her life in a situation like when youre driving in a bus together and cant just walk away.. how to stop her early and show her politely that you are not interested in her girlfriend/orbiter bla bla ? I never know how to make it clear in such situations, especially when its a girl who i see everyday around?

Tropicum · 2017-05-24T14:55:53+00:00

How should I escalate with a girl on the first ""date"" who I've known for ~3 month in uni? I was planning to go to a cafe first and then drive to a lookout later at night.

Salted_Pretzel · 2017-05-24T15:32:09+00:00

Two questions. When holding frame, is it just being stoic and not showing any emotion? Whenever I think of frame I imagine someone getting to to me at work via talking shit or something and I have a blank expression the whole time, not taking the bait of the insults and lashing out in response. Second question is, how does one build a interesting life? I know there is hobbies and whatnot but Im overwhelmed by the amount of things out there. Where to start?

Chunk360x · 2017-05-24T17:54:18+00:00

Does anyone know of any other 'self improvement' style subreddits? Thanks

BigBankBaller · 2017-05-24T13:20:41+00:00

In a LTR, if you're with your girl and she is upset about something emotional (like she claims she feels like shit or something) and she's crying and all that, what is the best way to approach this?

Some of the options i've considered are to ask her about her problems, or try to offer solutions, or to just sit there and hold her and be a rock.

17questionTRP · 2017-05-24T15:51:56+00:00

If you're in a LTR, what are some things to remember (to maintain frame) when meeting the girl's friends for the first time?

Obviously, a LTR is a balancing act between alpha/beta traits. But I'm not sure how to play it in this instance.

verily_rp · 2017-05-24T21:09:49+00:00

I can't for the life of me recall what the page is or the source (not sure if it's heartiste or rationalmale or whatnot), but I do recall it's someone's recollection of helping some men or help in forming some male space in some therapy group. I don't think the guy was in the group himself, but he was explaining how women cause in-fighting between men in the article, and said how he told some of the men in the therapy group to collectively ignore women and keep self improving, and how this lead to a kind of male bonding, which also lead to a big raised their self esteem, and how the female therapists (or overseers or something) found this toxic despite their client's conditions improving because it didn't align to their female imperative.

Supreme kudos to anyone who can help me find it.

Cft313 · 2017-05-24T19:15:14+00:00

I'm going to a music festival in a month and was wondering if anyone had any tips or pointers when hitting on girls in that kind of environment.

I know I'll already have a multiple woman mindset considering there's 40,000 people there if a girl isn't interested within 10 minutes I have hundreds more in my vicinity that I can go for but what about drugs? I don't want a girl under the influence who won't remember me in the morning.

Any advice is appreciated.

Skkception · 2017-05-24T19:51:33+00:00

How do you deal with "commands" or requests from girls? E.g "pass me that" "bring that" "can you give me that" I tend to jokingly make them say please although I still struggle with that when it comes to girls I've recently met. But when I say things like "What's the magic word?" it usually gets dragged out quite a bit, almost to a point where I seem stubborn and childish. I suspect it's because my SMV isn't high enough. How do you hold frame in these situations, or do you even bother to care about it and just silently do what they ask/"command"

ennui_no_nokemono · 2017-05-24T23:22:58+00:00

Is it possible to have any kind of social proof nowadays without presence on social media? I'm in graduate school, and everyone just wants to become an Instagram celebrity. Guys are posting photos from gym, nightclubs or their cars, girl are posting photos from the swimming pool, beach, bathroom selfies etc.

Social proof is everything, and it looks to me that in order to maintain it you need social media. I'm eavesdropping to conversations of girls from time to time, and most of the time they're browsing social media and gossiping, or they are just talking about Instagram.

A_q_w_e · 2017-05-25T07:34:36+00:00

I'm going off to college in the coming months, with a fresh start, and I was wondering what are some good resources in terms of text game and cultivating relationships in terms of males and females alike. I have been an 'omega' male for a long time, but have become a loner for most of this year due to what was left of my reputation being damaged, with no relationships outside of my immediate family. This means I am out of tune of social dynamics in person, as well as texting with both genders alike.

SoulRedemption · 2017-05-25T07:53:37+00:00

I am.truomg to overcome a challenge. Due to the way I pay attention to people (mainly guys, not chicks cuz its different) when people either speak about a topic, about themselves etc, I have fallen into the "listener" type. People who know me really well tend to ignore or even interrupt alot when I am speaking. Multiple times I point out I haven't finished or won't let the interruption take over. But at times I realize they stop just paying attention all together. This happens mainly with the good friends circle, there are other circles with friends who will actually listen and reciprocate. Any advise on how to tackle these situation?

noimnotgreedy · 2017-05-25T10:33:42+00:00

Any reason why there's such a stark contrast between some posts here? Sometimes I read a post that the bottom line is "WOMEN ARE XYZ LOLOL", and that's in start contrast to the LAID LIKE A WARLORD post. It didn't have shaming in it, it didn't have some sort of divine instructions on what to do, it was mostly yet another confidence post without using the word confidence.

It just feels like there's two distinct crowds here, people who could be the same bros you've had laughs with, got drunk with, all kinds of shit you do with friends.. then there's some passive aggressive people who any self-respecting person would just go away and tell them you won't take their shit.

suffercure101 · 2017-05-25T17:28:15+00:00

I came across as creepy while trying to be confident. This was months ago. This still fucks with my head. Once I put my hand around this girl jokingly whom I had just met and once I touched this girls arm and she was freaked out.

Every now and then I reminisce about those incidents and feel like a shit person for making them feel like that. Have you guys ever encounter something like this? Also got any advice?

RedPharaohRising · 2017-05-26T05:30:03+00:00

I want to know how to make platonic friendsships with women, because I tried to go from incel to player without knowing how to be normal around girls. I'm not trying to date right now at all, just to be myself, accept who I am and not feel ashamed of that around hot girls.
But right now, even if i'm just trying to open a convo with some cute chick at the cofeee machine I get nervous.
I don't know how to have female friends. Where do I begin

azonian91 · 2017-05-24T18:40:52+00:00

2 questions:

What are the texting rules? I've heard generics tossed around from post to post. Any dedicated posts or reads concerning texting?
Concerning women outside the game, namely family. How do you deal with the some of the AWALT annoyances? I've got a female family member who seems to have been 'assimilated by the herd'. Now I've been learning how to manage women intra-game, but am wondering what tactics do you use to deal with women where there is no traditional end goal.

as always, advice appreciated brothers

Beeinkc9 · 2017-05-24T19:26:15+00:00

I work in an almost 100% female environment. Every one of them thinks they're my boss. How can I cope? Not trying to bang anybody.

virgin_cuck · 2017-05-24T19:47:58+00:00

I have improved a bit since finding TRP (2months) I can strike conversation with almost anyone if I want to, dont have problem with holding eye contact that much but I find it quite hard to hold conversation (I mostly do it by asking questions and getting other person to talk-for men)and also I seem to have problem with escalation when it comes to women any toughts about how to improve convo game both with males and females?

[deleted] · 2017-05-24T20:29:36+00:00

For guys who have red Sex God Method, help me understand how to balance the Emotion pillar with still be stoic and unphased, especially with first time girls and newer plates. I'm not gonna tell these chicks I love them, which is often the example that Daniel Rose uses.

I am a stoic, rather unemotional (outwardly) guy, and need advice on how to implement this Emotion aspect of SGM with girls that I don't know well and am not emotionally close to.

InfoExploration · 2017-05-24T20:52:46+00:00

Any tips dealing with guarded women who have been hurt and are distant, etc, etc...

There is this really hot girl I'm talking to but she wont crack. She is interested and I would bet my life on that but she seems stiff and guarded. Any advice on these women?

Quartus44 · 2017-05-25T20:23:34+00:00

I'm 6'5, 190lbs, smallish frame guy. What would you say is an ideal BW for me to aspire to?

ennui_no_nokemono · 2017-05-25T07:26:00+00:00

Anyone have experience with Mormon girls? I've got this one sweetheart with the fresh off the plane look in her eyes waiting for me back in the states. Mormonism is bullshit but their women do seem well trained. She's a convert so she's really into it but I wouldn't have to worry about familial pressure to convert. Any experience dating Mormons?

I can't plate her since pre-marital sex is a no-no, but would spinning plates to satisfy my sex drive while dating her work?

spetz994 · 2017-05-25T14:34:04+00:00

How would you approach a girl that works in a bar? There is this girl in the bar were i usually go, i would like to ask her out or at least enstablish some kind of relationship that goes beyond "i would like an espresso"

How would you guys do it?

PS: i don't know if this matter but i'm 6'0 198lbs and i've been going to the gym for more than a year, plus i'm new on this sub

Profile_state2020 · 2017-05-25T19:47:21+00:00

Gf hasn't texted since yesterday. I sent the last text yesterday and she hasn't responded. Should I wait it out and let her text me? Or find out WTF is going on? Seems like a shit test to me, but IDK?

PatrickIIDX · 2017-05-25T22:41:56+00:00

How do I go into Monk Mode if I have to go to work to support myself everyday? I have to work in retail and put up with shitty blue pill music and on occasion see couple holding hands and shit. I know I should tune that shit out, but how the hell do I stop? I'm stuck.

meh613 · 2017-05-26T02:00:35+00:00

Would like some tips on taking care of my aspergers from an RP perspective, so any thoughts? I do belong to a gym, go there and lift 6 days/week (I suppose, if God could take Sunday off when creating the world, I can take Sunday off going to the gym); I read to learn and so have a binder full of notes from the Rational Male and Models.

Blckclaw · 2017-05-27T20:30:40+00:00

How do you deal with your self-esteem when you are surrounded with people who outperform you in many areas of life? I feel suicidal because I feel like a complete dumbass, being the worst performing student in my group, having problems with concentration and memory.

redpill-account · 2017-05-24T20:30:14+00:00

Posted this in another post but curious on thoughts here:

From this group of people who is Alpha? Rob kraft-owner Tom Brady-QB leader Rob Gronk-huge beast party animal Bill Billichek-mastermind

I still don't fully grasp how RP conceptuaizes this whole Alpha concept as it seems too binary.i just use the above group as an example because it seems most people here would say Gronk but I say it's the short guy in a beat up hoody.

I guess my conclusion from this is that everyone must maximize their own strengths and have self awareness and not fall into some basic model of "Alpha"(the way it's used here really makes me cringe ), but I'm curious on thoughts?

Befuddled_Cultist · 2017-05-24T21:05:19+00:00

I'm more of a fan of MRP because I think its interface is easier to use, but whenever I take a stroll around the Wyvern's Tail I feel like I am missing something. My friends tell me that everyone likes using TRP, but I just can't get into it. Are there some tricks to make it more user friendly?

RachelWhite92 · 2017-05-24T15:13:10+00:00

What is the point of this forum?

Started lifting so I can fuck girls way hotter than her in the future.

Chads are born, not created by lifting. If you are not already Chad it's over.

Leg lengthening if below 6'2, hair transplant if Norwood 1 or higher, Plastic Surgery, Expensive and fashionable clothes, surgery to make voice deeper, ferrari, THEN you can think about entering the game.

Enough of this blue pill sub, you are Chad or not. Just stop.

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