Before you can sleep with the hottest woman you've ever laid eyes on, you need to learn how to get over your fear of rejection. I highly suggest accepting the fact that your first approach is gonna be weak and timid. Just like any new skill, you're not gonna be very good in the beginning.

Think of your first approach as doing a fire walk at a self-improvement seminar. Walking across the fire will help you feel some kind of achievement in overcoming your fears. This will be your foundation to your game. Whenever you see an attractive woman, it's an opportunity to overcome your fear. Don't worry about getting her, focus on overcoming your fear. After a while, you'll notice that you're more comfortable approaching women... even while their friend or co-worker is watching.

I've walked into stores and approach a store clerk with her co-worker standing right there.

In order to do this, you need to get into a mode where your goal is to approach women for self-improvement purposes, not necessarily to get the girl you're approaching.

"Why am I gonna approach a woman and not try to get her?"

Think of cold approaching and day game like sparring or playing a pick-up game of basketball. It's not a championship. The steaks are not high, but the more you spar and the more pick-up games you play on the court, your skills improve. When you actually compete in a real championship, you'll be better prepared than a man who didn't put in the practice.

If you think you have to be a Chad to approach women, try approaching a pretty girl in the street. You may be shocked at how polite she is. You may notice a lot of women telling you they have a boyfriend. This is a rejection. Take it for what it is and move on. Focus on women who have genuine desire for you. This is why, if you've read my posts, I talk about having a success rate in the range of 0.5%-3%. We are not trying to convert women who are not interested into women who are interested. We are focusing on women who have genuine desire.

"But women don't like me. I don't look like an Alpha Chad"

Do you know that there are men who look very average and they have women who adore them? All women don't like one type of guy. Some of these guys ya'll call Alpha Chads struggle with women too. How? Because if a woman is not impressed by their looks, they don't know what to do next. It's like a guy who's 6'8 and weighs 250 lbs, but he can't fight. Being that he looks intimidating people don't fuck with him. If a man actually challenged him, he would be fucked. In other words, some of the "Alpha Chads" are one-trick ponies. They coast off of their looks.

When you start approaching women, you'll make small improvements to give yourself an advantage. You might start dressing better. You might buy multiple pairs of shoes and shop regularly. You might start a cologne collection. You might start working out to get in shape. If you wear glasses, you might start wearing contacts. If you don't wear glasses, you might start wearing glasses that have a stylish frame. You might have weekly or bi-weekly haircuts or style your hair a certain way.

If you treat cold approach and day game like a fire walk to help you overcome your fear of rejection, you will have a lot of fun... even if you're getting rejected 90%-99.5% of the time.

What are your thoughts?