Hello everybody. First off, I want to think all of you for the endless knowledge that you provide in the sub. Over the past two years, I went from the biggest beta boy to becoming a man in the track of becoming an alpha. Realizing that AWALT has changed my life. I am currently a college student studying engineering at a university in North Carolina. I would consider myself the typical southerner; I enjoy hunting, I have a heavy country accent, love guns, and I wear boots most of the time. I dated a Spanish exchange student for a year prior to the redpill that broke my frame apart. I got oneitis so hard that I was blinded from all her flaws. She had a huge list of sexual partners in her past, her father was rich and she was spoiled in every aspect of her life, and she couldn't do anything for herself. She seeks validation at almost every moment, mostly using sex to get it. The first time I met her, she gave me a blow job in the parking lot in my car after a party. The bluepill me thought it was a good idea to have a relationship with this girl. In this relationship, I failed a huge shit test that gave her all the control. I believe this contributed to everything going downhill.

For context, I use chewing tobacco very frequently. I know this is a bad habit. I don't smoke because I enjoy working out and playing sports. Maybe it's a anti-redpill thing for me to chew tobacco. Maybe you can give your input on it.

Anyway, the conversation went like this one day when I was driving with her...

Her: You know, you dipping is the most disgusting thing ever. Guys don't do that in my home country (spain). Me: Really? No guys do it at all? Her: No, not at all! It's extremely gross and unattractive. Me: Silence Her: I'm not going to kiss you anymore if you keep doing that. Me: "Okay, I guess I'll have to stop. I should probably stop anyway"

Wait, what? Did i really change something for a woman? Yes, you read that right. After that, the rest of the relationship was on her terms. She found out how much of a beta I really was. The guy that she knew was gone. She broke through his frame and found out she could control him with her body anytime she wanted. Eventually she cheated on me and left me in a broken state. Looking back now, I was the most bluepill person I've ever known. After this, I found the redpill and it changed my life.

Fast forward to almost two years later, my current LTR is going great. I have no reason to be in a LTR, but the girl is pretty cool and I like being in a relationship with her. She is a 8.5, blonde, with nice tits and ass. She has been my friend for five years and does pretty much anything I want. She seeks me for advice and approval. She knows that I have other women I can go to anytime I want. After I swallowed the redpill, lifting has brought many girls around that weren't previously there. I always keep her on her toes. I talk to other women in front of her and I never seek her approval. I'm doing a great job right now keeping my frame with her, and it drives her crazy. The sex is amazing, anytime I want it. I have an abundance and an IDGAF mentality I've never had before. She knows if she messes up, I'm finished with her without any second thoughts. A few weeks ago, my LTR gave me the same shit test that the Spanish girl gave me when I was bluepill.

Her: Merdiano, why do you do that? Did girls in the past even like that? Me: I don't know if they did or not. I do it because I like it. Her: But Merdiano, it's so gross! I don't like you doing it at all. You should really quit.

At this point, I remained silent and ignored her shit test. Her: Are you even listening to me? Me: Yes.

And that was it. I changed the subject and didn't even acknowledge her wants on the subject. A few days later, I was dipping in the car after I picked her up. Her: You know what? I think it's really hot when you do that. I know it sounds crazy for me to think that because it is gross, but it makes look so manly.

Shit test passed

It's not the fact that I'm chewing the tobacco that makes her think I'm hot when I do it. It's the fact that I held frame and I do what I want on the subject. Chewing tobacco is disgusting and I'm sure all of us know this. Dipping tobacco is the only bad habit I think I have. Other than this, I'm in the gym 5 days a week lifting heavy and killing it in school to up my SMV.

Anyone have any input? I'm always looking to better myself. Thank you all again for the knowledge I've gained in this sub.