This is my first post but I thought it was important to share.

Recently school started again and everyone moved into the college I attend. I’m a senior, and a fairly good looking guy, in shape, and I thought I should go ahead and take advantage of it. So, I started talking and hanging out with a freshman. I made it known from the beginning that I wasn’t looking for anything serious, just some fun. I’m too busy for a LTR and I’m taking 18 credits, have a job and I’m trying to get a second one, plus I need at least an hour at the gym every day, I made it known how busy I was time and time again but she still would hit me up with texts like, “I wanna suck your dick.”

This crazy bitch completely ignored everything that I said to her, and she told me, “I only have sex with people that I’m in a relationship with.” I told her I didn’t want a relationship yet again, and she still pursued me. She even tried using sex to get me to like her. So, I fucked her. The next day she started to say I love you and even mentioned getting married and having kids. That’s when I knew she was crazy as fuck. (Keep in mind we haven’t even know each other for a week). So, I dropped her.

She left something in my room of hers and she asked to have it back, when I returned it is when I decided to drop her. To put it lightly, she didn’t take it very well. She, said some very disturbing things to me that I decided needed to be addressed immediately with residence life. So I called the RD and told him about the situation, that basically I have a girl that’s obsessed with me. A girl who gave me an ultimatum, either I be her boyfriend or I get accused for sexual assault. She said to me, “What if I tell the RA’s about what you did to me.” Insinuating that she was going to falsely accuse me of sexual assault.

Moral of the story is watch out for crazy women. If you do have sex with them try to get them to give you consent via text. That along with dealing with her threat before she could accuse me of anything saved me from dealing with a false accusation. Residence Life now has texts she sent me that said, “Thanks for the bomb sex last night”

I know getting documentation of consent is easier said than done, but it’s always a good idea to try.

Be careful out there.

TL;DR Was threatened to be accused of sexual assault, documentation and quick action saved me from any issues.