Disclaimer: This is not intended to contradict anything commonly held as redpill knowledge, it is just a simplification of it for new readers. Thus, if you are veteran, please keep that in mind.
Let's imagine a situation: Captain America and Iron Man walk into a bar in plain clothes (use the Marvel films as reference, comics may be too convoluted for my example). Who do you think picks up more chicks? Steve Rogers or Tony Stark?
Hands down Tony Stark. Most of you sensed this answer as the correct one. But when asked for the exact reasons, explanation may vary. Quite a lot. A few of you will say that Tony is more Alpha. That he is a celebrity. That he is better looking. That Cap'n is too nice. These are all valid reasons in themselves. But the issue is that they don't really help when you want to improve your life in order to get women.
So my question is what can you do to be more like Tony? The classical answer is many, many things. And this reddit is full of them. But what is my simple answer to this?
Be more interesting than the next guy.
You see, there are a lot of factors that make a woman attracted to a man. But in our consumerist, well-provided for society, women are not that much interested in classical qualities. Don't get me wrong, being alpha and all that helps a lot, but being interesting makes the difference between leaving home with the girl or just the phone-number.
So what is interesting to a woman? That is, besides confidence and good-looks, status, ability to attract other women. You see the difference between Tony Stark and your average millionaire playboy is that he is a genius. He has another side to it. The more sides, the more interesting you are. That's the reason why we generally prefer tormented heroes like Batman or Iron Man to boy scouts such as Captain America and Superman. The former have many more sides to themselves than just being do gooders.
That's what you have to keep in mind when you are improving yourself. Add more sides, be a more complete human being. Try something new besides the gym. Resistance training is awesome, but you will need something that makes you different to the average buffed up guy in the club. That could be anything- from carpentry to sky-diving. A woman doesn't just want a hot and confident guy, she wants a guy that will make her girlfriends jealous.
True as it is that having plates and being alpha are awesome qualities that generate many a pussy tingle, but you probably need a starting point. Being a club fly who stands every week-end for hours in a club will not make you interesting. Women encounter guys like that more often than not.
You need another side and you need to market that side. Even if you like to crochet, that's alright, it's about how you present it. For example I do boxing- but when talking about it with a woman I don't go into any technicalities. I just mention it (create a little bit of mystery) and the questions follow. They are not interested in my stance, my style of fight etc, they are interested if I am afraid when I go into the ring, if I am nervous before a big crowd. The fact that I do boxing comes even more so as a surprise when you know me (I am quite a good-kid type of person). Instantly when I mention boxing I add another side to me. I become more interesting.
To summarise- what you need to know is that you have to become more interesting to attract more women, not just more muscular and confident. So go out there and try something new, expose yourself to a little bit of danger and fear. If not for women, than for yourself.
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