Summary: I know we have this notion that somehow women are the common enemy and there is this sense of a brotherhood among some guys, well, this isn't true at all. A guy might somehow fall into the whole brotherhood state of mind with other guys, this is not only inaccurate but also a very dangerous state of mind to have. As a matter of fact, I will say that the average guy is worse than the average girl and explain why that is.
Beware of Cassius:
So you have taken the red pill and realized how women truly are, you're probably in the anger stage, and you think that you should spend time talking to other guys. After all, AWALT (All Women Are Like That) is the law of the land so why not spend some time making friends with your fellow men and reaching out to them for advice and wisdom. After all, men are not so under-handed and they are hardly hypocrites right? WRONG!
Are all guys your enemy? No, but the vast majority of them are and you have to worry about them more than you have to worry about women.
I will say that most guys (not all) are actually worse than most girls and here is why. Most girls might be hypocrites, annoying, and just a pain in the ass to deal with at times but guys are the ones you have to worry about. Your fellow men are the one scheming to ruin your life and the worst ones are those who have accomplished nothing of importance yet have massive egos. A lot of the men that fall under that category are the same ones that will come up with elaborate plans to sabotage you when given the chance. You see, the average guy with an average SMV is the kind of guy who will fill with envy when he sees a pretty girl by your arm, sees you living your amazing life, and sees how others respect you.
Now the same guy comes in many forms and you will encounter him in the wild.
Mr. Friendzoned - The white knights and orbiters.
The ones we will commonly run across no matter where we go here in the USA and possibly even the world. Mr. Friendzoned just wants to preach to the world about chivalry and has to stand by every single woman acting like a cunt. Mr. Friendzoned has to come to the defense of every woman and showcase his chivalry to the world because that is how you get laid. Deep down inside, Mr. Friendzoned is just frustrated that women won't accept how nice he is so he feels the need to have an outlet to his frustration out on. The studs, higher SMV guys, cool guys getting girls, and guys bold enough to call women out on their shit are the problem. Anytime one of these guys showcases their alpha demeanor, him and his legion have to come to the defense of the woman and use whatever means necessary to destroy those guys.
We like to think that feminism and female hypocrisy have to do with what is wrong and we are right to think that way but you cannot deny that white knights and orbiters have seriously messed it up for a lot of men out there. The same guys will message 5s and 6s on Online Dating sites and tell them how they are just perfect super model material. A lot of the same guys will even latch on to a remotely attractive woman (6 at best) and fuel her ego from the truth. The Mr. Friendzoned of the world are the reason that average looking women have massive egos and feel entitled to a Henry Cavill.
The guy that followed society's advice, lives a "clean life", and wants all other guys to do the exact same thing.
So this guy went to school, got a job, got married before hitting 30, brought a house, had kids, and got a mortgage (in no particular order btw); following society's script for life down to every letter. Now, seeing how some of his fellow men who didn't enjoy that plan are living life and enjoying things such as sex with multiple women, free time, and success; he feels very angry. For this guy to say that he hates how Mr. Bachelor is sleeping with attractive women, enjoying nice parties, and how he so wishes he was in his shoes would be inappropriate be society. Instead, this character spends a lot of time talking about "morals" and how he is a "real man" for getting married, having kids, and getting fat.
The Dan Bilzerians and Leonardo DiCaprios of the world are the ones who need to "grow up" and "be real men". You see, this character realized just how much he screwed up going the path he went down on that now, he wishes he could enjoy the prime of his life. Unfortunately, getting married means this guy tied himself down to one woman and has to think about divorce every day. Envy consumes him as he sees other guys his age enjoying life without being tied down to marriage and kids, but he is slick in the sense that he will use the "grown up" card in order to make others appear as the ones who did the wrong thing and make himself appear to be a real man.
The former stud who peaked too early, settled down, and now sees others getting ahead of him as he loses value.
I would say this is the male version of the woman that hit the wall. Back in high school and even in college, he was the man who had the time of his life but he felt like he had his fun so he settled down. The former stud married his sweetheart from school, got kids, both got fat, and both let life pass them by. Now, the former stud sees the winners of his age traveling the world, dating hot girls, having the time of their lives, and not being tied down by a thing. As the former stud sees his value decrease every day, the value of the guys he used to be above gets better and better. Eventually, the value of some of the guys this guy was above in his school years exceeds his and he cannot fathom it.
You can look to this character to remind you and others of how he used to be so much better than you back in the good ol days, talk about how guys living out the rest of their 20s and 30s not being tied down by kids and marriage are just "overcompensating" because they weren't studs back in their school days, and even try to make a move on the beautiful woman by your arms because he still thinks that women care about who you were in high school.
The religious and moral fanatics.
You know the type, will go to church every Sunday and brag to the world about it in an attempt to win cool points. The same guy will talk about how sex before marriage is a sin and how the Leonardo DiCaprios of the world are so "unholy" for sleeping around with beautiful women. At the same time, the same guy is just like the angry feminist that whines about men objectifying women and the existence of a beauty standard. Deep down inside, Mr. Religious Fanatic wants to experience the harems and amazing parties but he lack the value to get that, so instead he turns to religion as a way to make himself appear holier than thou. After all, now that he is bragging to the world about how he is so much better than the morally corrupt people out there, everyone will surely tell him how he is the man.
I have nothing against people of any religion but my problem are the religious fanatics that use their religion as a way of getting what they want out of life. The type of people who will use the religion card in an attempt to force you to get married before 30 and stop you from enjoying the fun things in life such as sex because it is so "unholy". What's worse about all of this is that the second the opportunity arises to be a Dan Bilzerian, a lot of these guys will abandon their values in a heartbeat.
Beware, do not discuss anything remotely related to your sex life to this guy because he will use it against you and make you out to be the enemy. Before you know it, your social status has drifted down the toilet and others are aiming for your head. Give these guys power and the freedom we have which allows men to sleep around, chase women, and enjoy life will end. A lot of men will no options but to be sexually repressed because if the religious fanatics are allowed to run things, you could have a society where sex before marriage is punishable by death.
Low SMV guys in general!
So what do ALL of the guys I listed above have in common? Most of those guys are low SMV. A lot of them hate themselves and their situation in life but their massive egos make it impossible for them to have any self-improvement going. No, the problem is not them, the problem is the world and guys enjoying their lives for being the way they are. If only Dan Bilzerian didn't exist could the low SMV man finally enjoy his life. You have guys with a low SMV, massive egos, and no desire to better themselves which leads to the kind of person loaded with anger, hatred, and a desire to ruin the lives of other men.
So what can you do about it?
48 Laws of Power is practically a must read for EVERY red pilled man because it teaches him how to deal with the types I listed above. The book talks about the reality of envy that exists in other men who see those better than them getting ahead. I recommend not boasting about your sex life to others as much and try not to associate with most low SMV men in general unless you see some serious promise in them. The road to success is a lonely one full of obstacles, other guys and their envy will be your major obstacle.
Lessons learned:
Most guys are not your friends
Low SMV guys are worse than low SMV women because low SMV guys will actually scheme against you
Low SMV guys will use every under-handed trick in the book to keep their hands clean at all times and destroy you due to the envy they have towards your life
You will face many obstacles on your road to success; other guys and their envy will be the main one
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