This is a mildly extensive collegiate bars and dance clubs guide - it's annoying as fuck when I see college men making rookie mistakes, thus this is necessary. [Fair warning: it's a bit lengthy.]
Leave the nice guy shit at home.
When a guy starts gaming a girl in a club - everybody knows what that guy is after. The bartender knows, the security guard knows, the girl that's getting gamed knows. There's absolutely no fucking reason to conceal your intent with "niceness". Leave that shit for the girl at the park who you think might be your potential soulmate. Brief and direct is the best policy, NO fucking exceptions. You think she looks fine? Whisper in her ear "Damn, you look fine". Do you want her? Whisper in her ear "Hey, I want you." Anything that crosses your mind, You must and will say - Clubs are the few places where "catcalling" and "harassment" [Fuck you SJWs] are permitted.
Under no circumstances should a conversation with a girl exceed past even 10 seconds when you approach.
You're NOT interviewing her to be your wife, there's no need to ask what she's majoring or anything school related - she's there to let loose and forget her stressful collegiate weekdays. Bringing up fuckshit like that instantly kills the vibe, and you get reputed as the weird fuck who's there to find a wife.
Have some damn fun.
This gets skimmed through a bunch. You, like everyone else is there to let loose - everybody in the bar can sense it if you reek of desperation. If a girl rejects you, smile and go back to dancing. I have been in many scenarios where the "rejection" is nothing more than a shit test to see your reaction, and the girl that rejected me is cleverly trying to let me know she's reconsidering by coming nearer and nearer. I give her the "fuck you bitch, keep your reconsideration", and attempt to game another chick in front of her.
Be suave as hell - act as if you go clubbing nightly. Slow down everything. Your walk, your talk, your smile. You're the fucking man. Behave like it. Every girl in the club wants to gag on your dick, talk like it. You're there to have fun, let it be known. I've seen too many cliques of guys trying too damn hard, stay far far away from those motherfuckers. Not only is it painfully cringey for me to view, it becomes apparent that they're novices trying too damn hard.
Dealing with Groups.
Be wary of groups that comprise of one or two hot girls, and an overwhelming amount of ugly ducklings. There's days where the competition isn't the good looking "Chad", Chad just wants one chick to take back to his dorm and to call it a night. The competition is cockblocking ugly ducklings. This isn't them performing some fucking virtuous deed to ensure that their friend doesn't go home with some fuckboy, like they want you to believe - this is envy and jealously manifesting. Always have a squad disseminated throughout the club. Unite if the scenario calls for it.
Personally: My squad consists of 6 to 7 people. One member loves chubbies, so I always call him in when the chubby insists to her friends that "I look like a player". You'd be diligently flabbergasted on how fucking quickly the cockblocker wants to go home with us, and begins nagging and insisting to her friends, that I am gaming to come along.
Roam with pure Alpha Males, if you can.
This is probably the hardest out of all my Dos and Don't Dos - pure Alpha Males are hard as hell to befriend. Those fuckers are too fixated on other things to even care about clubbing. However once you find them, it'll be worth it. Girls become subconsciously inclined to want to hang with you guys. He won't get jealous if you're receiving an unprecedented amount of attention as well, because he knows he can pull just as efficiently. I have had "Alpha Males" as friends who have tried to show me up, they got demoted to random pedestrian soon after real, real quick. It's takes great alphaness and maturity to feel happy when a friend is "winning", especially in a competitive area like seducing females.
Wingmen aren't trustable, unless there's an incentive to wing.
Wingmen either have to be in serious relationships already - suffice to say he were in a serious relationship - he wouldn't be there. Wingmen, like you, are men driven by desire to fuck that night. Asking for them to suppress their urges so you can take home a broad is cruel and disrespectful, especially if that man is single. What will happen is he will attempt to compete with you for the girl you want. So, give your wingman an incentive to wing. Let his prize be the hot friend with your target. Always approach with a wingman proportionally to how big the group the girl you want is in, is. The more handsomer the reward, the more incredible his winging becomes.
I had a wingman who was transcendentally winging, because my target had an equally as hot friend, who I promised would be his. I remember gasping in fucking delight as he started talking. I cannot stop replaying that moment in my head.
Talking a girl home.
"Claim" the girl you're taking home. Let her know soon as closing time starts nearing that she's yours for the night. What I usually do is drag my target outside. Chat shit with her, and grab her number, letting her know when my Squad is done, I'll text her. Since you've "claimed" her - she'll be less inclined to be receptive to other guys.
Thank you tremendously. I hope this helps you.
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