I don't feel anything anymore.

dray121212 · 2014-03-20T18:10:57+00:00

get a puppy

_social_caterpillar · 2014-03-20T18:52:10+00:00

Stop watching porn

heist_of_saint_graft · 2014-03-20T18:19:23+00:00

You've hit a plateau. Your abilities meet your challenges. Keep stepping up your abilities and keep looking for challenges YOU CANNOT CURRENTLY MEET. Meet them, plateau again, repeat. This is the blueprint for happiness as a man. Fun part is you get to decide what the challenges are.

Sokolov1 · 2014-03-20T21:27:33+00:00

Although TRP talks alot about tangible conquests, career, women, maintaining your body, 'spirituality' or other abstract enjoyments in life are overlooked.

Get into meditation, pray, try to find meaning or accept the lack of meaning.

monsieurhire2 · 2014-03-20T18:35:45+00:00

It sounds like you're hitting a similar stage to where i am now. The fuel for my fire is just gone.

Some of the machinery still works, i still pull new plates into orbit from time to time. I still engage, vaguely, in the chase, but my heart isnt in it.

The libido is just gone. Last week i had a brand new plate in front of me, beautiful, naked and in a post orgasmic glow, and I'm struggling to get it up. Ended up thumbing in a semi and taking the fastest route to the end zone.

My primary is trying her best to keep my interest sexually, but she's not succeeding at all.

I dont get it, I've got a lot going on positive right now. But my joy department is on permanent strike.

Pushnikov · 2014-03-21T12:13:41+00:00

You're transitioning from an ego feeding off of basic physical rewards (Do x get y) situations that motivate you to goal oriented objectives. Your emotional drive is confused because what used to make it feel good has changed on a subconscious level, and you need to find goals to get your emotional motivations fired up again. This means finding an influence that satisfies your persona.

2014-03-25T20:47:16+00:00

You know too much, the female horde seems to have failed in assassinating you, since you've disseminated such information through your post.

Johnny_Shades · 2014-03-20T22:51:31+00:00

I feel the same way man. No girls I know can discuss anything deeper than what they paid for their fucking uggs or who they saw at a party last week. It's depressing.

Jade196 · 2014-03-21T05:35:54+00:00

If she's just a submissive cocksucker, then is she really a person to you? If you look at women as just cum dumpsters, how are you supposed to feel anything for a garbage can?

Perhaps you need someone who you can be emotionally and intellectually intimate with (in addition to physical intimacy).

MachiavellianRed · 2014-03-21T02:42:22+00:00

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BluepillProfessor · 2014-03-21T20:49:40+00:00

This sounds like a bit of depression possibly from over-internalizing TRP. You are supposed to swallow TRP- not marinate in it to the point of bitternes. TRP helps you become a better man in part by realizing women are not perfect and do not deserve to be pedastalized and further that you are the man and the one who is supposed to be in charge. Now that you have conquered that enemy you have buyer's remorse because it does not seem like a challenge any more.

Another part of the TRP is to always be giving off positive energy. You have clearly lost that aspect.

As was mentioned, take some time off. I would try at least 2-weeks: No fucking, no Fapping, no orgasms as all. Focus on meditation (I find reciting the Rosary is incredibly helpful). Go off into the desert for 40 days and you will find yourself and your purpose again. Only then can you decide whether this recently trained submissive cocksucker needs to be turned in or whether you should try to keep her.

purecyse · 2014-03-20T18:23:37+00:00

I fell into that mode last week after trying to "master" a more stoic frame.

You should identify and overcome a true challenge. Something that actually tests your "powers."

2014-03-20T17:48:36+00:00

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2014-03-21T07:15:01+00:00

I'm going to give you some Christian advice because that's what I think you need. Take it or leave it.

What you're feeling right now is what most people feel at some point during their lives: that self-improvement for the sake of pleasure-seeking is empty. Particularly when it comes to interpersonal relationships, treating others as means to a hedonistic end invariably ends up leaving you frustrated and cynical. Like most, you're probably not a sociopath and you're probably not a rampant hedonist, so any advice you've received about spicing things up or finding another plaything will ring empty. Editing small details is pointless if you're fed up with the script.

Now, I don't know you. I'm a stranger. But. Consider that you've outgrown your base urges. Consider that your judgment of women is a projection of self-judgment. Consider that your next step should be away from people that give you what you want and towards people that give you what you need. Marriage is years away, if it ever comes at all, but why not search for something more serious in the meantime? How about being with a person who can offer emotional depth in addition to physical intimacy? I think you'd be surprised at how your view of women improves as you involve yourself with women worth being involved with.

What's certain is that your current relationship isn't doing anything for you. Maybe that changes with time, and maybe it doesn't. At the very least, I'd encourage you to internalize your frustrations and pursue more meaningful options.

Title	I don't feel anything anymore.
Author	87GNX
Upvotes	31
Comments	39
Date	March 20, 2014 5:15 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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