“I’m different, I would never, trust me”

draneline · 2023-10-28T06:25:48+00:00

Dude this guy is 2-0 on you are you sure he doesn’t have something against you? Can’t you fuck his mom or something?

stupid_smart_ape · 2023-10-27T23:37:01+00:00

I think you'll realize that humans are mostly acting in their perceived best interest.

It's a long but rewarding road to become so awesome such that you are by default a woman's best interest/option. Else, they will never respect you enough to be faithful.

thetonybvd · 2023-10-28T06:23:57+00:00

Hit the gym and stay attractive
Being the best fuck ever (with your dick and without your dick)
Having options, even if you're in a relationship (don't cheat however, but having girls to fuck right after a betrayal or a breakup is far better than being lonely and desesperate for months, years etc)
Don't being attached that much, don't get married

lionsling · 2023-10-28T01:43:13+00:00

I applaud you for your courage to post this, and for your overall message. i hope you stay red pill for good. I just wanted to point out a couple of statements that stood out here that can be seen as still not fully red pill however just as i noticed them.

1." I was in an up and down LTR with a girl in college and post grad."

this honestly tells me she controlled the relationship, otherwise it wouldn't be up and down, it'd be " I was in control of it, and it was smooth or as smooth as can be."

I'd work on being in control of any relationship going forward, its on your terms, your the prize, etc. Again this is coming from a place of improvement as we all should be in this place of improvement including myself.

when you had said the guy had messaged both of you " Congrats on dating!" Right when i read this, i thought " This dude has already fucked her at the very least." It appears this dude is unemotionally fucking chicks, which honestly is a boss move, but may not be ideal for those who want a long term relationship.

You def dodged a bullet with both chicks, especially almost proposing to the second one. I hate to advocate against marriage in general, but the laws are so one sided for women it's not advisable in this day and age.

And one last thing i'd tell dudes in general, protect your emotions at all costs if you want traditional relationships, these western women can show you one thing, but then do another, so when they cheat it shouldn't be all that surprising. just gotta plate 'em if you want, or move on to the next. Again thanks for sharing your experiences and helping others learn from them as well.

RedPillDad · 2023-10-28T04:33:53+00:00

I was 3 weeks away from proposing

Did he steal a good woman from you? Or did he expose her as questionable wifey material? I think you know the answer. You were ready to wife up someone capable of that level of betrayal. That dude is a mentor on your hero's journey, slapping you with hard lessons you didn't ask for.

kvakerok · 2023-10-28T14:37:19+00:00

She was never yours, it was just your turn.

Slybooper13 · 2023-10-28T00:22:32+00:00

The red pill is a bitter for sure.

videogames_ · 2023-10-28T06:48:03+00:00

Why did you keep in contact with the guy your first gf cheated with? Thats a weird theme with a lot of these posts. I’d never meet the guy that my ex cheated with. The solution is go meet ten other women. If it takes every seduction skill in the book and playing the numbers game so be it.

NewCommonSensei · 2023-10-28T02:01:04+00:00

my advice to you is to hit the gym and not give af

jokertnt · 2023-10-28T10:42:49+00:00

In our country we just kick ass this kind of dudes. It’s disrespectful. Forget dem whores also.

Redsqa · 2023-10-28T14:26:15+00:00

You fucked up in telling her your ex cheated on you with him. Regardless of whether or not this guy had banged your current girl before sending you that message or not, telling your girlfriend that your ex cheated on you with him could have only made things worse. You know about the phenomenon of pre-selection right? How women will think a guy in a relationship with another woman must have a higher value than a single guy? They subconsciously think, a woman must have selected him for a reason. That's preselection.

Women cheat because they find the other guy superior in some way. This can be material like, he makes more money, better looking, more athletic, etc. Or this can be behavior like, he has a more dominant demeanor and/or you acted like a bitch and lost frame to the point a regular dude is more attractive in her eyes. When you tell a girl that a dude stole your ex, you are hard preselecting him in her mind because subconsciously she thinks "how superior must this other guy be to not only have been selected by your ex but that she cheated on you with him". You subconsciously told your girl this guy was better than you. And you consciously told her he humiliated you. Do not ever do that.

Also at this point you have to grow a pair and get back at this dude. Yeah yeah he helped you dodge bullets, I don't buy it here. For strike number 1, yeah maybe. For strike number 2, a man does not let that slide. He sent you a message congratulating you then fucked your girl? Do it for your ego, it will help heal. And I don't mean necessarily something physical.

Andgelyo · 2023-10-29T17:00:00+00:00

How the fuck did the same guy who fucked your last girl, also fucked your current girl (now ex)? Typically I don’t condone violence, but this guy sounds like he had something personal against you wtf beat his ass

expandingedge · 2023-10-29T19:06:34+00:00

The angry Muslim inside of you calls out for Fatwah

SixStringsToSanity · 2023-10-28T21:24:26+00:00

I don't want to say beat that dude's ass, because illegal actions are never the answer. But it's clearly Dark Triad behavior, aimed specifically at you, whether because he perceives you as vulnerable, sees himself in you, or is threatened by you -- possibly all three.

Time to put on some muscle. Get into the gym. Learn to kickbox. Tell him it's all gravy. Then wait for a hot minute until said gentleman has a female. "Ah, Liz?!? What a beautiful name!"

Or you could just have a good conversation with him, now. Make sure you're calm. Eye contact. Handshake. "All's fair in love and war. But don't ever do that again." Eye contact to reinforce. Walk away.

TRPSenpai · 2023-10-31T15:15:02+00:00

If it makes you feel better, me and my girl just broke up. She is like the epitome of what TRP would want for a LTR

Former Christian girl
Low N count
Dated her last bf for 5 years
Total homebody, her idea of a good night is board games.
We've been dating for almost 2 years and making long term plans til about two months ago.
In school, to become a medical professional making over 200k a year.

While, I'm pretty sure she didn't cheat on me... none the less she revealed she didn't feel the same anymore. While admittedly, I was off my game... and spent alot of time with her instead of making myself better, it completely caught me off guard.

There were warnings, they weren't just blatant as yours and I probably lied to myself a little bit. We all do to various degrees, don't beat yourself over it. AWALT

randomreddituser890 · 2023-10-28T20:34:07+00:00

I could have sworn this same story was uploaded months ago. Even the same comment with guy the guy talking about OP is 2-0 and should fuck the other guys mom

byteseed · 2023-11-04T21:31:49+00:00

taken by one guy

Do you realize this guy is you, right?

Otherwise, fun story. The Red Pill is just a collection of different facts, strategies and observations, nothing less, nothing more. And the community, of course. Take it with grain of salt and test it for yourself.

burnyr · 2023-11-05T21:04:05+00:00

Yep. But don't forget to still approach a bunch of em, like they're worthy of being approached. Ignore the fact that they've all had trains run through em, but they're ready to settle now and they only got eyes for you buddy.

oooKenshiooo · 2023-10-28T22:09:35+00:00

My man, that guy is a saint.

He saved you not from one, but TWO cheaters.

Next time, play it smart and introduce your girl to him early on. Maybe even pay him to give you proof.

Might save you a lot of trouble and time. :)

James_Cruse · 2023-10-29T05:53:59+00:00

I suspect this guy met your girlfriend at work and she revealed to him your weaknesses and what strengths he has over you.

He now knew this and kept track of you and used those same weaknesses you have (still have from lack of improvement) and his strengths to take the next woman from you.

I suspect this isn’t the first time he’s done this to a man.

I could see myself doing the same thing to a guy I genuinely didn’t care for but I have so many options, I wouldn’t need to.

In addition to you being with women who are attractive AND he now knows he can get (revealed by your first girlfriend) - I’d bet your first girlfriend also said some very nasty things about you to him (which were likely exagerrated or untrue) as women do to ease their guilt pf cheating on a man and say to the man they’re cheating with to make themselves appear to be a good person to the affair partner. Women like to also do this to shore up a potential long term partner in the affair partner - otherwise guy she’s having an affair with just thinks she’s a temp situationship that has no consequence due to her poor behaviour.

These nasty or unflattering (probably untrue) things may be the reason he’s motivated to taking your new girlfriend as he feels you’re a bad/unfit man in addition to thinking he’s superior to you (based on your first ex’s assessment).

The whole thing is tragic for you mate. My advice to you is to better yourself significantly - get to the gym, become a more seductive manand get much better in bed and/or move countries if you don’t want this situation to happen again.

Like, if Leo DiCaprio decided he wanted to take my girlfriends or wife repeatededly, I’d be in real trouble myself. This guy isn’t Leo, but he’s clearly got alot of something you don’t to keep taking these women from you.

SteveSan82 · 2023-10-29T08:05:08+00:00

Why call the guy? Just dump her and move on

El0vution · 2023-10-30T01:49:15+00:00

Okay now start applying red pill principles. You can get past this

ElectricObsessed · 2023-11-23T05:53:56+00:00

One of the best things about the red pill is that even after spending years not consuming any more content and just trying to live a normal life, I cannot unsee all the cheating behavior and what the plantation represents and it's like a sixth sense because I can look at someone's failed relationship, sense all the mistakes and determine what went wrong.

And when I date women, I have a tendency to judge harshly those who have lots of tattoos, who are alcoholic and who consume lots of hardcore drugs, because subconsciously, I know they're the type to participate in hookup culture the most and they're the most likely to cheat.

In January, I was on a date with my younger sister's female friend and after just one 3 hour conversation over drinks, she spilled the beans about all the crazy stuff she did and that alone was enough to turn me on and to assume she is a slut and ironically, just a few weeks ago, my sister told me that this friend actually does hookup with a lot of men. So my red pilled instincts actually saved me. When I tell blue pilled male acquaintances about her they say I could have attempted to hookup with her but the thing is she most likely has illegal substances in her apartment, and many STDs in her genital area, so I dodged a bullet.

The thing is that she is the one who asked for my number so she is the one who chased me, and I was not even that much into her but for once in my life I decided to give a decent looking girl a chance instead of just rejecting her like I usually do. And the one time I am giving a girl a chance, she turns out to be a slut. I am definitely not the luckiest but this experience was eye opening and only helped me remember what I learned from the red pill so it was a valuable experience.

penny_can · 2023-11-23T15:16:16+00:00

I don't think I would spend too much time obsessing over it, if she cheated on you, she'll do the same to him. The difference is he probably won't care and is fucking someone else too.

TJ_McConnell_MVP · 2023-10-29T02:48:04+00:00

Sounds like ur sex game is just weak bro

Title	“I’m different, I would never, trust me”
Author	pnwcoursiere
Upvotes	152
Comments	42
Date	October 27, 2023 11:09 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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