It's all getting old.

Demonspawn · 2013-12-21T10:31:32+00:00

Then give up on women for a while. Focus on what you want to do (whatever hobby/career/project you want).

TRP is about making you a better man. Winning over women is just a side effect. Keep the focus on you, not her/them.

Theophagist · 2013-12-21T12:44:10+00:00

As I get older I find the platonic company of men to be far more rewarding than the platonic or sexual company of women.

magicalbird · 2013-12-21T11:22:06+00:00

Is this it? Is this why we swallowed the red pill? I feel so meaningless. All I can do is see through her lies. Her drunk lies. Her lies about how she moved out west because she wanted to travel. Her lies about how she never hooks up. I honestly miss believing these lies. I miss being naive. I miss oneitis - it's less lonely than noitits. I can't feel a connection anymore. There's no magic. I'd rather stay in my basement and smoke weed than go out and fuck these girls. It's too easy. It's boring. Spinning plates blows. Ughhhh.

A typical girl with lots of hangups about her own sexuality. Ditch the plates that are boring like this and find more interesting plates. At least fuck women that aren't this boring.

Then again the desire for sex is can make the actual thing a let down with mediocre women.

CrustsRemoved · 2013-12-21T12:19:24+00:00

There's nothing that says you can't form a long term relationship. If you realize that all women are next-able and at the slightest provocation you blow threw her shit tests, it can be quite fun.

Oneitis is feeling that no other woman can make you feel happy. Shallowing the red pill is about realizing that most of them are one of a million not one in a million.

I was in the same place a few months back. Spinning plates is fun but ultimately unfilling and tiresome. Using the same tactics, on the same pussy with just a different face and hearing the same lines became quite boring.

I decided to see what a red pill relationship would be like and have been quite happy.

bgny · 2013-12-21T14:41:51+00:00

Did you think of calling her out?

"You're not drunk. You know exactly what you are doing."

"And what makes you think I want to have sex with a sloppy drunk who doesn't know what she's doing?"

"Stop playing games. If you want to have some good sexy time tonight get over here, if not I'll take you home. But enough of this BS."

When a women gets all indecisive, teasing, and playing these games and the like - just call her out. Step up the alpha behavior and she will either respond favorably or get mad and leave. You don't care either way. The last thing you do is sit there and complain in your head about how this girl is acting and that you're not getting what you want. Why let her waste your time? Your time is valuable.

Change up the atmosphere, call her out. You have nothing to lose.

Edit: You are mad because this woman played you. She got you all ready to go and then hovered naked over your hardon before shutting it down. That's pretty brutal for a women to do. The problem isn't the redpill, the problem is that you are still bluepill. You let her take control of the situation. Are you a submissive? No, You should have had her raring to go just as much as you were. You should not have let this girl waste your time. Stop blaming and complaining, examine your behavior and fix what you did wrong.

emmettfitz · 2013-12-21T14:46:41+00:00

Better now than after 20+ years of being married, realizing you've pretty much been played your whole live, and when you want a return on some of that support and attention that you've given her all these years, you get very little to nothing. That is a hard pill to swallow, I no longer have plates to spin. All I can do is take it, and keep giving up 80-90% of my pay so I can still see my kids anytime I want. If I divorce I will still be giving up 80-90% of my pay but my kids will live somewhere else (who am I kidding? they'll live right here, the house I've payed for for 15 years, I'll be living in a 1 bedroom shit whole that I'll be able to afford if I eat ramen and water every day).

thecajunone · 2013-12-21T11:29:14+00:00

I hear ya bro. Its worrisome thinking you will probably never love again.

oreopimp · 2013-12-21T13:37:26+00:00

you're bitching like that guy in that movie the matrix that wants to be put back in the matrix.

You need to find beauty in what it means to be human and not the pretty lies. Wake up. Be powerful. I can love a woman better than ever and I can do it on my own terms, while helping her feel what its like to be in a relationship with someone like me in which she feels loved in a way thats better than the other crap out there. And if you dont find a girl you dig: drop, find and repeat until you do. Woman want to be loved by a man that's better than them. So BE BETTER.

You choose the lens you view your reality through. If you dont dig spinning plates: stop doing it and have a sweet time doing your own thing, reading, writing, playing video games whatever you like to do and chill with girls you dig as they come into your life.

That or go be a pussy somewhere else. Seriously. If you dont like the girls attitude above: drop her. Or tell her to fuck you or get the hell out of the car because youre fed up with it that bad. Dont ever do anything you're not happy with. You are in control bro. Take the reins.

zezozio · 2013-12-21T14:10:14+00:00

I feel you, man...

And then imagine (in a few month/years) getting oneitis and see through the lies and the self(?)-deception of the girl. The hamstering, the hypergaming, the wall! It's like a part of you is dying each time she "opens" up to you...

But you can't unlearn the truth. And I'd rather live an ugly truth than in a rosy-dream.

2013-12-21T12:32:58+00:00

In my view there is a light side and a dark side to TRP. One may use it to play into the darker side of female nature or one may use it to avoid it. You get fewer notches on the light side but.. there are women who get it. Really. They just recognise bullshit when they see it and often prefer men to women. It is just that game does not work that well on them so you just have to tell the truth.

MrStinky · 2013-12-21T13:21:46+00:00

I honestly miss believing these lies. I miss being naive. I miss oneitis - it's less lonely than noitits. I can't feel a connection anymore. There's no magic. I'd rather stay in my basement and smoke weed than go out and fuck these girls. It's too easy. It's boring. Spinning plates blows. Ughhhh.

Sometimes I feel the exact. same. way

palish · 2013-12-21T14:04:07+00:00

Have you considered it's because you're thinking of women as sex toys rather than companions?

Twonix · 2013-12-21T15:17:35+00:00

Getting jerked off in your car? What are you 16?

2013-12-21T14:09:39+00:00

[permanently deleted]

WoodyHarrlesonsAgent · 2013-12-21T15:18:06+00:00

Of course drunken rip off your clothes I'm so hot for you let's go hook up in the parking lot is not going to work if you're not into it bro your mind isn't being deceived because you're not letting it be deceived because you took the red pill

Now you have to decide what it is you like

NGGYUNGLYDNGRAADY · 2013-12-21T16:21:19+00:00

You could always switch teams and go after guys. Even if you don't want to do anything sexual with a guy, do it for the challenge to see if you could pick up a guy. See how the game is different between men and women.

Title	It's all getting old.
Author	Killerphonebill
Upvotes	64
Comments	54
Date	December 21, 2013 10:10 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1te0en/its_all_getting_old/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/its-all-getting-old.9088 https://theredarchive.com/post/9088

Comments