Graduation season is upon us, so I'm going to take a minute to remind brand new and still-digesting members of a few things.

  • LIFE ISN'T FAIR

If I told you no two people are created alike, and that some people are going to be objectively better mathematicians than others, you'd heartily agree. After all, it is a self evident fact, and you're a smart enough guy to accept reality.

But for some reason, inequality in the sexual marketplace prompts irrational, reactionary anger in our newbies and unplugging crowd. Let's go over the top rage bait and inject some red rationality back into the conversation.

  • Some are born more attractive than others

Duh, right? But what happens when we specify....

  • Women state a preference for tall men, and you can't change your height

It's true, even the ones that lie and say "he just needs to be taller than me" when she's 5 foot nothing prefer taller men. In the words of Tony Soprano, whaddaya gonna do? I assure you that "being angry about it on the internet" won't help.

Why are you listening to what they say anyway? Stop doing that.

  • Your facial attractiveness is only naturally malleable via your weight

So get fit and stfu about it.

  • Swipe and online dating have inflated women's expectations and made them further objectify men

So be the shiniest object you can be to compete in OLD or try something else. Speaking of compete....

  • Women are not magically excluded from darwinian thinking

You want hot enough. She wants the hottest she can get and will only trade up. LIFE IS A COMPETITION, and there are other dudes who will beat you out in various ways.

Why should she settle for #2 or worse? Don't replace bluepill "women are wonderful" with rage pill "women are fucking reptilian brained". Replace it with "I'm doing my thing, they can sign up for the ride if I let them."

  • Unhappiness is primarily the result of defining yourself on a relative basis

There was an interesting study that asked "would you rather make 100k and your peers make 75k, or 200k and others make 250k?"

Most picked 100k. This is a classic BP failure of defining your own success through comparison, and is the killer of self actualization and happiness.

Most are answering the question from the reptilian brain, instead of concluding that one income is objectively superior to the other.

Who cares if some guy has it better than you, if you have what you need?

  • Men have very little intrinsic value, women have a lot

Pareto and the whole OkCupid "women rate 80% of men below average" result from the fact that on the superficial, surface level women are unable to judge the majority of characteristics that make them want to fuck a man.

Without seeing and FEELING nonverbal frame and game, men don't have much to offer. Dick is cheap.

Is it really surprising they then bias aggressively to looks in OLD since there is nothing else to go on, and she wants the best? Pussy is valuable, and they learn that early.

  • TRP is for men who will read, apply, and win for the sake of winning

If you want to give up, there are plenty of swamps to go drown in. If you want to post about how terrible women are and meme about your impotence, this isn't the subreddit.

If you want to make yourself the priority, improve your physique, and get what you want out of life by doing it the hard way, stick around.

"But why would I do all this just to get girls?" if you're asking this, you still have a long way to go.

We will help you realize it was always about you, if you're willing to put in the work.

Now get to work, and when in doubt blame yourself first.