With the influx of new members and overall lack of posts with values, it is time to revisit some core foundations on which one must operate not only to be "Alpha," but happy with one's self.

We often categorize certain behaviors as Redpill, Bluepill, Alpha, or Beta, but lack to understand the meaning behind why these things can be deemed as such. The answer lies in self fulfillment and dependency.

It is an innate human characteristic to find things that are independent more attractive or valuable. The car that breaks down every 15k miles and the man who attributes his happiness on a female are very much the same thing. They are dependent. They can be fucked with. The car isn't gonna make a road trip without problems in the same way the man isn't going to amount to anything without a woman to make him happy.

It is the car that breaks down infrequently and the man who doesn't rely on anyone that become valuable or attractive. You can't fuck with it. The car is just gonna keep running. The man is just gonna be happy. It is when you learn you can't fuck with something that you begin to either love or hate it. We can't fuck with female nature. Some men hate that, others love it.

In terms of sexual strategy, TheRedPill aims to make you independent by showing you reality. Learn to be happy by yourself and have nothing to be dependent on. That is the true meaning of "Alpha." Shit tests are designed to test this.

"I think we should break up." ---- "Are you reliant on me?"

"Your shirt is stupid." ---- "Do you need my approval for what you wear?"

"I think my ex is back in town." ---- "Do I control you? Are you dependent on me? Can I make you feel jealous?"

Men who have the most success with women are happy with themselves and don't rely on women to make them happy, or very many things overall.

Author's Note: Currently just got out of a 4 year LTR, chased for a month. Complacency kills attraction fellas. Never drop your prospects. Always be sharpening the knife. Never become dependent on women.