OUCH.

ahackercalled4chan · 2020-09-02T23:36:18+00:00

at least he found out now instead of 4 years into a marriage.

ImplodedVeggies · 2020-09-02T23:47:02+00:00

“he couldn’t believe what I would do for “other men, and not him””

Thank you RP for showing me how to be one of the “other men, and not him”

FeniZio94 · 2020-09-02T22:30:59+00:00

Can’t turn a hoe into a housewife...

When will motherfuckers learn

LiveAFTSOV · 2020-09-02T23:11:05+00:00

I went through SOO much abuse

What kind of abuse?

Well, I did lots of hard drugs that lowered my inhibitions and wound up getting abused by chads in various gangbangs. My life is so hard.

I am an honest person who laid all my cards out on the table from the get go.

Are you sure you told him the truth from the beginning?

Weeeeeelllll......

We know this guy is semi-alpha cus he walked away as soon as he realized his girl was a whore. So good for him.

I say semi, though, cus he said "what she would do for other guys but not me" which leads me to believe he wasnt getting her sexual best i.e. blowjobs, spontaneous sex, anal...

She says she did whatever he wanted but she already admitted she is unreliable trickle truther.

redpillnoob42 · 2020-09-02T22:24:19+00:00

Well, I hope he is continuing to spin.

Keith_Valentine · 2020-09-02T22:52:53+00:00

My beta provider didnt like my old gangbang vids where i fucked the squad for dope, life isnt fair. I really love him, like... Sooooo much.

user12345678654 · 2020-09-02T23:59:21+00:00

We don't know what she is being truthful about and what she is masking.

She said she laid all her cards on the table. Then immidiately follows up with "obviously not all of them" Trickle truth at it's finest

What I don't understand is. This guy was sent a video. Specifically to him. The big question here is, how did the sender know who she was seeing?

The sender knows him and has history with the chick.

Knows the chick and she's still riding the carousal talking mad shit behind his back.

Is chick's "bestie" who joined her on her fun

Any other possibilities?

unnatural_by_nature · 2020-09-02T23:04:05+00:00

I mean abuse is tough and all. No one ever truly gets over it. I know because I lived it my entire childhood.

However, I never did drugs or let multiple men have their way with me on camera, so it’s almost as if choices still matter, even for abused people.

I like the part where she’s confused about this outcome after being selectively honest and still tries to place some blame on him for seeing her for what she is.

abhi_07 · 2020-09-03T01:18:40+00:00

I have noticed the emergence of this emphasis on "I wasn't myself/I was in a troubled time of my life" which ALWAYS emerges when billy gets to see behind the curtain, to the point that if any woman I know alludes to "past wounds", it is a gigahertz signal declaring "I was a massive whore who still hasn't got over chad's life-changing-dick."

UnkownChain · 2020-09-03T01:48:42+00:00

Idk whats actually more disgusting, finding something like this about your gf (considering the guy vetted properly) or the VAST majority of the comments saying "dump him, hes an asshole"

Ik the blue pill rules the world but where the fuck is the common sense?

deeznutsbeswingin · 2020-09-03T02:27:52+00:00

Whichever one of you sent him that vid, next beer’s on me.

CanYouDiglettIt · 2020-09-03T05:17:23+00:00

I like how everyone ignored the most important part of the trickle truth. The boyfriend says "I've seen more" but teenagers on reddit with their god-forsaken reading comprehension are reading an unreliable narrator's story and taking it to be God's truth.

Also, " I've never drunk enough to even get tipsy, or done any drugs - even though it's been incredibly hard and continues to be." Oh yeah. It's sooooo hard to not keep doing drugs and being an alcoholic when you became the town whore because of it earlier. So hard, guys.

Run Forrest. Run.

2020-09-03T03:03:07+00:00

That’s fucking disgusting. Not even 18 and getting gangbanged while tripping on drugs. There’s no excuse for that, you’re just a degenerate. She 100% had some freedom promiscuity philosophy at the time and it came back to bite her. All those risks she indulged in weren’t worth it, but she still decided to be a braindead hedonist.

CelestialAmorphous · 2020-09-03T10:00:59+00:00

As cruel as it sounds avoid “abused” women. Often times it ain’t abuse but lack of accountability for their own actions. She probably thoroughly enjoyed what she did but knew nobody would accept her for owning up to it and being a proud slag. In comes “I had a difficult abusive upbringing”. Just smash an dash those crazy bitches for your own sanity lads don’t settle. you’ll be forced to repair the damage caused by men she was more attracted too and put out for. And for what starfish sex & the thousand cock stare?

seanconneryfan_ · 2020-09-02T22:33:35+00:00

I don't believe this story
This adds nothing of value to TRP

throwawaylibtard757 · 2020-09-02T23:14:45+00:00

You can't make a silk purse out of a sows ear

Redpiller77 · 2020-09-02T23:24:11+00:00

I actually don't have a problem with this. Of course I wouldn't date her, but having a fucked up childhood isn't something nice. It looks like she is working on herself and has been doing better. Again, not simping or defending, but she is just a human who had a shitty life. That's not the same as a cc rider who does it because it's fun.

Huxleys_Island_Dude · 2020-09-02T22:46:24+00:00

It’s the same thing that happens to us when girls meet us as after our RP journey and think we were born alpha. Then they see our overweight BP years, or we emotionally “bleed” in front of them and they lose attraction to us. Same thing but reverse.

Lesson: Don’t put girls up on a pedestal.

TheStumblingWolf · 2020-09-03T09:33:56+00:00

other men, but not him

This is, perhaps, one of the hardest pills for anyone to swallow. I can see why TRP would sometimes seem thoroughly unappealing. Can't do much about such things though, other than improving yourself and accepting the fact that you can't change human nature.

muff_marauder · 2020-09-03T13:33:31+00:00

I should be worried about whoever is sending him this

And her ex should be high-fiving whoever's sending him this.

Amon35 · 2020-09-03T08:48:56+00:00

It's sad that this kinds of stories are shocking for others while we know this is just a regular tuesday. Vetting is near impossible these days too. Its best to assume the worst until proven innocent fellas.

Greek-God-Brody · 2020-09-03T10:48:23+00:00

His first mistake was to LTR someone as damaged as her.

Grandazer · 2020-09-03T10:55:23+00:00

This is the equivalent of a bedtime horror story for me.

Azraelfree · 2020-09-03T13:42:21+00:00

Do not read the comment section if you value your sanity.

The delusion, lack of awareness and accountability are absolutely staggering and I do not understand how anyone can encourage this type of behavior

Plus, it’s reaaally convenient that “she has no recollection of the event” and yet remembers being underage and in a certain mindset at the time without even having seen the footage. Selective memory is nice.

Killjoyy13 · 2020-09-03T13:48:46+00:00

I bet the comments would be filled with "you deserve better...he is not your type...he is an asshole" bullshit

potus2028 · 2020-09-03T02:57:20+00:00

Fuck this, stay frosty everyone!

spartanblood1 · 2020-09-03T10:12:06+00:00

I will see a post from this broken down guy after TRP finds him.

throwlaca · 2020-09-03T10:20:58+00:00

In a way, she's right. She probably grow without a father, or with an absent father.

A father would never have permitted a girl being gangbanged for drugs at 17, that points to absent family. She was free to seek her adolescent instincts, pleasure, sex and drugs. That caused enormous damage in her.

But she will get another sucker, there are one born every second.

MattyAnon · 2020-09-03T11:34:08+00:00

Better coverage is available on our main page, titled "Sexual Availability as a Proxy Indicator For Desire/Attraction/Commitment/Love"

buttgoogler · 2020-09-03T11:39:57+00:00

What a piece of shit he is for leaving his damsel in distress. Doing gangbang amateur porn isn't the reason to dump her slutty ass!

ManthanDhabriya · 2020-09-03T12:44:38+00:00

This reminds me of one of u/Archwinger's posts. He basically stated being affected by a chicks slutty past is inherently assuming that she was some kind of pristine angel (if not for her past). That implies one still conflates the female species with goddesses. Slut or not, shes not an angel from heaven.

flacko_red · 2020-09-03T13:14:38+00:00

but would not call it out of place for where I was at that time in my life

This is the sketch part for me. What does it even mean? Were these gangbangs a common occurrence? Was it abuse all those times?

I don’t want to judge and cast stones but this statement brings a lot of doubt about how much of a victim she is.

Nicolas44001 · 2020-09-03T08:16:28+00:00

I dont really get where the issue is though...she lived her life, decided to stop, stuff surfaced and she demanded nothing from him, she could have emotionally blackmailed him, manipulated with "if you don't like me it's because you're mysoginist blablabla", but on the contrary she understood and gave him space and now she's trying to make things work....i don't know what more you want guys.

Or you're just jealous she could get in gangbangs when not even 18 when most of us, me included, don't get noticed, let alone laid, let alone wanted, let alone a girlfriend.

I really don't get what more you want here.

BhiQ42 · 2020-09-03T07:42:33+00:00

That post seems like a bait post for TRPers ...

Usually the story goes like "My last boyfriend ,who was a chad type, 'abused' me, namely I had the feeling I had to be sexually available for him in all possible ways because he was actually attractive and I had to put in effort to keep him. My new beta boyfriend found out I did anal with my ex but he's not attractive so I don't feel like I owe him that so I declare my past sex-life abuse and thus make him the bad guy for asking me for it."

In this case it's not only more ambiguous, it's outright silly. She seems to have some degree of emotional maturity ("[I] recognized this moment was about him"), she was an underage drug addict (I'm not attributing those with much agency) and she has " indulged in every single desire/kink he's vocalized", which sounds like better treatment than the average beta gets. IF the story is exactly or close to what she describes then that makes him seem like a retard. Like what the fuck did you expect her life was like as a teenage drug addict? Did he imagine her sitting quietly in her room, the dope just appearing randomly?

It's obviously absolutely ok, that he doesnt want to date her anymore, but kicking her when she's down ("truly disgusted by the person I am") after she has clearly changed... Idk man, I can't agree with the sentiments in this thread.

haddonhopkins8 · 2020-09-03T12:22:02+00:00

How many white knights in the comments of the op?

themo98 · 2020-09-03T12:50:32+00:00

Well at least she managed to somewhat get out of the crap that was her life. Very few people in such situations are lucky.

flipit_flipit · 2020-09-03T04:42:04+00:00

She wasn’t even 18 yet. That’s child pornography.

swaglordobama · 2020-09-03T10:46:52+00:00

Everyone on this forum used to be a loser and worked on himself to be less of a loser, just like this chick when she was fucked up on drugs.

We cannot judge women for indulging in taboo sexual acts that we fap to. Every chick is a dirty little slut with a partner who accepts and rewards that part of her.

Janoytoothbrush · 2020-09-03T00:51:52+00:00

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Nexarus123 · 2020-09-03T01:33:56+00:00

When I stumbled across Trp I didn’t think enjoying the decline would include this sub. Voyeurism is boring, whoever indulges in it is boring.

white_girl_lover · 2020-09-03T04:15:08+00:00

Regardless if this is real, you posted to TRP, you think we give a fuck bitch?

tomsmith856 · 2020-09-03T07:44:55+00:00

Sounds like she was gang raped tbh

OUCH.

My [26F] boyfriend of 4 years [27M] just walked out on me after a video surfaced of me.

Comments

Title	OUCH.
Author	Lonely_Scarcity
Upvotes	108
Comments	89
Date	September 2, 2020 10:19 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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