As far back as I can remember, my mother always used to tell me, "Son, become a doctor and you will get a good wife and have status." That's all she used to tell me. Did she care about what I wanted? Nope. Indirectly she was telling me, "Live for the people, so they can be impressed by your status and then find a gold digger who will only be impressed by my profession." Yes. That's what she was telling me.
And before TRP my thinking and mindset was only money, money and money. That I need a couple million before marriage for a so called "good" wife. And you know what? I was dumb. I never once thought that, she will only be with me for my profession and income. And, whatever I did prior discovering TRP in life, was for this imaginary "unicorn" that I was not even guaranteed with. As the other post said, the final phase of red pill is, You get to chill and don't give a fuck for good. And that's what we should all strive for. Society wants you to be a beta buxx.
Society wants you to believe in the idea of marrying a former hoe, and turning her into a housewife and in the process becoming miserable. Marriage in the modern age can never work. It's an failed institution and the statistics don't lie. All these Trad cu-cks wouldn't tell you the misery they are in, you know why? Because once you're married legally, you're stuck as a man. She can deny and manipulate you with sèx, be disobedient towards you, and still take half of your shi and get away with everything. The state/laws give them the power to. That's how easy it is for women to play men in today's times.
In the modern age, majority of women are emotionally broken/damaged, and by you being the "good" husband to come and save the day, who doesn't understand female nature and how they work, and who was always told be "nice" to women will only get manipulated and be miserable. She knows whatever you're doing, (all those roses/dinners and fake compliments) is to get access to what's between her legs, and she'll use that great power she has over you, and manipulate you in getting whatever she wants.
One must understand the greatest power any women has over you, is not her physical strength, neither her intellect, neither her character. It's just what's between her legs. For example, imagine an 18 year old women who gets all the attention in the world. Random men become "nice" to her when they see her, and she has a huge # of guys just pleading to get with her, and doing whatever it takes to get one second of her time. Society makes everything "easy" for her and that's why as they say, women live life on "easy mode" in their younger years because society enables them to. When all this takes place, it doesn't take long for women to realize the great power of what they have between their legs. So then they use their weapon (their pussy) in getting what they want from men, and especially her husband by manipulating him with sèx. Women in the modern age only marry beta providers.
Women will only genuinely respect a guy from the heart which they cannot manipulate, and will marry a guy which they can manipulate. The guy who doesn't get manipulated (who she really wants) has many options, and she knows that he will never be exclusive to her.
You see when a guy has options, he doesn't need to rely on one women for sèx. If one gives him a hard time, what does he do? He simply walks away, and goes to the others. Women instinctively know, a guy with options can never be manipulated and their classic "coochie game" will never work on these guys. So, what do they do? They marry a guy who isn't that much sèxually wanted, (boring, safe option) which Society wants you to be, but still has sufficient resources to protect her and will stay loyal. And in return, she'll give him the occasional birthday BJ special, or she'll lay there as a dead fish just "waiting" for him to be done quick. Why? Because this was the guy she married, who she wasn't sèxually attracted to. She will manipulate him with sèx and use it as a weapon, because she knows he doesn't have any options and will do everything for her, in "hopes" of bànging her.
Most of us on this sub, are not the Tyrone to just "pump and dump" women. It's not in our nature, and it's not in us. Also, we aren't simp's to worship women. We are somewhere in the middle, who understand women very well and we value our self respects the most, so we can never be the beta buxx which society wants us to be. So, when we see the rigged game what we do? We do our own thing. For some guys it's being on their purpose, and improving their lives for the better. For some it may picking up new hobbies and whatever etc. And, when you choose a simplistic lifestyle, no matter how much you have, happiness and inner peace is found in small things. We men need very little to find that "inner peace." But that doesn't mean you stop self improving. The day you stop self improving, is the day you die.
In conclusion gentlemen, whatever society promised you is all a fantasy tale of the "unicorn" waiting out there somewhere. In the end, their is no unicorn waiting at the finish line, and if you marry, you're just another beta buxx nice guy who is saving a women, who has ridden all the Tyrones and gave them all the free sex, while you're just her long term "safe" option. And in the end, as we all know it's AWALT. Never forget this.
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