Remember, She's Never Yours, It's Only Your Turn

7udgerKresnik · 2023-11-13T04:13:33+00:00

Oh man you’ll be suprise if you only went to a bar/club more often about woman.

they really don’t give a shit about their life/partner.

(“you only live once”, “i’m here to enjoy” , “i need to forget my problem” , “it’s time to hunt”, “he will never knew anyway”, “it’s just a one time sex” , “it’s only BJ/anal not a big deal” - that’s the word running to their minds once they step in the bar/club)

they become the biggest hoe regardless if they are ugly , married , got 4 kids , have a dying relatives , don’t have money to eat the next day whatever you name it. Living at that moment is only matter.

videogames_ · 2023-11-13T05:29:05+00:00

If she’s at the club, her tingles > everything else in her life. This includes her bf, her husband, her kids.

James_Cruse · 2023-11-13T05:02:17+00:00

Men need to understand that when women say they “won’t cheat on you” or they will be “loyal and faithful” - they usually mean that and genuinely feel it in their hearts.

The issue is: Women themselves under-estimate their capacity for complete passivity and the ease they will naturally submit to a powerful, confident man that moves her emotions.

How could women realistically account for that level of passivity in that situation before it even happens, so predicting it in the future. Women themselves are constantly overcome, overwhelmed and overpowered by many outside forces that they themselves willingly surrender and submit to. It’s a woman’s nature.

I don’t think there should he hate for it - women are told how strong they are and how they’re world beaters when they aren’t - they are extremely passive and submit to things, ideas and large groups of people and especially very strong men when the situation is overwhelming them.

It’s not anyone’s fault - it’s the true nature of women and people just need to be aware of it - even women themselves (who are often in the dark or completely misled about their own nature, through misinformation or their own self-delusion or both).

hitlicks4aliving · 2023-11-13T03:52:03+00:00

Yep it happens in college some of the girls were cheating on their long distance boyfriends

thetonybvd · 2023-11-13T08:24:42+00:00

I've done waiters and bartenders jobs in clubs in the south of France.

The amount of girls who cheated or are here to cheat is beyond crazy and make me absolutely sick to my stomach.

And they don't even hesitate to gaslight their husbands/boyfriends when he has any doubts.

These girls often want to smash with the bartenders and the best looking guys in the club.

My opinion is, you need to find a girl who don't go to parties or clubs. A girl who don't like that

But if she put the best make up, the sexiest clothes to go to a club, don't even try to be controlling, just consider yourself you're single now, because she is rn.

Have options guys, they fuck only with guys who have crazy tons of options

ApeMindFitness · 2023-11-13T16:52:01+00:00

“She didn’t care if she was going to cheat or not, she was just looking for the right guy.”

What a powerful dose of truth.

Ok-Night-8519 · 2023-11-13T04:36:33+00:00

man reading this made me sick, shame on her

Geep1778 · 2023-11-13T17:31:14+00:00

Once upon a time in a not too long ago past I got to witness a story that today I feel compelled to share w y’all. Idk why but it’s relevant. I had female friend who was dating a guy for awhile and since HS. They got engaged and set a date until it hit the rocks and got canceled. I was privy to this females life and all the guys she had on the side during and after. We also went out together on multiple occasions as a strictly platonic relationship. Women make the best wing men and to this day haven’t had a better person at feeding me floozies lol. Anyways.. the dude she kind of left her fiancé for was a dick and as soon as I met him I knew he was using her. She didn’t believe me but when that truth materialized for her who do you think she went back to? Regardless of that she was with others I never met but they got a piece for providing free other things if you know what I mean. Fast forward to a night at a local bar where I see the ex fiancé and because I heard some not so nice things he said to my friend I grabbed him and cornered him to have a word. After I threatened him I gave him the truth about his ex. I said listen brother man to man she isn’t the one! Any ideas of you rekindling that flame need to be snuffed out immediately!!! She’s been w so and so behind your back and lying this whole time. I said she did you a fucking favor so go life your life. Then I walked off feeling like I spared him from misery I once had to feel. And what does this guy go and do? Not too long after the both of them get back together for round 2 only this time they go all the way. Wedding house and 2 children. Btw he was dating a new girl that he left for the ex to go back to my home girl. That stupid SOB didn’t listen to me and even worse he went and married his future to probably the worst choice he could’ve ever made lol. Bout 4-5 years later he was broke and w o a job or any savings left and she up and left him for a woman. Now he’s back at home w his parents w 2 young kids driving back n forth to his ex who moved into her GFS house which also was pretty nice btw to rub it into his face more. So He lost his wife, a beautiful house, his kids, and whatever dignity he had left all because he didn’t listen to me years ago that night on the street. Moral of the story never do what I tell you not to lol J/k .. when your family or friends take time to warn you about who “you’re in love with” 🤮 you better listen or you could end up like our friend in this story. And I even left out many of the soul crushing details.

Excellent_Leather207 · 2023-11-13T09:03:13+00:00

I personally know women who have been loyal to their partners all their life for years and are happily married. There are women which are hoes and there good ones. I think if you genuinely look for a long term relationship, you need to filter them properly and not just look at them with rose tinted glasses. At the same time overgeneralizing all women is as helpful as overgeneralizing all men. There are players which just want to casually fuck and there are guys which want a stable relationship. Not everybody is the same. The issue with the mentality of saying „she’s never yours, it’s only your turn“ is that if you expect the worst of a person, then you will treat the person worse as a result subconsciously and self sabotage your own relationship, which may end up in the relationship breaking. This creates a self fulfilling prophecy, where you can pet yourself on the back for being right in your prediction. I don’t want to dismiss the girls of all responsibilities, it always takes 2 to make a relationship work, but imagine how it would be if the girl by default assumes the worst of you even if you haven’t done anything wrong just because she had a bad view on men in general?

aberamax · 2023-11-13T19:34:44+00:00

This is also a clear lesson about 2 things: - when girls say that because you're engaged and they don't want to hang with you. It's a bullshit. You're just considered too ugly - when girls say they're engaged and they don't want to put at risk their relationship. It's a bullshit. You're just considered too ugly

Boys deceive themselves by saying "I'm engaged, she'll never accept a cheater" or "She's engaged, she'll never want to cheat". This is a big bluepill.

When girls want to get laid with Chad, existing relationships are kind of details of the story.

ThrowawayYAYAY2002 · 2023-11-13T11:21:27+00:00

For me, and this is from someone who has been so fucking hurt by women, the best thing to do is have a few fuck buddies, visit sex clubs, and just get my action when I need it. The commitment side of things is completely dead to me.

I was engaged to a woman who had told me she had a body count of 16. Yet there were 4 of us in her block/apartment block that had fucked her (I found this out later). That's a quarter of your body count all under one roof at the same time. Low-life shit. She initiated the "we're seeing each other now" part of the relationship. My mom was dying of cancer at the time too. So this broad was sleeping around during that time, and I took her to a concert with her friends, they went out after, she fucked another guy, and I'm going through what I'm going through and staying loyal and treating her like a queen? Nah man, thats wrong on every level. I wouldn't dream of doing that to anyone. Man have I learned since then. I can't and won't take them seriously as they are emotional and non-logical. And actions speak louder than words is all you need to remember with them.

I know that men get a bad rep, and we all know why. But when we're loyal we are loyal. And women by fucking far are worse than us. Heck, I read a story about how on a "hen night" the bride got fucked by the stripper, the grooms mom found out, and then gave the stripper a blow job! All in the name of fun, I guess.

Women can be ruthlessly cruel.

hostility_kitty · 2023-11-13T09:31:10+00:00

I’m a nurse. We had a young male tech float to the unit and one of the nurses took interest in him. She started flirting with him and saying, “I don’t normally do this, but I just think you’re really cute.” Poor guy was ignorant to the fact that she’s slept with at least a dozen guys on the unit already…

oskajoerg · 2023-11-13T16:21:26+00:00

I don't know if this is me moving to the acceptance phase, however, it doesn't hurt so more reading this. And thank you for a good post btw!

It stings a bit, and then I am like whatever that's how women are. Do other people have the same response?

James_Cruse · 2023-11-13T06:09:38+00:00

Nope, you don’t get it mate. What you said isn’t correct.

Men don’t OBTAIN women by taking action.

Women don’t passively SELECT. There is realy not selection, it’s more who can overhwelm her emotions and overwhelming her in other ways.

Selecting and Being Passive are mutually exclusive.

I understand this may be new to you, but it’s how women operate and it’s unfortunately not well known or understood by most men, even in this space

TheZimboKing · 2023-11-13T15:16:28+00:00

Not taking women seriously will solve 100% of your loyalty problems with women.

Can we move on now?

Mad_King · 2023-11-13T10:20:01+00:00

You should found out the guy and inform the poor fucker.

fumbduck2000 · 2023-11-13T12:43:35+00:00

Haha, wait till the woman reframes the situation as it is somehow her soon-to-be husband's fault.

Humans are programmed for hypergamy but somehow society says we should get married. It is fucking weird man.

I want to have children but without marriage, I don't know how can I accomplish that. Gotta find a way, don't wanna put my savings at risk for a cheating wife.

Nude_Tayne66 · 2023-11-17T06:31:17+00:00

Both men and women engage in this behavior. Sounds like you need a better group of friends as I don’t experience this in my life ;) you seem young, you’ll be fine, just get out of this cesspool of a sub and enjoy your life

ElectricObsessed · 2023-11-20T01:29:45+00:00

What I saw was a great reminder of the core red pill rule, "She's never yours, it's only your turn." Imagine being her boyfriend, spending so much money to buy her that ring and everything, only for her to cheat on you with some random guy who sees her as a sex toy for the night. Remember, Alpha fucks, beta buxx.

The thing is it does not prove that successful romantic relationships are impossible, but it does give you the lesson that if you overlook the red flags of sluttiness and cannot associate a girl's style and lifestyle with cheating, because you don't want to seem prejudiced, then you are in for a world of trouble. If you are good at identifying traditional values and even just loyalty by getting to know a girl, then it's easier to tell if she will be loyal, but even then of course, you never know what you're going to get because in life, nothing is guaranteed.

I guess in that way, the promise of a happy successful relationship after years of hard work and studying in college is a lie, but going as far as thinking that all women are this slutty would be a mistake. For many women, even if they had the opportunity to cheat on you and even if they had your permission, they would not feel comfortable with it, while for others it is no big deal. I have gotten pretty good at identifying that.

That random dude got it for free, while her "bf" had to pay for it, and seeing the circumstances I won't be surprised him getting divorced raped in the future. The girl looked Indian, so her bf might be some IT tech dude making 150k plus a year.

Marriage is definitely a scam for men though and I completely agree. On my mom's side, my grandmother is pro marriage because she only had daughters and she was brought up in a very religious household and became a feminist after the death of her husband from the independence she gained as a widow. Meanwhile, on my dad's side, my grandmother is against marriage because she had 2 boys and 1 girl and she knows about the unfairness of the marriage system because she is very well educated, isn't religious at all, and I think she knows that my uncle did go through some trouble in his marriage and what the consequences would have been if he had not fixed the situation.

Remember, marriage in the modern day is for fools. What I saw was just a reminder of why I can't ever go back on the plantation.

While I agree that marriage is never a good idea for men, I think it can be very limiting to think you cannot have a healthy fun romantic relationship with a woman where there is an equivalent exchange in terms of time and money spent on one another. I have seen plenty of healthy relationships, the thing is that they rarely last a lifetime, and that's the problem with marriage. But you can be in love with a woman for a couple months or even a few years. I think the problem is when you force yourself to stay miserable in a bad relationship due to a commitment you were pressured into making and that is not just marriage but having kids also. When you're in a childfree unmarried relationship though, then you are a lot more free to do a lot of things and you can leave whenever you want.

Efficient-Ad2392 · 2023-11-13T06:55:56+00:00

I find it hard to believe some of these field reports. “Her boyfriend is most likely a techie who makes 150k” . Either this is a sublime diss at someone or just made up to stir some ruckus with IT dudes dating Indian chicks.

LargeTry88 · 2024-01-07T12:09:39+00:00

Yeah but at the same time you were only her turn as well

Artanis_Aximili · 2023-11-13T17:09:11+00:00

"S-She's not yours, it's just your turn!"

It's such a dense MGTOW cope mechanism.

Many women when exposed to the unpredictability of the Alpha male become obsessed with him, which leads to her true devotion in many cases.

Gentlemen, don't let other guys intimidate you and make you doubt of your masculinity.

Malakyas_ · 2023-11-13T15:21:27+00:00

so if a guy does not have the height at all, he wont ever be a chad.

anthonycopy333 · 2023-11-15T03:20:52+00:00

“She’s not yours” is the most cucked idea i’ve seen come out of this space. Yes if you’re dealing with hoes that is true. But if you find a girl who’s a virgin/low exposure she can be all yours

dankovz · 2023-11-13T04:37:05+00:00

Only very very few are worthy…

DaddysMoans · 2023-11-15T05:55:20+00:00

This is the most fake story I've ever read LMAO. ""I will regret this in the morning, I have a bf who I will marry."

No one talks like this

sidgat · 2023-11-13T13:02:01+00:00

Are you looking to have an LTR and family with marriage in the future?

Title	Remember, She's Never Yours, It's Only Your Turn
Author	FarFromAverage7866
Upvotes	419
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Date	November 13, 2023 3:44 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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