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“Hamstering” is a well known concept around here that explain how women are trying to put some rationality back in their actions when they think about it.

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I would like to elaborate more on this topic, since I have the feeling people have only a surface understanding of this concept, don’t know how powerful this tool can be and how they can use it.

Explanation of the concept

Men and women both virtually have two brains: the headbrain (HB) and the penis/vaginabrain (PB / VB).

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The HB is the rational part of the human being. Marvel of the human kingdom, it’s the HB that put the humans where they are today. It allows us to have complex thinking process, to invent machines, medicine, buildings and arts. The HB cannot function without rationality, and it will rationalise every thought going through it. Male and female HB are equally powerful on average, with difference between individuals.

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The PB/VB is the animal part of the human being. It is our instinct, our sense of self-preservation. It is also more powerful than the HB, to different extent depending on the individual. Some people are able to keep their PB/VB in check for longer than others. But in the end, the PB/VB ALWAYS wins.

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HB is the one managing the everyday tasks, leading the woman in her life. And it is doing so for as long as VB allows it. VB is working more in the background, guiding discreetly the women toward its goals.

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Nonetheless, VB will take control from HB if HB is frustrating him for a long period of time or if a second state is reached ( i.e alcohol / drug usage).

The vaginabrain as the dominator of women

For men, life is easy. HB and PB usually say the same thing: FUCK HER RIGHT IN THE PUSSY. For women, it is a lot more complicated.

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VB pretty much says the same as PB, but their HB thinks about the social consequences, the risk, the dangers, the rumours, … of doing it. A well-known consequence of this is LMR, where VB led the woman all the way to your apartment but HB, in a last resistance attempt, will put barrier between the woman and the sex.

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Also, HB and VB desires are sometimes completely opposed.

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The best illustration of this struggle would be this one:

> HB wants feminism and equality, while VB wants being submitted and rough sex.

> HB want security and respect, but VB want rape and strong men (don’t rape women, it’s bad m’kay).

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This often puts women in difficult positions where they don’t understand what they did last night, or how they could have sex with this sexy guy when she has such a great life with her husband.

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It is also why they came to your apartment, choked on your dick and then accused you of rape: because HB can’t fathom another rational explanation for what just happened. You obviously forced her in some way, because she would never do that. HB never wanted to come to your apartment and choke on your dick, but VB did it anyway. Be careful with that in a society where women are not accountable for sex.

The vaginabrain as the ally of men

Once you know the existence of HB and VB, you will be able to learn how to use them as your advantage.

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VB is your best friend, it wants to fuck you. So you should discuss with it, not with the frigid HB.And that’s why you don’t:

> Ask the girl if she want to come to your place.

> Ask the girl if she likes buttstuff.

> Ask the girl anything, really.

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You don’t formulate what you want, because answering it calls for female cognitive functions which are in the HB kingdom. You want to completely avoid this guy.

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That's also why you don’t listen to what she says (HB talking), but only pay attention to what she does (VB doing).

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Regularly occurring example:

Her: “I never fuck on the first date”

Me: “Ok, let’s go to my apartment”

Her: “Ok”

And we fuck 15 minutes later.

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HB said “I don’t fuck…”, but VB led her in my apartment. (Thanks dude)

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Discussing with VB is actually quite simple, and you do that by following general advices already given on this sub:

> Touch the girl (kino)

> Give excuse to go to your place (plausible deniability)

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And that’s it really. The discussion during the date is only there to entertain HB, so it does not cockblock.

Conclusion TL/DR:

Avoid HB, he’s a dick.

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EDIT:

Guys, don't misinterpret what I'm writing here. HB matters, especially if you want to have a real connection with the girl. You just need to understand when he is piloting the girl and when he is not.

But don't discard everything related to HB.