Summary I was thinking about this, and noticed that TRP is actually more beneficial not just to the man, but to the women as well, it promotes more composed and controlled solutions and results in far fewer disagreements and fights.
Theory
I would argue one of the biggest issues with the Blue Pill is that it is forced, it seems at the surface like a noble ideology that makes sense but in truth, it is quite hypocrytical and will result in just more pain.
It is like when you watch a movie or series where the main character swears he will save everyone without killing anyone, it is quite a naive thought process which quite frankly will just end up with an even worse outcome.
TRP ideology allows us to understand that "doing constant acts of kindness doesn't result in entitlement to appreciation and affection."
A lot of men think that if they keep giving, the other person will be satisfied and pleased and it will lead to a happy relationship.
When the female suddenly has an outburst about something unfair, the man who used the equation "good deed + affection = appreciation" is suddenly confused and stumped when his methodical beta approach didn't deem desired results.
So what do they do? That is right, in the face of unfairness they flip their shit and come to the conclusion "the girl can't appreciate what she has and is being unreasonable".
Which just ends up in a huge fight.
If you have swallowed The Red Pill however, you are expecting such moments, and you know how to deal with them, you don't lie to yourself and hope it doesn't happen but you wait and await the moment it does happen.
Instead of calling the girl an ungrateful swine, you calm her down and ask her what is really up and take control of the situation.
By either calling her out on something that isn't true if she points it out.
Or by telling her "talk to me if it really bothers you once you have calmed down" and proceed by leaving the vicinity and give her alone time.
It is also the fact that a person who is following The Blue Pill ideology is going to be very reserved about his opinions and emotions should they contradict the partners.
They will keep quiet when the partner is mad at them for having a different opinion, or if they did something that they disagreed with, or whatever.
All of these negative emotions are suddenly repressed in the psyche, and all of this bottles up into an explosion, in comparison, a person with The Red Pill ideology understands that;
A. Your own opinion does not need to be kept a secret, you can state any opinion you wish for and thus, there is no need to worry about repressed emotions.
B. Simply the act of drawing the line by occasionally stating your dominance and what you are entitled to, (such as stating your opinion even though she will find it incredibly wrong) the girl is much more likely to realise there are some things that aren't worth prodding you about, that you have more than enough self respect not to take shit from her.
C. Should she however try to initiate an argument you will be capable of methodically handling the situation and knowing what to expect with a clear and cool head.
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