A lot of men in this space always talk about the "hot alpha chads". In all honesty, I hear more about men talking about other men's looks than focusing on getting some hot women for themselves. They'll use not being "hot" as an excuse.

Your mind will make or break you, but once you learn to use it to your advantage, you can do great things. That includes getting hot women.

Have you noticed that men will act a certain way and have ugly women chase them, but hot women are repelled by them? If these men applied the same principle to hot women, they would probably get the same results with hot women.

You see, a lot of men are cool, calm, and collected around women they're not attracted to, but once they start liking her, they get nervous, needy, and start to become an orbiter.

So, I suggest going for 5s and 6s until you can work your way up to a 7, 8 or 9. These should be your metrics, not other people's metrics. You'll realize that the women you get with will be a lot more cooperative. Why? You'll start behaving in a way that women are attracted to. You won't be walking on eggshells to keep her happy. You'll speak with more conviction and start instructing her to do things for you instead of saying "I don't know. What do you want to do?"

"Baby, go get me a bottle of water from the fridge."

(she gets it)

"Good girl."

(you smack her on her ass and give her a kiss)

If she gets mad at you, in your mind you may be thinking,

"I don't give a fuck. She should be glad I'm in a relationship with her"

Is the the right mindset to have? Yes! The reason why is because women get so much by being in a relationship with even the most unattractive man. This is why hot women don't have a problem marrying a beta male. He provides financial support (this is a woman's main motivation for marrying a man she's not attracted to). He gives her children. He protects her and her offspring. This may include a child she had from another man from a previous relationship. This is just the parts that men put emphasis on.

He also gives her male attention, listens to her problems, tries to cheer her up, takes her out on dates and does his best to make it the best experience she's had, spending time, money, and energy to make it happen.

So yes, ANY woman should be glad that you're in a relationship with her... especially if you have your shit together.

Getting back, once you get this mindset that you're valuable to this woman, if you break up with her, you'll want a hotter woman. If you interact with a hotter woman, and still maintain this mindset that you're valuable to women, if a hot woman isn't cooperative, you'll feel offended. The previous girl spoiled you because she way very cooperative.

You will realize that her beauty is just decoration and you'll dump her for a possibly less hotter woman, but is every cooperative. She doesn't have to be unattractive, but she may have a pretty face, but lacking in the "tits department". Her face may not be hot, but her body may be smoking hot.

The problem a lot of men have in this space is they don't have enough experience with women. They may have had one bad relationship with a woman, found TRP, and treat the Rational Male like the Bible without getting better with women and just chalk it up to AWALT. Then you have men who had a lot of bad experiences with women, found the Red Pill, and got better with women because the Rational Male filled the gaps they needed in dealing with women.

In all honesty, you may have a better relationship with a woman who's not really that hot. Why? Overcompensation. Hot women think that all they need to do is be hot and that's good enough. Women who aren't that hot put in work and exceed a man's expectations sometimes. There are fat women who will suck your soul out of your dick. If you want hot women to start overcompensating, you need to let them know that their beauty is useless to you, and treat her in that manner. Hot women tend to act right when a man expects more from her than her looks.

What are your thoughts?