Link to OP: https://archive.is/ftKlk

Summary: So he seems to suspect his girlfriend is not being completely honest and keeps showing up at her work-place following her and her (married with kids) co-worker and keeps catching them kissing/cuddling. Gives her 3 chances and she still keeps talking to him online setting up dates while in front of her boyfriend.

Body: Guy is obviously pretty clue-less but it seems he decided to leave her ass after all (not sure why he posted on reddit because hes not asking for advice?).

Some goldnuggets, this one is after catching them kissing for the first time:

She says she thought a lot about going to that lunch, and finally accepted, that she couldn't resist all the hit lines he threw at her, that she realized all the wrong she had done upon receiving my call, that I didn't give her enough hugs, that she wanted to marry and I still wanted to wait, etc. After a long talk we decide to kind of try again to fight for us.

At least I do believe the part where she says she wants to get married.

Uncomfortable week goes by. Next saturday we're watching a movie at home, and she starts checking instagram. Suddenly she starts writing direct messages with someone. I pretend to be watching the movie but I was actually trying to read her phone. I read that she tells him she misses him and he proposes to meet again the next day at the same place they did the week before (the day she was gone for 4 hours). Shen then apologizes a lot again, that she doesn't know what's wrong with her, etc.

After catching her setting up date with the guy after deciding to "fight for us" he still decides to give her another chance (strike 2?).

Another uncomfrotable week, some days she arrived home 2-3 hours later than usual. One day I tell her I'm going to cook dinner for her at home, but instead I wait again outside her workplace until her exit hour. She then comes down with the guy she's been meeting and start walking with him. They go to an ATM and as they wait in line, they touch hands, he caresses her face, etc. I then call her and tell her that was it, that I definitely didn't want to be with her and I'd start looking for my own place to live.

So she keeps fucking this married alpha from work (strike 3?) and he decides that enough is enough....well we all know that is not true:

The day I leave home, she cries and tells me that she doesn't want to lose me, that we should go to couples counseling (as I proposed at first when everything happened and she refused). I once again give in and we agree that even though I'm moving we'd work things out with a professional. We're having lunch and she starts showing me some funny posts on instagram, and as I see it, new notification pops in her phone saying she has some new messages on Tinder!!!

"Again I give in" and at least he learns that she is not only fucking her co-worker but random guys off tinder as well (strike 4, Im European so Im not that familiar with baseball-rules but Id like to think this means she is out doesnt it?).

And for the finale where her hamster tells her "she did nuffin wrong":

I finally leave, and she says that she's even madder than me for suggesting she's looking for relationships on Tinder, that she only wants friends, that I'm crazy for following her, hat I'm the worst person ever for abandoning her, that I should've fought for us instead of leaving, that she wanted to marry and I said we should wait, but when it comes to leaving the house I did it pretty quickly, etc.

Lessons learnt:

  • If you think your GF is cheating, she is
  • Dont believe someone who just got caught cheating, theyll tell you whatever they think you want to hear.
  • Hamsters gonna hamster