You are enough

herewegoaga1n · 2016-05-22T12:18:08+00:00

This is the closest thing to a hug I've ever read.

Pick your bros up when they're down, people.

SnarkyFella · 2016-05-22T13:24:46+00:00

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sarc0lupus · 2016-05-22T14:06:54+00:00

I like the motivation here, but as TRP and the truth re-iterate, motivation is masturbation: it's discipline that wins in the end.

OP, you have good intentions, and you are correct in saying there's no need to memorise lines, and that the best game is an internalised and customised version of your congruent, original self that you enjoy.

But I do get the feeling that some people reading this will take it away as "Just be yourself" and continue believing the garbage our mothers, women and society have told us through the years.

True, you are enough: just convey to the women you want to fuck that you truly believe that. Be the best of yourself.

redditalias7 · 2016-05-22T14:47:58+00:00

It's a test, and guys think they need to ace it when really they just need to not fail.

Nice line. This is pass/fail...you don't need to be head of the class.

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throwabcdaway · 2016-05-22T11:46:02+00:00

If only Jesus had lifted in his life ... ^{^}

introvertp · 2016-05-22T15:06:02+00:00

I was actually thinking about this just this morning. I've been in the game some time now and I still believe i have major work to do, but then I look and see girls who I've fucked/dated with just some regular dudes; pale, pot bellies, poorly groomed, etc.

I'm not judging these men, I don't know them, but you can't help but ask yourself is it worth it -- all of this we're doing.

Yesterday a girl said to me, "you seem to have me all figured out, I'm glad. I don't even have me figured out." And that stuck with me because the majority of people are just like that. What I'm trying to get at is; we've made this more complex than it should be in our efforts to better understand it and share the information with others. Thus we over think to the point were we can't act because the planets aren't perfectly aligned. Girls don't have their shit together as much as most of us in here do, a pick up can be sloppy to the point of total cringe and you can still get laid. Don't be mesmerized by their beauty they're in there heads more than you, they have jobs they hate, they're failing their business courses, they're self conscious in the mirror, they're self conscious of being on top, they stand in the club's like wall flowers waiting to get approached waiting for something to happen so they can post it the next day on social media, go up to them and say 'hi'.

Iblamethepolarbears · 2016-05-22T12:47:38+00:00

Definitely the kick in the butt I needed. I've been putting off getting out there for weeks because I'm "too skinny right now".

MattyAnon · 2016-05-22T18:04:12+00:00

"You are enough" is how to get past the shit test of "you have to prove yourself to me / you're not good enough for me".

Most men fail this by qualifying themselves or showing off from the get go... and women often bait them into doing it more. This gives women control and makes men unattractive.

You are enough and 2. Just have fun.

Logistics
Escalation

But that's it. Enough, fun, handle logistics (ie find out the options and plan accordingly), and escalate physically. That's more than enough right there.

bmer92 · 2016-05-22T13:44:41+00:00

I agree completely however I don't want to just be another notch on her belt. I lift to look like a god. I work on my personality to be as awe inspiring as a god. I don't want to gain entrance to her body or her mind. i want to leave such an impression on her that i will never be forgotten. I don't want to be a great man I want to be a god.

Moon_chile · 2016-05-22T15:26:45+00:00

Post like this make me have faith in this subreddit. I tell guys all the time that I love this place, and I get weird looks. But it's for stuff like this. Posts that empower men to confident and happy don't really appear a lot of places on the internet, and this is one of them. Thanks OP.

dmystery · 2016-05-22T16:35:30+00:00

This is especially true for minority ethnicity TRP guys who see their excess melanin as their biggest disadvantage; the kinda guys who when they see a cute girl have an internal dialogue of: "She would never go out with a chinese/nigerian/indian/korean guy"

That isn't a mindset of abundance and these would be the same guys who even if they were white would complain that they aren't tall/rich enough. Your race isn't the be all and end all of pick up. She won't go out with you because you're boring not because you're asian.

WolfofAnarchy · 2016-05-22T14:03:54+00:00

Is this sub truly about being so desperate for women you base your entire behavior on them? Real TRP (some posts here) are about yourself, not giving a damn about anyone else, but this shit is like /r seduction on steroids. Acting a certain way for a woman's approval. Despicable.

hyugafan · 2016-05-22T13:59:45+00:00

This wasn't as constructive as could be, but it was motivating. Thanks for writing.

Lord_Fucker · 2016-05-22T13:50:55+00:00

The difference lies in girl dynamic. I'd suggest to concentrate not on the muscle side but on overall intelligence. This will greatly improve the quality of girls around you e.g. at least you'd be better in sorting them out.

3rdiguy · 2016-05-22T13:55:28+00:00

Thanks man this was a great post.

PATRIOTZER0 · 2016-05-22T17:08:22+00:00

This is a real confidence booster. I've had that mentality too. Man, I need to get into shape. I'm not bad but I'm not confident in myself either. Problem is getting into shape never seems to happen. I'm an uncommitted committed mofo lol.

Ferocian · 2016-05-22T17:21:57+00:00

I know a guy who's slept with more women than anyone else I know. He's fat and he smokes but he's really forward and he just doesn't give a fuck. So much of it is just presenting women with the option. Of course if you want women to want to stick with you past a ONS you'll want to do more, but the point is that the OP is correct, you CAN get women in your current state. That shouldn't stop you from self improvement though. The better you are, the better woman you can get.

2016-05-22T18:26:09+00:00

The hard fact is also that women decide if they let their pussy be fucked or not. WOMEN CONTROL WHETHER SEX HAPPENS OR NOT.

Most women will not have sex unless you get to know them first, or make some promises/tie some bonds with her. This is because 1) She doesnt want to be seen as a slut, 2) She doesnt want to get used like some trash. She wants some guarantees and fuck a guy who is actually going to support her in some way or other.

All this is really basic knowledge.

Of course there are also girls who just want to fuck. They are slut if they do it without dating you. Its a hard fact. You just have to find them, but understand that a girl who will fuck you on the first days of meeting you is probably not a very clean girl to begin with.

fuk_offe · 2016-05-23T02:46:58+00:00

Why deleted..? Anyone havê archived post?

Polishrifle · 2016-05-22T16:00:36+00:00

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TWYW · 2016-05-22T12:52:57+00:00

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Thaweed · 2016-05-22T13:17:52+00:00

You are totally right, but i dont wonna bang 6s and 7s.

DforDeadpool · 2016-05-22T12:22:53+00:00

Now go to Youtube. Search for pickup. I'd say pick a random video but go for the balding ginger. Start watching. Now mute it, you don't need to hear that gamey beta approachbot shit. And just think, "Even if those betas get laid, that means I can get laid too, with less effort and more rewards". High SMV and status is the best form of game, but you don't need to be perfect as nobody probably will achieve perfection. Give no fucks, have fun, go for what you want.

Meristry · 2016-05-22T15:13:17+00:00

Get some buds and go to a club/bar, and dance your ass off. Don't give a fuck. Just get drunk and go wild, the dumber you look the better. Have fun. Go around and high five random ass people. Chances are you and your mates will be the only people there actually having fun and girls will either come to you or you can simply tell them to come have fun and dance with them.

This works. The amount of males in a club silently taking sips from their beers and dancing statically is staggering. It only takes some dance moves, laughs, and good atmosphere to be noticed.

throwaweight7 · 2016-05-22T13:26:52+00:00

Where does ambition come from?

Jakei34 · 2016-05-22T15:37:30+00:00

Even before you made this post, I tried something like this. I still think I need to raise my SMV to get whatever I want from females, but I had just recently turned a conversation with a girl at school into a sex one and literally looked her in the eyes and asked "Would you have sex with me?" (That wasn't my goal) but I was like wtf, why not. And the aenswer surprised me, which was yes. But still, that doesn't mean I shouldn't improve myself, because I'll get the same answer from HB9 ;)

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-05-22T18:04:01+00:00

The biggest mindfuck is when you are suddenly 'no longer enough' in the eyes of a girl. Some other guy is better and you get told you don't measure up. Then this guy hears the same shit one or two years later on.

Women have a list full of qualities they want in the guy their fucking- and they throw that list away when they start liking a guy. Then they pick that list back up when they lose attraction.

This is the mindfuck of women.

DarkisKnight · 2016-05-22T18:34:42+00:00

Doing trumps planning, methodology or prep in just about everything. This holds true for business, learning new skills, and gaming women. You learn far more if you get out and try something than if you just sit at home preparing and planning. Before you know it that could end up being your whole life. Carpe Diem. Don't "think," "DO!"

TrapDour · 2016-05-22T20:12:34+00:00

These two suggestions definitely hold true in my world. I've always been a bit self conscious about my looks,but now and days I act like hot shit, and get treated as such. The ultimate realization is that nothing changed except my acceptance of myself and the resulting confidence that come with such a thing.

Remember that song with the chorus something along the lines of "girls just wanna have fun"? Well it's true as fuck. If you look like you're having fun then they want some of that fun,and in turn you. I know this because to this day, my most effective method for picking up randoms is to drawn them in on the dance floor. Once I get there attention there it's it's pretty much over. Physical escalation and conversation are a breeze.

Mach15 · 2016-05-22T18:26:05+00:00

Sorry, you can't have it both ways. Either women are status/attraction seeking hamsters, and only a few guys can fuck the hot ones, or they' not.

Stop acting like "everyone" can do it. No. Not everyone can do it. Only powerful men, with money, looks, big cocks, and character can.

Sometimes I feel like this forum is a fucking support group. Most of you will never fuck a hot chick.

In b4: "but I know a fat guy who fucks hot girls!".

Stage_4 · 2016-05-22T13:46:03+00:00

This is bullshit. You are "enough" if you are in the top 20% in every category. If you go out attempting to get it before you are qualified, you will only endure more despair. Your post gives false hope. The only hope is to out compete 8/10 men in whatever context you are attempting to spit game in. Anything else is a pretty little lie. If I wanted those, I'd go to TwoX. Also, hugs are for women and faggots

Areu4realm8 · 2016-05-22T13:13:40+00:00

bluepill acceptance is like fat acceptance. it doesnt work irl buddy

Lgr777 · 2016-05-22T16:47:22+00:00

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leftenant_t · 2016-05-22T13:56:22+00:00

Last Friday, I went to a club for the first time because a famous DJ would be there. I did not care about picking up bitches and honestly I did not know what to do either. Because I had never experienced club scene before. I thought I would look totally weird and embarrass myself.

But as soon as beat dropped, I said "Fuck that, I am here to entertain myself, not anyone else." In fact, everybody was their own thing, not giving a shit about others. So I did my own thing too and realized I was right after random girls came and grinded their asses on my crotch.

dicklord_airplane · 2016-05-22T14:04:50+00:00

i need to tell myself this all the time because i get stuck on perfectionism. it holds you back.

for anyone else that deals with neurotic perfectionism and insecurity, what helps me snap out of it is to think about my female counterparts and how silly it seems to me. its an exercise in taking women off the pedestal: think about a pretty neurotic girl who freaks out and wants to stay home because her outfit, hair, or makeup isn't perfect; she thinks she's fat because shes not at a perfect 4% body fat; she thinks she's dumb even though she got a respectable degree and made a career with it. all of this causes her to sabotage relationships. silly, right? but i do the same neurotic, perfectionist bullshit if i don't keep a lid on it and focus on taking actions that put myself in stellar mood.

Stythe · 2016-05-22T14:28:46+00:00

It's true, though obviously to varying degrees. Women are attracted to a strong personality. It's the quivelent of a fit body to a man. Obviously the better shape you're in, the more money you make and all that stuff sweetens the pot, but the attitude is one of the biggest things tou can have. Then just play the numbers game. You'll find something eventually.

Really, the reason to lift, work and improve is for you, not women. The women are a side effect that comes from the status and cofidence tou get from these things. They come because someone who puts their focus in these areas has self-respect and damn it, they need to break it!

moveon4ever · 2016-05-22T16:54:25+00:00

This, there is no need for philosophy guys!!

btw how do you approach most casually?

Title	You are enough
Author	aRedThought
Upvotes	291
Comments	97
Date	May 22, 2016 10:11 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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