A reminder that terms like conservative and religious should be taken with a silo of salt.

wordjedi · 2024-05-05T18:37:05+00:00

"Don't have a porn addiction"

Translation: My partner got bored with me which was a big part of why he left. Just letting you know, I don't do much in the bedroom and don't plan to change.

bigdaveyl · 2024-05-05T20:01:50+00:00

I laugh when I see shit like this. How about "finding God" before you have 4 kids and aren't with the dad(s).

I'm not saying U-turns aren't allowed, but I have a feeling that the man she wants won't feel the same.

Joaquino7997 · 2024-05-05T18:00:20+00:00

This whole profile gives off a bad smell, as if she's looking to get married 90 days after the first date.

Hard pass.

jamaicanroach · 2024-05-05T19:33:25+00:00

Conservatives out here twisting themselves into pretzels to avoid owning the fact that modern women are modern women, and come in both left and right flavors lol. There are (rare) good women on both sides of the political aisle, and a ton of horrible women on both sides. But we're apparently not ready for that conversation.

BecomingABetterMan1 · 2024-05-05T21:14:29+00:00

She realized she needed salvation after she went air tight with the Three Kings in a manger.

Never trust a woman who found Jesus in her late 20s.

gabriel-kornilov · 2024-05-05T21:20:58+00:00

A 38 years old pot smoker single mother of 4 (how many different fathers?) with colored hairs all of a sudden believes in God and 'traditional' values? Better late than never, right? What a miracle! Run whoever you are. You're just a potential wallet for her.

freedomisatreasure · 2024-05-05T19:44:50+00:00

She uses terms like conservative as in she expects whoever courts her to be conservative, to have a conservative "self-sacrificing-yourself-for-her-sake" mentality. In this way, she doesn't even have to manipulate her suitors. They already come pre-manipulated from the "protecting and providing" mentality, the type of guys that manipulate themselves, so she won't have to.

Venny_1 · 2024-05-05T22:19:27+00:00

There exists the notion among women claiming to have found religion later in life that they have been purified of their ill deeds and mischiefs in the eyes of the divine, which in turn should make them appear pure in the eyes of man. Hardly is this ever the case, because the way that God and man judge a woman is different, for vastly different reasons.

To those of a religious bent, God judges a woman in the sense that he gave her conscience and free will, followed by a list of commands to follow, where she will be judged on the basis of observing or breaking these commands. If a woman breaks a command and she repents, i.e. admit to the sin, followed by abstaining from the sin, followed by correctly observing the command, then she will be purified of the sin. The aforementioned three components of repentance are very similar in the scriptures of Judiasm, Christianity and Islam.

On the other hand. a man judges a woman in the sense that he cares about her past with no ornaments or excisions. Just the past, naked. He wants to know her past and that's it. No circumstance, no journey of discovery, no purification. None of that. Just plainly and simply: what is the woman's past. The reason for man's immense focus on a woman's past is he wants to accurately gouge the return on investment if he were to provide for and protect a woman. It is also the only metric by which a man can measure paternity assurance. Paternity assurance is relative, not absolute. This means that it comes with a confidence level which a woman bestows upon a man, the highest level of which only a chaste virgin woman can extend.

God may purify her of her sins, if he so chooses, but the consequences of her sins are ever present in the form of too much baggage and too low a paternity assurance. Man is too feeble to carry all this. Perhaps she can pray to God to do her another favor and carry that baggage as well.

Illustrious_Bus9486 · 2024-05-05T20:34:11+00:00

"Reformed" 304.

Overkillengine · 2024-05-05T23:36:59+00:00

A truly conservative/traditional woman wouldn't have put herself in the position where she'd need a bailout from a history of non-traditional non-conservative decisions; or at the very least would accept that she is not deserving of one as a recent convert.

You know, instead of showing up hungover and bitter at the afterparty still dripping from all holes with a list of demands that she clearly does not reciprocate in kind for.

This is just a predator (poorly) donning a coat of camouflage.

hongsta2285 · 2024-05-06T02:34:01+00:00

More like I'm looking for a God fearing man

Wtf Most of them don't even fear God himself with the way they say they are Christians don't practice Christianity then have the audacity to be selective with their faith. Tell me wtf in the bible it says marry kids outta wedlock and rip till death to us part

Selective beneficial faith doctrine

Obey this blah blah

But yeah don't wanna be a help meet

These POS are the worst. Wow ure Christian name 10 commandments um ugh argh hmmm yeah... most of them can't do shite

h6d · 2024-05-06T13:54:42+00:00

Yea that’s insanely creepy how these women are lurking around churches looking to prey on: innocent, single, unaware men like us

Sylvinus98hun · 2024-05-06T11:10:32+00:00

The only thing that was missing is saying she's a "reborn virgin". Oh, and the fact her kids will be the dad's, too!

Ambitious_Scientist_ · 2024-05-06T10:28:43+00:00

It doesn't look like a duck and doesn't quack like a duck, so it isn't a duck.

DrDog09 · 2024-05-08T18:42:12+00:00

With 4 kiddos something tells me she ran thru all the known political positions possible in he US. "Bobby's dad is a Libertarian, Frank's dad is an independent ...". So going 'conservative' is her last chance?

Low_Breakfast3669 · 2024-05-09T02:17:16+00:00

Conservative isn't to worrying, but religious, depending on the profile, is almost an instant no.

Waaaay to many "born again virgin" single moms out their wearing religion like a skin suit.

clarkwgriswoldjr · 2024-07-23T20:20:13+00:00

Don't most people have their wisdom teeth removed?

There goes the man with all their teeth.

Used_Preference8500 · 2024-08-03T19:28:38+00:00

The fat shall inherit the earth.

Title	A reminder that terms like conservative and religious should be taken with a silo of salt.
Author	MelkorHimself
Upvotes	94
Comments	36
Date	May 5, 2024 5:25 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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