Poor planning on your part does not...

Common-Ferret-1435 · 2024-08-28T12:20:12+00:00

I see women on bumble at 47 saying they’re open to having kids. Are they insane?

Every woman I know in her thirties has massive trouble conceiving. The window is very short.

Joaquino7997 · 2024-08-28T13:12:12+00:00

So many subpar, unattractive, low effort men

I am starting to take more umbrage with this type of comment. What EXACTLY is considered 'par' for these women? If by that they mean 'man who makes no less than $200K working a 30-hour work week, well over 6 feet tall, muscular superhuman,' then good fucking luck with that! Not even Superman himself can meet all these requirements.

And they need to get the fuck over themselves with this "low effort" mess. There are men out here who WOULD be willing to pay for dates (within reason), but when one finds that she's banging some unemployed bummy mofo who plays video games in his mom's basement; it sorta, oh I don't know...REINFORCES the idea.

StickySmokedRibs · 2024-08-28T12:31:48+00:00

Ah. Mid to upper 30s ladies who think they still deserve the 10/10 knight in shining armor. I can’t say I have any sympathy for these harpies.

freedomisatreasure · 2024-08-28T14:58:06+00:00

Rhetorical question: how is it that "holding out for the right one" is right for her, but "not in a rush" is not quite as good for guys? That's the vibe i'm getting from her! She can wait and "hold out", but guys should not do the same, they should just be on HER timetable! How does that work ??

last_scoundrel · 2024-08-28T13:20:29+00:00

I love that all of a sudden they're in a rush, as if the countdown hasn't been on for decades... conversely I have also seen plenty of women of that age bracket oh apps stating that they aren't in a hurry and don't want to rush anything. Sounds great... ten years ago.

Enjoy your autistic monstrosities, ladies. You get to put a cool bumper sticker on your midrange crossover.

IceCorrect · 2024-08-28T15:25:18+00:00

She have done most of "right" thing to do: -explore her sexuality to put bar as high as possible -push her career to reduce her dating pool -you DESERVE everything -you are the prize

I wonder what else "right" things her liberal friends advice her, but she would never blame those who gave her bad advice that she is still unmarried after 15-20 years of dating.

Valuable_Following_2 · 2024-08-28T15:36:01+00:00

Women denying biological facts and saying it's the patriarchy (so men) spouting myths lol.

Just a reminder that these bimbos are allowed to vote and are the majority of voters. What an amazing idea the 19th was (not).

AtkinsCatkins · 2024-08-29T00:00:37+00:00

the instant she mentions "patriarchal society" i know full well what kind of person she is, and how her story ends.

PirateDocBrown · 2024-08-28T14:55:38+00:00

Egg freezing almost never works, and when it does, it's mostly when a woman mid 20s or lower froze them for use later.

Embryo freezing is much more successful, but again it works best with foresight.

Her best best now would be egg donation, ie. using another woman's eggs.

Eterniter · 2024-08-28T19:06:22+00:00

There's a lot to unpack here. I don't know if these cases are funny and provided entertainment or outright sad.

37, still believes she is a 10 and "deserves the best", usually most women go through this "I deserve the absolutely best" phase up until their late 20ies until they realize they were a 6 all along and settle for some poor guy.

Hates the nuclear family type, hates conservatives in general but wants a traditional man and wonders why there's no one available.

Gives bad advice to younger girls. Unlike us men who instruct younger guys on what to avoid based on our experiences in dating so far, women advise younger women to just repeat what they also did. Instead of telling that girl to find a guy to settle early, she instead says that when she is young in her 20ies, she has a lot of time to make mistakes and not to worry.

I could go on and on about how delusional and out of touch she is based on her posts but we all know she is going to end up with 5 cats and wine on the table every Christmas, alone.

RedMeatTrinket · 2024-08-28T16:10:19+00:00

My wife and I had out 3rd kid when she was 35 and she was done with kids. I can't imagine someone suddenly deciding for their first kid in their late 30s. I think one key comment in that was someone saying that likes dried up on dating apps after 35. Yeah. No dude is looking for a women to have kids with who are that old. She just waited too late. Too many years of having fun the realizing she's going to die lonely.

AtkinsCatkins · 2024-08-29T18:27:57+00:00

In youth women seem to have the belief that they "Have all the cards" but as we know as time goes on, each and every card gets transferred to the point that at 40+ he holds all the cards.

Time is the friend of men and the enemy of women.

DrDog09 · 2024-08-31T16:49:48+00:00

It will be an interesting world if/when the artificial womb becomes a reality.

InevitableOwl1 · 2024-09-01T10:40:03+00:00

I haven’t seen any comment about the very first part - the “burned haystack” method. I had to look it up.

Apparently it involves brutally eliminating 99% of your dating pool before you even start. Including through having a really “bitchy” dating profile

And yet she seems to express shock that this method hasn’t worked and therefore needs to change.

“It results in finding no one to go out with” - no shit. It takes an extreme amount of cognitive dissonance to assume this would ever work. Dating apps are all about luck anyway so anyone who it has worked for just had luck and could have had the same luck without this “method”

Title	Poor planning on your part does not...
Author	polishknightusa
Upvotes	75
Comments	88
Date	August 28, 2024 12:05 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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